She is Indira Rishi Kumar !! - Page 3

Originally posted by: aware92

i don intend to hurt anyone but whats wrong in keeping ur maiden name?? i don understand y its always women who have to change their surname or initials...men don put their women's name after their name right???

even in forms its always father/husband's name only...in very few form they ask for mothers name n in fewer for spouse still wife word is not present anywhere...

Originally posted by: Heema22

If this the only topic of discussion then the episode was not bad. ( I have not seen yet.)

I am married and I took my husbands name without any ones pressure. My husbands or his family never questioned it. I never thought I was doing it for any other reason than wanting to share every thing with him and I did it for our children ( in future ) . Children are very fragile when they are younge and they get confused when they see two different names and their own name is connected to their father.

To show unity in the family it's better to change name. Changing name did not take away my identity or self respect or did not increase any more respect to my husband. This is universal and was started for legal purposes .Also as Dia said. It helps with bills. Taxes. Properties settlement and makes life easier.

I also know lots of people who do not change their name it's ok too. They just have to deal with headaches with other different things.

I personally love to hear Indira Rushi Kumar and Indu RISHI Kumar . Sounds like one family and does Indira really want to be connected to Inder Sharma ? Or Sharmas in any way ! May be this chage will bring happiness in her life !

Originally posted by: TanHa911

I love how you put it. I am a very independent , educated and successful young woman and by God's grace I have excelled in whatever field I stepped into until now. But if and when I find a man I love enough to marry him, Ill surely take his name . Taking your husbands name doesn't interfere with your professional life or achievements . I am glad to hear you are successful .

1 . Because I am a very possessive person, I'd like the world to know that he is mine , baaki ladies hands off 😎 I am with you. I am exactly the same

2. LIke you said, for unity in the family , for the sake of children. This is very important issue for children . Many modern gals do not think about this in advance .

3. Taking on my husbands name will NOT strip me of any of MY accomplishments. In fact it'll reinforce it. That I have found success in my personal life too - I found someone I love and respect enough to connect my name to his ! great

So I LOVE the fact that Indira is using her husbands name. She is someone who understands the importance of a husband and a father in the family unit ... unlike some feminist psycho who'd always try and one-up the man for NO reason and try to put him down by insisting she keeep her maiden name. Pati ka kuch nahin jayega, tumhe hi ladke raste mein chedenge 😆. At least if you use your husbands name, you'll be known as a married woman and lechers will give you your space !