What's wrong with dying your hair? - Page 6

Originally posted by: Shwets1502

For each and everyone a first impression is formed...when I spoke to you I formed an impression and same would have been from your side too. Those impressions are based on our view of life. Now when I see a colored haired person I do form thoughts about that person...but in due course that will change when I come to know more about the person.
If you take the opposite case...if a person whom I know colors their hair my impression about them will not change because I know abt the person.

No body is stopping them from doing that...as they have the freedom to like some take the freedom not to like it

It depends on how the person behaves after coloring..I mean if they still behave normally we cannot say they are obsessed..but if they behave like Raashi is doing...then definitely obsession is there.

Judgments are made spontaneously. We can then ponder about and change. Bt first thoughts are very difficult to stop.

Originally posted by: silvermoonlight

I'd be concerned with the chemicals in the hair dye

It ruins hair and I've always thought it leads to premature white hair

I've dyed and highlighted my hair a few times and my hair felt less soft

It's also know to cause allergic reactions 

Those clip on color strands are cute and I'd be ok with a child of Rasshi's age using those..not permanent or harmful 

Originally posted by: VishalCksp

agree 😆

well then that theory of knowing risks and choice can be used towards anything..makeup, hair dye, boyfriends, sex, and pregnancy

Whats the use of parents then?  Parents are there to guide there kids from right and wrong..kids in their teens run more on hormones and emotions than reason and logic

Kids get sex ed in class, they know the risks, ie STD, pregnancy etc..but when their hormones are running high..all that goes out the window..its up to parents to guide their children from ruining their lives

dying hair or not is not the real issue..its whether kids should be allowed to get away with things and what the limits are? 

If my kid goes and dyes their hair without informing me at 13 or 14, well then whose to say what he/she will do by age 15 or 16 and so forth

if my child came to me and asked me, we would discuss it, and agree on something which doesn't completely ruin their hair

Originally posted by: silvermoonlight

well then that theory of knowing risks and choice can be used towards anything..makeup, hair dye, boyfriends, sex, and pregnancy

Whats the use of parents then?  Parents are there to guide there kids from right and wrong..kids in their teens run more on hormones and emotions than reason and logic

Kids get sex ed in class, they know the risks, ie STD, pregnancy etc..but when their hormones are running high..all that goes out the window..its up to parents to guide their children from ruining their lives

dying hair or not is not the real issue..its whether kids should be allowed to get away with things and what the limits are? 

If my kid goes and dyes their hair without informing me at 13 or 14, well then whose to say what he/she will do by age 15 or 16 and so forth

if my child came to me and asked me, we would discuss it, and agree on something which doesn't completely ruin their hair

Well then thats the difference between good parenting and bad parenting.

I think parents should 'train' kids to come talk to them about any issues at an early age

and if the parents say no, then it has to be with a good reason...unlike brown parents who show the slap and say no... personally I would discuss and try to strike some kind of deal

the point is to have kids come talk to you...once they think they can make decisions on their own without parental input...its tricky.

teens dont think like adults..thats why they have parents.

those same kids that are dying their hair at age 13...some of them are having sex at that same age..so its important to set rules and be involved in your childs life

Growing up in downtown Toronto..Ive seen it all..including my 15 year old classmates with baby carriages..

Originally posted by: silvermoonlight

Well then thats the difference between good parenting and bad parenting.

I think parents should 'train' kids to come talk to them about any issues at an early age

and if the parents say no, then it has to be with a good reason...unlike brown parents who show the slap and say no... personally I would discuss and try to strike some kind of deal

the point is to have kids come talk to you...once they think they can make decisions on their own without parental input...its tricky.

teens dont think like adults..thats why they have parents.

those same kids that are dying their hair at age 13...some of them are having sex at that same age..so its important to set rules and be involved in your childs life

Growing up in downtown Toronto..Ive seen it all..including my 15 year old classmates with baby carriages..

Originally posted by: Freethinker112

About teen parents, we all know well that no amount of rule can stop people who get adamant on things. Parents can just hope for a kid who learns to distinguish what is good for him from the bad.

Originally posted by: ITrustMyHeart

What does that mean? 

 Wouldn't you even impose some rules and try to stop them? What if some  ten year old goes around having sex? You would overlook him/her and fold your hands? Sometimes rules are important to maintain the decorum, every child couldn't be you and me to be within limits, being strict is necessary too, but in a friendly way.