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Hi guys,
So I am Shifali and I think I have interacted/moderated most of you in this forum including the topics etc and may I say that I have been labelled the most biased person here?
Funny thing? VD fans think I am biased towards DD fans and DD fans think I am biased towards VD fans. So I mean, if you guys have to label me biased, at least pick a side to label me as. *major eye roll*
Either ways, may I just say that this forum sucks?
Yeah it does. Recently, I have been seeing too many topics on members calling Sultan-MB "Shitbala" and then questioning the legitimacy of one person's loyalty a fandom.
So what? So what if one person changed from being a DD fan to a VD fan? So what if members who liked Rishbala like Sulbala now? It is NOT betraying their fandom. It is about opinion. And my, my, you guys suck at keeping em and accepting them.
Do you guys NOT realize that if Rishabla looses 2-3 members to Sulbala then it gains 35745345839 more fans? And the same goes for Sulbala? And same for DD and VD along with Avinesh Rekhi?
From what I have assumed as my role in the DT of this forum, the whole "DD is better then VD and VD is better then DD", it isn't even about the actors or couples or characters anymore. It is about your egos.
Just because some DD/VD fans criticized the other, or hurt you by their comments you guys just declare war on them based on their liking. It isn't even about showing that your favourite is better then theirs, it's more about "she bashed me, I need to bash her and get even". So when it comes down to that, it is not actors/like or loyalty to your favourite BUT the fact that you guys were bashed, so now you guys need to get even by bashing the other fandom ruthlessly.
And oh no, I am not talking about one fandom or the other fandom in particular. It goes for ALL fandoms of this forum!
All fandoms of this forum are reliable for the hate, the dislike, the bashing, the curses, the emotional wrecking that's being going on. And you know, stop blaming the Dev Team for not handling the forum properly. Stop blaming the DT for being biased and not going after the "bashers" because if you guys don't stop thinking the way you do, or acting the way you do, then NOTHING will change.
Do you guys want peace? Well then, it is YOUR job to bring peace.
STOP hating on members for liking the other couple. Have you guys ever wondered that some people may just choose to ship the other couple because they don't like the fact that they were bashed when they were actually shipping your couple? Have you?
Pretend that I ship Rishbala, being a DD or VD fan and then the member of the DD or VD fandom abuses me for not thinking that DD or VD need to improve. And then, I get hurt and then I cry. I have this mindset now that all members of ___'s fandom are like this and rather then ship Rishbala, I choose to ship the other couple because I feel that it's the safer of the two. But sadly, no. I still get bashed.
That's how BAD it has become.
STOP making fun of members for their likes, stop making fun of the likes. And most of all, STOP questioning each other's loyalty to their fandom.
I like Rishbala, but l love Sultan as a character. Does that make me a bad person?
SO STOP! Please for god sake, STOP bashing other members and giving it the same of "defending your favourite".
Stop hating on other member's ships.
Stop bashing.
Sometimes it's not about bashing the couple in general. It's about bashing the person who bashed you and the whole character/actor/couple thing is just a cover-up.
And I know you guys won't listen. But you guys need to know.
Originally posted by: rahmona_pakswe
*bows down to an amazing post*
Well said Shifali!
What saddens me is the amount of energy is spent on things that will do more harm than good. In my opinion:
-Be a fan but don't be a blind one.
-Have opinions but don't mock others.
-Want respect? Give first and then expect to get some.
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