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Originally posted by: shruthiravi
Umaji her aspiration for a grandchild from Sooraj started when Daisa and co instigated her.
Just like she did the 15 day marriage of Sooraj, to show off herself in front of the hanuman gali she pushed SURYA so that she can get what she wants. All her following actions are to win the 3 month challenge and when SURYA didnt allow her that she became resentful.Coming to Singapore, she warmed up to Sandhya not because of their closeness, but because her son was getting recognized and Sandhya was helping in that.Also if she really cared for Sooraj's conjugal happiness why did she tell " I am not giving you my son, but I need a grandson" by that she meant , she married Sooraj only to get a house servant and a waaris, but his love and obedience needs to be only to her.Coming to money, if she cared for Sooraj she would have asked Vikram to pay that back. That is another incidence which brings the hollowness in her character. But she chose to ignore it as she was again instigated that Sandhya proved her wrong.Yes she can bring differences in them, which she has already done. Liq choc is going to be a big lie between SURYA till it comes out. And if the dream proceeds she will not hesitate to do something else too.And last but not the least in today's episode Sooraj clearly told where his happiness lay. Hope Bhabo understands.
Shruthi, the inspiration for a grand child came long before Maasa came into the picture. There would be no papad controversy without that or her looking at Suraj's childhood clothes and asking Meena not to touch them as they are meant for Suraj's child are clear examples of that desire. Her wanting a waaris is a natural thing among most traditional MIL. What is wrong with that. You are again applying your liberal thought to a traditional milieu MIL. All mothers get their son's married to give them a progeny. If you expect an uneducated MIL to be so modern that she supports her son's desire for his wife to be IPS at the cost of not having marital happiness or children, than let me tell you even the so called educated in laws will not support IPS, Bhabo is after all a traditionalist. Regarding her not asking Vikram for payment because she is hollow, than applying that principle she should not ask Mohit and Vikram to pay up for monthly dues and make Suraj pay for it as a sort of punishment for his supporting his wife through out and the other two kowtowing before her. She should just sit tight and not help Suraj after his shop disaster and say since you are so supportive of your wife you both make the sweets and deliver. If her ego had been greater than love for her son she would have definitely done these two.She didn't. She helped Suraj to make good his loss and also insisted others contribute to household expenditure.She would not have admitted Sandhya to a day college or brought her to the examination hall to appear for the exam if her ego had been greater than her conscience. Bhabo is not the black woman you are trying to portray. She has shades of grey. She blows hot and cold because there is a struggle in her mind between her insecurities, her possessiveness, her son's total absence of marital life, his future without his wife by his side and her innate sense of fairness and pangs of guilt conscience. She grapples with all these sentiments. She is torn between her love for her son, her ego and her guilt of illtreating a golden hearted girl.At different stages each of these sentiments take an upper hand.
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