Sushpective: In Defense of Anjali...EDITED - Page 6

Originally posted by: incandescent

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<font face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" color="#0099ff">I am too lazy to write a long reply so I am just going to post what I wrote in another thread yesterday and add a few points.</font>

<font color="#0099ff" face="Comic Sans MS, Times, serif" size="2">I am intrigued by Anjali. One day I feel complete sympathy for her and the next day I feel just the opposite. Who would have thought that a loving, caring, sensitive and righteous lady like Anjali would resort to lies? She is faking illness and playing with her family's sentiments. The more I see her, the more I believe that she is self-absorbed and obsessed with Shyam to an extent where not just her brother but also her unborn child has become less significant to her. She wanted to abort the baby at one point and only started caring for it once again after Shyam came back to her.</font>

<font face="Comic Sans MS, Times, serif" size="2"><font color="#0099ff">I fail to understand why Anjali is taking so many medicines.</font><font color="#6666cc">Does she have a complicated pregnancy? It sure doesn't look like it.</font><font color="#6666cc">More importantly, why does she make a face while taking them or keeps forgetting about them?😕</font><font color="#0099ff">Whatever the medicines are, they were prescribed to her after she became pregnant and it does give the impression that she couldn't care less about having them and that she is in a way irresponsible when it comes to the unborn baby.</font></font>

<font color="#0099ff" face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" size="2">I have tried very hard to understand her and sympathize with her, sometimes I do but in most days I just fail to connect with her.</font>

<font color="#0099ff" face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" size="2">Shyam has convinced her that the whole thing was a misunderstanding and I am pretty sure he just had to use the word misunderstanding.</font>

<font color="#0099ff" face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" size="2">She is clearly delusional and still holding on to her past but it's just toodifficultto relate with her character.</font>

Originally posted by: Chaituv

S<font color="#3333cc">ush, u made this post?😆</font>

<font color="#3333cc">Sorry for the late update!</font>

<font color="#3333cc">You have put up some nice points abt Anji and I feel the same too.</font>

<font color="#3333cc">I'm not a big fan of Anji or DB ,but still I can see where she is coming frm!</font>

<font color="#3333cc">From the beginning She is the weakest character in the show and the dumbest too!(sorry , but I have to say this). And nothing changed now...she is the same Anji except they made her more dumb . Now when she is trying to play behind her brother ppl are not ready to take it. And 2 continuous Anjilious episodes making everyone go mad at her too!</font>

<font color="#3333cc"> Her weakness is Shyam and she is blindly in love with him.( her saase rukh jayegi) she wants to give father's love to her baby , she knows how hard it is to live without parents. But Shyam is manipulating her and Anji being Anji, the dumb ,is still believing him. He is using her for his selfish reasons. I don't completely blame her for this , nothing proved against Shyam , Arnav said he believes in Kushi n kicked Shyam out , but no proof shown against Shyam. Did Arnav disclose the truth about their marriage ? NO! Even if the truth comes out we cannot expect immediate change in her character, she may still wish for the her Dream world to be perfect or if we r lucky we may see a stronger Anji ! Atleast I wanted to see her strong women and I know many of them want the same!</font>

<font color="#3333cc"> But she is not completely an innocent soul , she too manipulates ppl at times. May be u skipped her parts on Thursday's epi, but the way she faked abt her health and played with her family's sentiments just to save Shyam was unacceptable . What's wrong with her health?she is only a pregnant not a patient, what's with everyone asking her to make medicines all the time , why she always forgets ?She is being over pampered by everyone.</font>

<font color="#3333cc"> Sush , CV's using the characters as per their convenience , no logic at all, why is she not connecting the dots to figure out kushi's fiance name is Shyam too, n the ring she found during that time and many more? If she did not forget why and how did she forgive Shyam so soon? But i don't believe she even thought in that angel, did her brother think when he MUed Kushi?😉, he didn't even believe in Kushi when she explained how Shyam cheated her n her family!</font>

<font color="#3333cc"> Now may be someone should kidnap Anji to bring her back to the reality too!😆😆</font>

Originally posted by: -Sush-

No ISHQ...she was reacting to her loss when she said...Chote you dont care for me...you have changed...Well he does love her...but haven't we all agreed that Arnav has changed as a man...? So she was right about the change part...it is obvious that he wants to spend time with his wife...and he is fully entitled to...but He has had a relationship with his sis where his sis. Has been quite dependent on him emotionally...and her dialogue to him was all abou her need to get attnetion in her time of grief...Shyam is using heR vulernability to his advantage...

Originally posted by: spirit

Because the previous post was getting long, I'm asking all important questions here.

Whose house is is?

Who is the head of the house?

Where does that leave dadi in the hierarchy?

If its nani's house, why is dadi bossing around Mami?

Why does she think it's ok to bring damadji back to rm? Because its either her house or nani's or asr?

What is the scale of delusionality for dadi and anjali and Shyam individually? When they join forces, what happens, does evil add up or does the inherent goodness between them balance out the evilness?

Why doesnt Anjali insist her husband to take her with him?

Why is she taking so many pills?

Is khushi inside anjalis pink bubble? If so, how can shyam and khushi coexist withouth breaking that bubble? If not, how can Anjali be genuinely happy about this remarriage?

How did Shyam and khushi pick the same venue for their dates? Will asr be paying for both dates?

Why doesn't rm have better security?

Did he follow up on that credit card issue?

Don't worry, I don't expect any answers except for the next one

Now on to more important matters,

What's next, you ask?

DATE NITE 😳love...any ideas how that will go?? C'mon we know you ff all other/few scenes so tells tells 😎bhaat happens in that tarik?

Originally posted by: -Sush-

Ha ha...Means...lately I have become a sucker for unpopular opinions...Must be getting a kick out of them!!!! 😛

In all fairness Means...leaving jokes aside...in Anjalis world...no one is bad...no one is wrong...Shyam, Khushi, Arnav, dadi...this is all just a misunderstanding that shall pass...perhaps that's what she did when her parents were fighting...no one was wrong...because she loved both of them...if they could just clear the. MU...and in her case perhaps wish hard upon a star...all the problems in this world could be solved...That's her defense mechanism to avoid pain...,,

Originally posted by: msin

The main problem is cvs don't know how to balance episodes because they don't keep bank.. Either we get Arhi scenes of 18 19 mins which we don't appreciate... Which has been happening last2 Monday's..

The previous Monday.. Was a case we had janmastami celebration.. Come up to the room and Suhaag Raat and pheras all in 1 episode...

Did we appreciate the janmastami for which they put so much effort.. No..

Did we appreciate come up to the room.. So so Suhaag Raat pheras no.. What could have been stretched to Wednesday was shown in 1 day.. Because the director found it easier to to shoot it..

This week the director found it easier to shoot Arhi scenes on Monday Tuesday.. Fans happy with overdose and the jha scenes on thursday Friday... Fans screaming..

If there had been a balance of 50 % Arhi scenes..

25 % jha scenes..

25 % Dadi Garima drama.. Nobody would have cribbed.. And would have been pleasant viewing..

Daljeet the actress is confused and does not believe whether she grey or positive...she is not pepped up so the people are fed up...

Even mami gets ridiculous lines.. Ridiculous and outlandish walks but she delivers it well.

Even Payal who hates her role does it with conviction..

But Daljeet and akshay have both not got in the skin of role..nk comes in small parts but does it well a commendable job because he is playing a negative role in another soap..

Originally posted by: MrDarcyfan

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<font color="#0000cc" size="2" face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif">Hey Shush, I dont think that Shantivan is "Naniji's" house! Coz as I recall, Arnav VERY distinctly told Anjali (When Anjali insisted that Khushi train La, and Arnav didnt want it)... "This is MY house"!!! So this house in Delhi was purchased AFTER the success of AR! This is NOT Nani's ancestral home! Therefore, Anjali and Shyam have NO right to forcefully live in that house!!</font>

<font color="#0000cc" size="2" face="Verdana">Akash also has said on MANY occasions that "Bhai" makes all the decisions in the house! (He told the Gupta's during the Havaan that everyone in the house has an "Opinion", but Bhai makes the final call!).</font>

<font color="#0000cc" size="2" face="Verdana">ALSO, IF the home was actually Nanji's ancestral home, then there is NO way that Arnav would have been able to force La into the house against her will! HE decided to cancel the Sangeet for PAYASH wedding to spite Khushi, coz she was getting close to NK! </font>

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<font color="#0000cc" size="2" face="Verdana">Therefore, Anjali and Snake are living in ARNAV's house!</font>