Should Khushi not understand why ASR dumps her? - Page 2

Originally posted by: surenkal

But then it will show that Khushi does not trust him... and that is not Khushi's character and in turn it ruins ASR. That's what I feel

Originally posted by: insanelycrazy

well yea she doesn't trust me. no matter how trusty i am i woudnt trust somebody after being left at the alter. i meant she's a human no super hero, so there is only so much a person can take, after completely falling apart u know?

Originally posted by: tia.o

I absolutely don't agree. There is a limit to everything. Yes, Khushi did understand him when Shyam fiasco happened because she believed her to be wrong because she hid the truth. But this time, she was not aware of this past, she did not lie, she did not hid anything and she supported him in every step of the way.

Knowing about the past is hard for Arnav. But he did make the same mistake before. He believed Shyam and never asked Khushi for an explanation. The result? Huge misunderstanding and an innocent being punished.

This time if he believes Dadi and does not ask Garima for an explanation, he will repeat the same mistake as before. Then what's the use of the sorry or asking for forgiveness when he is repeating the same mistake over and over again? That's the least sincere apology in the history.

But in all this, Khushi is the innocent party. So keeping her standing in the alter where everybody will be speculating where is the groom and why is he missing, is just cruel. He can come to the alter and take Khushi with him in a separate room and talk to her about this. But not showing up at the wedding is not forgivable.

Khushi has forgave him many times before (Too many times if you ask me). She even forgave him when he stopped the wedding celebrations to cater to his Di's whims. So please don't say that Khushi should understand him again. It's about time, he starts understanding Khushi. The world does not need to revolve around Arnav Singh Raizada and his family's mood swings.

Originally posted by: surenkal

But I agree with that. No one can keep taking nonsense and carry on... However Khushi has always been shown as one who can.. that is all that I am saying

Originally posted by: ItIsMyLife

Just because Arnav will not reach the Mandap Khushi can not reach to the conclusion that Arnav has dumped her.
I mean it is not Khushi.
Khushi always tries to see the good in people.
Dumb,betrayal,ditch are not in her dictionary.
And running away from the Mandap is also not in her character.
She never runs away from any situation.She faces them.
I want to Khushi to go to arnav and ask him what made him not reach the Mandap rather than herself running away from the Mandap.

Originally posted by: surenkal

thank you... That is what i think should happen too.. it is what her character has shown to be like..

Originally posted by: deejagi

dear friends, the person who was very eager to get amrried to her and revolving around her like planets around the Sun, the one who didn't miss any occasion to meet her despite his Dadi's curfew, if he doesn't turn up at the alter and if he is not traceble (remember nani's words in the promo, she was telling where is chote?, so he is gone missing at the precise time when he wa supposed to be with her to complete the wedding rituals, what can Khushi think? Should she think that he has gone to attend some important meeting???????? The only things which comes to her mind will be "he dumped her at the alter". What else she can do otehr than going missing as she had surrendered her virginity the previous to the that person whom she loved more than her life & belief, if he doesn't turn up, will she be in any position to get consoled by others who doesn't even have any idea about her loss? Do you expect her to think logically that he slept with me the previous night, so I should trust him and wait for him till eternity and ask him to marry her since he took away her virginity? NO, any sensible girl, who has left with even the last drop of self respect, will not wait and beg him to marry her.

If she walks out without knowing for the reason for his absence from the venue, then I am with her, if she goes missing even after realising abou the facts (presented facts) about Garima, then also I am with her as she can never be Arnav's bride with Dadi's presence, and more over she knows the hurt & anger of Arnav for his mom's deah. She can't stay there and try to collect evidence at this juncture as she at loss, she has lost every thing now. Her pride, feminity etc. and she can't even get the support of Naani or Anjali ...

Jaya

Originally posted by: ItIsMyLife

That is what I am trying to say.The man who agreed to go through all rituals just for the sake of her,the man who danced for her,the man who noticed her slightest hesitance during the intimacy must have some reason not to reach the alter.In Friday's episode it was shown that Khushi has immense trust on Arnav.She will not reach immediately to the conclusion that Arnav dumped her.

And I am not saying that she should beg him to marry her.Why would she do so?I want her to go to him and demand an explanation of his absence.She has rights on him.She should claim her rights rather than going missing.


BTW,Khushi did not loose her virginity.IIt is confirmed by IPKKND Team.