Why Ekta why?

I just couldn't stop myself frmm posting this topic, but as always all her shows start with a bang and after a span of 6 months to 1 year either she gets boarded with her characters or she just enjoys messing around, I don't understand.

thats ekta still BALH is far afr better dan her other show

Originally posted by: ramsakshiroxxx

thats ekta still BALH is far afr better dan her other show

BALH is much much better. 😊

Parichay main jo hua hai woh toh not even willing to be compromised for any reason in future.hell with that line.

First and foremost let me start with saying I have not watched even single episode of Parichay so sticking with just the show that I really watchout for with a lot of expectation BALH.

Actually, here are some questions I would like to ask:

1. What is wrong if Ram, the Tycoon is feeling jealous about his wife Priya being close with his friend? These are just common feelings which would come up for any normal human being. Now, just because Ram is The Ram Kapoor, does it mean, he has to be a robo...? I am not saying God, because even God The Ram, sent his wife to the forest upon someone saying something (though baseless)... So, what is the harm if he feels jealous? These things really do happen is real life and what is the harm, if Ekta shows it in her serial.

2. Now, Ram The Father: I can completely understand his feelings of not being able to be there for his LOVING wife and Daughter whom he has never seen or known of... What would have Priya done or thought, if Ram had done a similar thing? Aage badna chahiye, but how could she really even think that he will go ahead in life, without her? Is that what mature love teaches to a person??? If we are going to go ahead with the telephone conversation which Ram appreciated some lady's earrings, is their love and understanding so nimble that she thought that he has gotten settled with someone else sooo soon? That does not fly at all...

3. Priya the Mom: I feel it is completely unfair to Priya as a mom, to be taken away from her child, however, I guess, these things do happen in real-life too. If everything was picture perfect in terms of people's characters in day to day life, why do we see so many family courts and divorce/custody cases, may it be India or abroad... So, this too has been picked up by Ekta from real-life into reel world.

4. Neha and Vikram - Really??? So what if Neha or Vikram has had a past??? Most of us in the recent world do have a past in real-life, may not be to the extent of Neha..., but we all have our dark secrets... Why should Ram feel so betrayed by Neha and Vikram, it is their life damnnn it... They themselves are going through so much and trying to help you get out of your loss, and they have been there for you every single step of the way... So, what if they dont tell it at the right time and you find it out later... Friendship is beyond everything and unconditional, you should learn to accept a friend as he/she is, and so really, no big ahaa oohoo in saying that your friend deceived you. They just did not tell you the truth, it is not that they lied to you... So, Ram grow up and stop being this emotional mess!

5. Ram being deceived by his mom (I am assuming he is talking about Niharika, the Naag) - So, The Ram Kapoor, it is really really your fault and not anyone else's that you let her ride all over you. When you were a child yes, it is different, but when you grew up and were running this business empire, an ordinary Toefl teacher like Priya could smell the fish in Niharika and you were mighty happy in your ignorance is bliss mode!!! Really? So, it is no one else's fault... That said this is also not anything that does not happen in real-life...

So, really Ekta is showing what happens in real-life (but ofcourse she picks up extremes in each situation and highlights) in the reel world. Just because it is our favourite characters, or the serial which we are looking forward to, does not mean that she is butchering each character!

This is just my 2c worth, and it is not intended to hurt anyone!

I dnt know what u mean by character butchering. Parichay's leads have topped the chart as nt once millions of times kc has been in each episode 4m july nd recently sc aftr her marraige.Whereas BALH what they r showing is simple emotions making out aftr 5yrs be it ram's anger etc.Nd neha has no ema.It was when she was teens nd even a decent explanation was given abt it.
Though i find the scenario regarding rehan absurd as he is the reason nd vik is keeping him at hm nd showing cncern yet divorce. So where is the character assasination. If that is,then people would have to bcm saint.
Ekta an arrogant woman,visiting temples often yet doing politics with her soaps. She is a mean minded,back dated nd very overcnfident women who wil never learn to show anything except these narishakti nonesense.

Originally posted by: Shehnaz.K

I dnt know what u mean by character butchering. Parichay's leads have topped the chart as nt once millions of times kc has been in each episode 4m july nd recently sc aftr her marraige.Whereas BALH what they r showing is simple emotions making out aftr 5yrs be it ram's anger etc.Nd neha has no ema.It was when she was teens nd even a decent explanation was given abt it.
Though i find the scenario regarding rehan absurd as he is the reason nd vik is keeping him at hm nd showing cncern yet divorce. So where is the character assasination. If that is,then people would have to bcm saint.
Ekta an arrogant woman,visiting temples often yet doing politics with her soaps. She is a mean minded,back dated nd very overcnfident women who wil never learn to show anything except these narishakti nonesense.

Actually mahesh am v surprised to see this topic esp after back to back good epis! I dnt want to compare balh to anyone but i knw from all her current n past shows the treatment of balh is diff! More humane. I feel today raya talked again and thats how they will get closer yes neha is getting dumber by moment but i feel that now all threads seem on verge of being all tied up so why all the anger?rams insecurity is not @all uncommon, priyas emotional iq was always more than him, even perfect marriages can fail but they wnt! So i will say take deep breath n prepare to fall down in love again for our raya are getting back!!

@mahesh- It's ok. Plz dnt say sorry. I just couldnt get where was any character assasination .
Im pissed off with BT nd their nagging old theory.
BALH is the best of all ekta's soaps uptil nw. Nd since it's all BT obvious cmparison wil always arise. Parichay could have been the best with the theme it startd but has turned out worst.
God knows why she is showing a mix of 2 soaps now? But anything pssbl for her.

I feel that this is one show where Ekta has been quite good with teh characters.

My only beef is the reasoning she provided for Priya's 5 year hiatus. With anyone else, any other character, it would be fine. Priya Sharma/Kapoor is such a strong minded, simple minded, clear cut person, that such a reason, or rather, lack of real reason, just doesn't jive with her personality.

But, I chalk that up to inconsistencies that even the most consistent ones of us have in our lives. So - it's very true to real life - the making of a mistake so grave.

Now - EVERYTHING Ram is feeling, I feel, very consistent ot his character, and true to life. From anger, to betrayal, to ego, to the desire to hurt Priya senselessly, all that is very real, and very Ram.

For Priya to step back and let it play out is also very consistent with her usual character.

In real life - I don't think very many husbands would take her back. In real life, I don't think her dialogue of 'you moved on Mr. Kapoor' would have ended without a back hand a she was the one who did all this TO get him to move on. But, in real life, people make mistakes. And Priya did. Huge, yes. Impacting everyone, yes. Irrevocable and unrepairable, yes. But a mistake it is. ANd she is sorry.

I don't think any character assasination has happened, IMHO.

-S