23-24 July Yeh Serial Na Milegi Dobara - Page 4

Originally posted by: momma1128

JW!!!

I am going to get straight to the point here with this track. This is a ploy to get us to SP's remarriage of the couple. While to viewers they may be married, in SP's moral police eyes ArHi are not, so they have to go through this separation and inevitable contract bullshit to get to a "real" wedding for the family and for consummation. The nuns at the channel have made sure that Kh does not so much as pucker while under the contract but alas, they haven't watched their own show to understand that where their heroine is now...wedding or no, doesn't matter.

But then that is very regressive isnt it Anu...on one hand we have the couple indulging in each other, and in a variety of suggestive scenes...

And while we are at it...this then is (a) confused thinking...as one needs to decide whether they are soulmates even without a marriage of rituals...and (b) myopic thinking because in today's time and age they think a marriage is imperative to have the sati savitri, innocent virgin kanya tag...whether people get physical or not is their personal preference and has to largely have no bearing on their character

Like I said...again ...regressive!!

I knew the re-marriage was on the cards when we saw the 6 month statement was added as a voiceover for the episode on Feb 19th. And later, Ved Raj confirmed that in fact it was added due to SP. Fine.

Again very gimmicky and frankly makes a joke of the insititution of marriage...When the marriage track was played out I had resented it for this very reason in all my posts

I also was suspecting a separation where Kh goes back to GH and ASR goes to get her back feeling repentence for everything once the truth about Shyam is out and makes the one dream Kh has (no she is not seeing herself as the head of some conglomerate, her only dream was to be married to her rajkumar) come true. [I wrote this way back in April on my 'Redemption' post]. But these were all musings before the 2 months of longing, confessions, near death experiences, slaps that announced complete faith and wordless conversations of soulmates.

DITTO Anu...and you have me for company on that redemption word...its frankly disappointing to see we are in a world when we lynch someones redemption, whilst caring two hots for our own behaviour

So as you said, much has since happened...two people are in deep love...and now all this is a joke of their relationship

It seems to me that CVs and PH at the behest of SP, have just gone ahead with whatever they had envisioned at that time with complete disregard for where this couple is emotionally. What sense did it make to bring back the contract after hamesha hamesha - absolutely none. What sense does it make for Khushi to walk out knowing that her husband loves her and reminds her that she is his wife every second and she accepts him as her husband - ever since the airport where farak padta hain kyunki aapki baat hain.

DITTO Anu;...you put this beautifully👏👏

What sense does it make for her to walk out when everything is on the mend in the house with her present? What sense does it make for her to walk out and give reasons that I know my husband would not let me go because he loves me, he loves his di, she was happy when i was starting to leave, she will be happier now, so he will be happier (forget about his love for me that I decided to sacrifice for him without asking him) and please forgive me DM, I am so confident about leaving that I lied to everyone to do it. How does it make sense to have her lie and deny that he and she are soulmates? Walk out, tell your reason and act like you are 23/25.

Thats the point Anu...this is packaged as a sacrifice,...when in reality it is absolute disregard of a relationship one has built...it is absolute disregard of the implicatiosn it will have on family...and absolute disregard for all this made of propreity...yes thats the word!!...

ASR has faith that their love will overcome, does she? No she doesn't. If the CVs make it out that after all this, she brings up that she is not really married to him - good grief.

To the bold...you remember my stand...ASR is the dil here...and it beats like your or mine...tragic that in the name of woman rights we forget the more humane aspect of it...

Seriously, abla naari taking one for his family, but no belief in his love that you risked your life to get and he also risked for you, while acknowledging that she loves him, and telling God lying is the only way to go to fix everything when the night before she tells Nani that her good intentions always end up awry. Please explain what message is this.

I can explain that Anu...its called creative one-upmanship...and feeding a need of women who themselves are perhaps party to this or victims of this to see the man always being blamed...😳...I think you know what I mean

I am a dumbo. I don't get it. I have taught my children that telling a lie about a wrong you have done is much worse than the wrong you have done and I guess I have got the parenting thing wrong. Teach me SP, what is the lesson here.

Anu...beautiful and straight from the heart...if you are wrong...a lot of decent, good things in life would be😳...

Maybe I am unemotional, and that is my shortcoming, but I do not understand this at all.

I am giving you company...if that makes you feel any better...🤗

(Please don't get me started on the convoluted reactions of a woman who has walked away from the love her life going out to eat gol gappe.

It was cringe worthy...just a token DM talk...no refection no tears...you just walked on your husband...phew!!...so what happens after gol gappes get over...what is the next food item after ladooos and gol gappes to be stuffed in Buaji's mouth

And please don't get me started on her deciding for everyone in both families what is appropriate for them. And I would much rather prefer they kill off ASR than have her appear as all SP bahus eventually do, self righteous - about his love, sacrifice and all that other stuff she didn't give two shits about when she hugged him back in the living room

That hug I think was one of the moment...speaks a lot about who has the real dil here😳😳

Wish Sobti quits this...I really hope he does

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so, the bottom line is that Kushi-the character doesnt have an age, does not have the constant nature..

When Naani isnt there, kushi becomes the Naani n gives baashans muft mein.

When Buaji isnt there, Kushi becomes the bread earner or rather 'trouble earner' for the family.

When ASR isnt there, Kushi becomes the CEO n makes deals n contracts with Shyamu.

When Payal isnt there, Kushi becomes the 'chameli ka thel vaali' n does the champi.

When Akash isnt there then Kushi...umm... Naa, then she does nothing as she is staying in character with Akash.

When HP isnt there Kushi becomes the 'adhraki tea waali'

when Anjali isnt there, Kushi does the 'thaali service'.

When canteen bhaiyya isnt there, she does the 'dabba service'

when 'laxmi nagar's Tuitorials goes ghayab, She starts tuition, but its once in a year crash course.

When 'happyji isn't there, she becomes the mechanic n punctures every relation.

When Shyamwa isn't there, Kushi becomes the 'sweet talker' n manipulates all.

when devimayya goes missing, khushi becomes DEVIMAYYA and blesses every body dukhi.

p.s -( credit goes to jachu)

Originally posted by: JWMRK

Gul Khan,

From one woman to another...😊

a) Its important to be a woman...but more important to be human😊

When you make a female lead always right at the cost of reducing the credibility of the male lead (despite a brilliant fight back though the multi layered acting of the male lead actor👏👏👏👏👏)...you somewhere dilute the whole concept of love😳

What you are showing us is not love...its a gimmicky attempt to satisfy the urge to make the woman great and bash the man.

If in your creative team's mind...ASR is such a jerk...still and cares a twig abut Khushi...then bump him off please.

Go down the path of other serials where Khushi meets some other man...NK for example...We will accept that ...because decide if ASR is bad, quit on him and move on please...for good!😊...like any normal self respecting woman would.

b) All of us, irrespective of our love for a character or an actor/ actress...are here because this serial somewhere matters to us

To discount repetitive feedback may be convenient ...but ultimately leaves a disappointing feeling

We want this serial to succeed as much as you want it😊

And all we are asking for is a credible story...credible continuity...and credible gumption😊

Time you took control

Cheers!

Originally posted by: Infofan

JW 🤗 Another brilliant post by you.

Did you check the TRPs, 2.6 I believe. It maybe at an all time low. I guess viewers actually took a wise man's advice and used the remote, "Dekhna hai toh dekho".

They mentioned in yesterday's episode that Buaji owes 3 months rent. Didn't she mention her hubby had this house constructed ' phuktha deewarein' in the AC fixing episode? These folks absolutely dont remember what they themselves wrote or just assume that most of us will be too busy drooling to notice these bloopers!😡

Originally posted by: ..Surbhi..

superb post :)

Originally posted by: payasa

well said...jw...agree with you...