Pratyusha - Anandi Shivraj Shekhar ModNoteP83 - Page 9

Originally posted by: VerboseG

Yash.Pal

The usual courtesy that needs to be followed is not to jump in where you are not required. 

If someone is dealing with something in a particular manner, why do you need to waste your energy to say that she/he is incorrect in his method? 

Live and let live, please.

Originally posted by: pussycat

My dear pal ... can u not exercise some restraint in hurting the feelings of those who wish to believe in some telly miracle ... we might hv very lil understanding of what is right or wrong but we certainly do have feelings which we wish to showcase. kindly show some empathy and refrain from making such comments which hurt our emotions...

Originally posted by: Yash.Pal

Sure, I am with you, but let's tone down this public mourning.  This Forum is also for others.  Your friends can  tone down this mass hysteria and I will back off.  Fair deal?

Originally posted by: Shivandi

You need to stop, Yash. You have no right to decide where and how people express themselves. If it makes you uncomfortable, you have the option of just not clicking on the thread and hoping it will pass into the back pages if you ignore it. If it doesn't, that means a sufficiently large number of people agree with the sentiment and want to keep it alive. In which case you need to stop expecting that large a number of people will bend to your vision of how the forum should be.

Originally posted by: Yash.Pal

Thanks Shivandi.  You know what troubles me the most?  That you and I were virtual friends on the Forum, one day you wrote you were overtaken by grief about Pratz leaving and I immediately reached out to you.  but now I find that friends are finding each other in different camps like you and me.  I have no malafide intention at all.

So I  am hoping this grieving will end and we will all be back to normal.  Very soon.

Originally posted by: Shivandi

I would say what I said to you to any of my friends if they were behaving like you 😛 Have some empathy. When people are sad, let them be sad. If you can't empathize/sympathize, give them room and time. You seem to think people are expecting you to respond to this grief. No one is, and no one's asking you to play Mr. Fix It either. Do like all the other people who've moved on are doing and ignore these posts, there are plenty for talking about BV in the sense you want too.

I respect that you're hoping for this mood to pass, but don't try and force it to pass, you'll just get more people telling you the same thing - leave us alone.