Sandhya: sachha jeevan saathi?

Love is often equated with sacrifice. In fictional media, like bollywood, this love is usually in the form of the so-called 'love outside of marriage'. However, love and sacrifice become truly synonymous in the bonds of marriage. This is because marriage is a binding contract that allows the husband and wife to share everything: a home, finances, family ties, feelings, thoughts, future, goals, ambitions, dreams, and I can go on and on; essentially they are sharing life itself! And when sharing is involved, sacrifice must follow. So, perhaps we can measure the strength of the bond between a wife and husband with the level of sacrifice they are willing to make.

So after that bhashan, let me get back to sandhya 😊. What sacrifices has she been willing to make? Well, I can mention only one, as it makes all other sacrifices seem non-existent; just like how the light from the sun makes the lights from light bulbs seem non-existent. Ofcourse, I am talking about her willingness to sacrifice that which is her most beloved possession: her dream. Now, if this sacrifice was made out of necessity, it might not have been great. But she chose to abandon her dream (as she explained to ankur earlier) because she acknowledges her duty towards her family. This is particularly noteworthy because one's duty towards their family is the most important thing to suraj; just as sandhya's dream is the most important thing for sandhya. So, in essence, she is willing to sacrifice her most beloved possession to share in suraj's most cherished values. This is enough to make sandhya a 'sachha jeevan saathi'.

Now suraj will be tested, when he will have the opportunity to show his willingness to sacrifice his good relations with his family, which could be the consequence of supporting sandhya's dream. But that's a topic of another discussion. For now, I just wanted to put sandhya in the spotlight (which usually is hogged by suraj, thanks to all the truly sayani ladies of the forum 😉 ). Be sure to comment and add your own input.

Welcome dear

Sandhya bounding to Family though she had Strong Dream , Suraj who Now Found that she had an ambition is Trying to give it her as he can give its the card in his Hands Now .

They are finding Happieness in what they had .

they are True Soul Mates .

First off, yes, you are right; although this was my first post, I have been a silent reader on the forum for quite awhile. I have also read many of Anusha ji's posts, and I doubt that I am anywhere close to her genius writing skills! It is a huge compliment to be compared to her.

But back to topic: yes, they have proven their love for each other. But Love "is an ever-fixed mark that looks on tempests and is never shaken". And the future track, which will be the core of DABH, is perhaps the biggest tempest surya will face, and they will have to show that their love will not shake even in the biggest of storms. To do this, they will have to support each other; especially suraj, as his support is paramount in this case.

As for relationships, it takes two to tango. I agree the focus is ultimately surya's journey, but I find it interesting how each individual contributes to the relationship/journey. The future IPS track is highly anticipated, and I hope the CVs continue to stay true to each character 😊.

sorru 4 double post...

Yes, they are true soul mates. I think it's a unique concept (although i don't watch many soaps) that suraj is 'dragging happiness' towards sandhya, while she was trying to distance herself from it. But now they're on the same page, ready to face what's ahead!

u stated sandhya,saccha jeevan sacchi is true but not now...

she proved once she get into that house first time...but she didnt realise that nor we...

if not sacccha jeevan sacchi how could she just goes to new house and new member...

every girl who entered their husband first time...all r having only one thing to keep happy.except one or two...

so it takes time to reveal any thing one day...thats in sandy's life too in ankur house and her hearty words to ankur...