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nb.neha

@nb.neha

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Posted: 12 years ago

Sometimes a particular incident can have a live long effect on a person's personality, mental health etc. That's what happened with our protagonist "Madhav". Today we got to know the deep seated cause of his problem--- "his complex about is looks; his nervousness; his fear of public".

The taunt that Lil Aardhya made on Lil Madhav's skin color and looks has hit him so hard that his personality has been scarred even now. That comment changed his entire life; his opinion about himself; and robbed him off his self confidence for entire life 😭😲

and then the general talks that girl have emphasizing on their life partner who will ONLY n ONLY be a Handsome Hunk; a Dude lowered his self esteem even more...😭

my heart goes out for him...

Kudos to the makers for showing the reason behind Madhav's complex!! It was no doubt convincing

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ApoorvaFan

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Posted: 12 years ago

Yes Neha. In your last post on Madhav, I mentioned that this incident has left a strong scar on him and only Aaradhya can heal it back.

Madhav's parents especially his mom has a role to play. I mean she has to understand her son's issue in young age itself and get proper counselling/help to make him gain confidence.

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nb.neha

@nb.neha

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: ApoorvaFan
Yes Neha. In your last post on Madhav, I mentioned that this incident has left a strong scar on him and only Aaradhya can heal it back.

Madhav's parents especially his mom has a role to play. I mean she has to understand her son's issue in young age itself and get proper counselling/help to make him gain confidence.

Yes, I remember ur comment on that day and today when they aired that scene as a flashback it reminded me of ur comment. that was so true.

Yes madhav's mother could have helped madhav but then when u have a complex or a fear only u can help urself the most. other people can just be a mentor but the spark has to be from within. sadly for madhav his fear is too deep rooted...😭

like his youngest sister pallavi is also dark with average looks but has no prob with her looks infact she wants to join dramatics which literally means facing public. that's what ur concept about ur ownself is

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ApoorvaFan

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Posted: 12 years ago

Yes. I agree completely that others can be catalysts and these kind of deep rooted fears can be removed with one's own self motivation.

In this case, Madhav is very deeply hurt that either his mom or his close aide Rahul are not able to reach till there. Atleast we see that Rahul is trying his bit. But like we say, we should not give into the demands of tantrum throwing kids, Rahul should not give into the pressure of Madhav and try to save him from these situations.

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nb.neha

@nb.neha

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: ApoorvaFan
Yes. I agree completely that others can be catalysts and these kind of deep rooted fears can be removed with one's own self motivation.

In this case, Madhav is very deeply hurt that either his mom or his close aide Rahul are not able to reach till there.

Exactly!! 😭 my heart goes out for madhav. some how i can relate with his insecurities too. his sister is internally motivated inspite of knowing about her brother and sister's complexes

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ApoorvaFan

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Posted: 12 years ago

Yeah. Pallo is definitely of different brand. She is not effected and is trying to live life.

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RASHMI

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Posted: 12 years ago

Yup .. That was so touching to the viewers. loved Rohith's performance absolutely. His way of enacting the emotions was wonderful.. felt bad on his agony...

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nb.neha

@nb.neha

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: rashvin
Yup .. That was so touching to the viewers. loved Rohith's performance absolutely. His way of enacting the emotions was wonderful.. felt bad on his agony...

same here yaar. i have always been his fan from day 1 (vansh days). he's superbly amazing!! just loved him today!

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rittu_deep

@rittu_deep

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Posted: 12 years ago

RK is a fantastic actor... Proud to be one of the Rohitiansss...

Now coming to the topic, I completely agree with the TM...
The incident with Madhav happened when he was a small child...
This has left him mentally scarred and he started suffering from Inferiority complex due to his looks... I am feeling bad to say tgat we have many Madhavs in our society...