Does Gopi realize her mistake?

Unfortunately I dont think so...not yet atleast..if she had, she would have apologized immediately. Gohem and Koki hold no ego when they have to apologize once they realize their mistake. Koki has apologized to Urshi and Gopi in the past when she thought she made a mistake. Ahem has done that too. They never make excuses and apologize immediately. But Gopi did not do that. The first thing Ahem told her was that she should have told him atleast. Gopi was shocked to silence when he said that but then when she tried talking to him again, she continued to defend herself and asked him what could she do. He had to remind her again that he would have helped her and guided her if she had confided in him. She had no answer to him again, yet did not apologize. She tried talking to Koki thrice yesterday and every time she continues to try to convince her that she tried to tell her the truth. She is not accepting that she became a little selfish to save Urmi along with Koki. She has still not realized that Urshi do not deserve this kind of loyalty from her, definitely not at the cost of Kohem .

fab post Deepa.. will come bak later to comment further if i remember

Dipsy I don't think that Gopi thinks that she did wrong. In her eyes she tried to tell her maaji time and time again but was always thwarted by Urmila. The fact that she did not get a chance at the time does not figure because in her mind she was wanted to tell Koki at some point. Unfotunately, the truth came out before she got the chance.

Originally posted by: Xarina

Dipsy I don't think that Gopi thinks that she did wrong. In her eyes she tried to tell her maaji time and time again but was always thwarted by Urmila. The fact that she did not get a chance at the time does not figure because in her mind she was wanted to tell Koki at some point. Unfotunately, the truth came out before she got the chance.

Originally posted by: dipsy80

but she is just thinking about how she was stopped from telling Koki...nobody stopped her from telling Ahem right?...she told Ahem yesterday that she had warned Urmi that she will have to reveal the truth to the police..but she didnt do it! so what is the point of her warnings.. and what whose family honor was she trying to save? it was not some stranger rotting in jail in Urmi's place..it was her MIL, her family...she chose Urmi's kk to get Koki out...it's just not like Gopi to do something like that right?...delaying telling the truth to Koki is not her only mistake...and that is what Gopi does not realize...yet..

Sorry Dips. Started to count money and got waylaid.🤣 I hope that Gopi makes the right decision. If only for our sakes but we can already see that her maami still has a place in her heart 😡.

Originally posted by: Xarina

Sorry Dips. Started to count money and got waylaid.🤣 I hope that Gopi makes the right decision. If only for our sakes but we can already see that her maami still has a place in her heart 😡.

Dipsy, Gopi thinks she has hurt Ahem and Koki but like Xari says, she does not actually understand why they are hurt and angry completely.

I think that is where Koki's taunts will work. From the top it will look like Koki is just being mean but the truth is Gopi needs to know. She needs to understand what KoHem are trying to say..

Lets be honest. Gopi maybe smart but she is an emotional fool. She thinks she can please everybody. So for her, trying to tell the truth to her maaji was supposed to placate her as not telling the truth to the police had placated Urmi. Unfortunately I don't think Ahem even came into her equation. That is what has to change.

Gopi is apologizing. Apology has different takes Dipsy. Gopi going to Koki on some pretext or the other is a form of apology. It is actually done when someone is so angry with you that they do not talk to you properly. You do everything you can to make them go back to normal so that you can apologize. This is just Gopi trying to do that.

But one thing is for sure. UrShi won't make it easy for her., Like Rashi's video and Urmi's suicide threat, there will be multiple times going forward when Gopi will face problems from these two but she hopefully comes out wiser and stronger.

Don't expect her to apologize like Koki does to others or Ahem does as he stammers😆 Apology to someone you consider third person is different from the apology you ask to your loved one. With a loved one, the simple words are more complicated than ever. It will come.. The best apology is when Gopi not just says sorry but also makes sure she does not repeat the mistake again.. I don't want this sorry of Gopi's to be like RAshi's.. only in words. It has to be in spirit too😊

Originally posted by: Justlikethat1

Dipsy, Gopi thinks she has hurt Ahem and Koki but like Xari says, she does not actually understand why they are hurt and angry completely.

I think that is where Koki's taunts will work. From the top it will look like Koki is just being mean but the truth is Gopi needs to know. She needs to understand what KoHem are trying to say..

Lets be honest. Gopi maybe smart but she is an emotional fool. She thinks she can please everybody. So for her, trying to tell the truth to her maaji was supposed to placate her as not telling the truth to the police had placated Urmi. Unfortunately I don't think Ahem even came into her equation. That is what has to change.

Gopi is apologizing. Apology has different takes Dipsy. Gopi going to Koki on some pretext or the other is a form of apology. It is actually done when someone is so angry with you that they do not talk to you properly. You do everything you can to make them go back to normal so that you can apologize. This is just Gopi trying to do that.

But one thing is for sure. UrShi won't make it easy for her., Like Rashi's video and Urmi's suicide threat, there will be multiple times going forward when Gopi will face problems from these two but she hopefully comes out wiser and stronger.

Don't expect her to apologize like Koki does to others or Ahem does as he stammers😆 Apology to someone you consider third person is different from the apology you ask to your loved one. With a loved one, the simple words are more complicated than ever. It will come.. The best apology is when Gopi not just says sorry but also makes sure she does not repeat the mistake again.. I don't want this sorry of Gopi's to be like RAshi's.. only in words. It has to be in spirit too😊

Harini bang on. You have put it in a nutshell. 👏