Arnav's learning graph after marriage... - Page 5

Originally posted by: spsharmila

I think that Khushi is learning to read his lips and his mind...slowly...Arnav is difficult man to understand...I think CVs are trying to build understanding & trust between them😊...eventually she will understand his his pain and agony as well 😳

Arnav is a very complex character...we all know that...but thats coz we have seen his part of the story..khushi hasn't...its going to take times and tides to get this closely guarded secret out of this man.

Originally posted by: MBee

She got one thing wrong in todays episode. his blood has more sugar due yo his diabetes than hers so the mosquitoes would be more attracted yo jim..anyway khushi rocks, for making light of the situation.

dont worry...as time goes...she will learn that too about her hubby...i m sure...😆

Originally posted by: eveline

hi shwets...u are married right...so must have experienced this one thing...when a fight happens between a hubby and wife...it might be about a safety pin or a hair (any stupidest slightest reason)...it escalates..and then we end up fighting over things that happened in the past..u did this to me this many years ago...and we end up going back to square one..we remember that wrong..that hurt...that pain all over again...why..coz it still hurts...the pain or disappointment still rankles...does that mean our marriage is back to square one...no..definitelynot...it means..we cannot get over some things that easily...and this MU is a huge deal...he thinks she is having an extra marital affair with his bil...cheating on the whole family..he saw them hugging..and whatever we might say or do...its not easy to overcome..it shattered his whole world in minutes...

The cvs are not going back and forth..my take is ..its his conflict...the war between his love and hate...his heart and his mind...between what he is seeing everyday and what he saw that one night...so obviously its gonna oscillate...one day he is all in love...next minute she does something that reminds him of her betrayal...and here we go again...

And about Khushi...she has been taken on a ride multiple times by him..not once not twice..thrice now...heartbreaking...after so many incidents..no one in their right minds want to go through pain and hurt once again...she keeps her distance...wisely...be it physical or emotional..i would too...

About shyam...obviously her hands are tied just like arnav...so she has smartly removed herself from his sphere...( one of the key reasons for her business is her getting out of the house and away from him..i believe )

very well said
please keep posting such positive post

Thank you Eveline, lovely post. Your perspective was spot on and I enjoyed it. KKGSR is truly a chamer, smart business woman and NUTS! We love that about her. ASR will never be a tamed little cat, love or no love, he is a lion. He will always get mad and say hurtful things but KKGSR is ready and willing to give it back to him in spades. They are perfect and the time is coming when they both will acknowledge this sooo lets enjoy the ride...😛😛

Originally posted by: eveline

khushi knows all this about him..coz she has observed and learnt..and its also instinctive...but when it comes to matters of the heart...ASR has always been giving her mixed signals..deliberately covering up...his compulsive coming nearer at diwali..or before the wedding or holi...and later on being more harsh than before to cover up...also the man himself is so conflicted about his feelings for her...how in the world can Khushi get a clear picture there... her heart is all there..there would not have been so many incidents without it...and her mind is all there too...but his mind and heart are all over the place...

You know what? Although I am convinced that the CVs are mindlessly dragging this track without logic, I'll try to give an explanation for her ability to lip read and mind read him now but not being able to understand his turbulent feelings. I think when he speaks or yells, her concentration is diverted to the spoken words that she cannot understand the unspoken yet screaming thoughts in his mind and feelings in his heart because the spoken words contradict his thoughts and feelings. Now that he is unable to drown her with the sound of his voice, he is able to communicate to her through his silence. I hope he is able to also convey his thoughts and feelings for her when he is still in this state before he gets back his booming voice and again goes on to contradict his own thoughts and words to keep throwing her in confusion.

Originally posted by: sbk2

Eveline...

Eternal optimist...aren't you?!

I was too, about this serial. But now my patience is wearing off.

I've been married for 10+ years, so I know how it goes! And again, it is due to personal experience, I cannot digest some of the things shown in their story.

Lack of communication and trust has always been shown in this story of theirs.

Though they are shown to sense each other's stress, hurt and pain, in some matters they are completely oblivious.

I'm sorry, but I think Khushi should still be suspicious about the Shyam angle.

How could she have thought about it that day and now not a single time have they shown her remembering it?

He is oscillating back and forth, agreed, but how come not a single time have they shown his thoughts (other than that horrible flashback) about this whole issue, questioning what he saw and wondering how could Khushi do something like this?

He's observed Khushi since the day of Holi and remembered part of the Holi confession, yet on Monday it seemed like it was an episode immediately after the "I hate you" one..

This is the worst kind of back to square one.

I see the lack of continuity in incidents, thoughts and behavior of characters. And I know, I'm not alone in thinking so.

These are all ploys and tactics for stretching the track.

When all this started there was a spoiler from Zee (who gives authentic news ) stating that the creatives are not going to stretch this track..but now it is clear they changed their minds and decided to add things to somehow drag the track.

I'm totally totally digressing from your wonderful topic Evie...sorry. I'll shut up now!

arey..nope shweta...this is a discussion about various aspects of this how and our feelings regarding it..then why shut up...or whats regression...

wow...wonderful post...love this positivity yaar..bring it on more..luv u

Ok in promo we watching that kkg thinking asr nt pressurise or forced to stay in this relation. N in today epi we watched concered kkg . But is she doing all of this only 4 her benefit. Or what ll happen that make her to think again this way another hurtful this or MU 4rm arnav to bring her in this situation. This is what we all saying no continuety in this haterd n MU track.

Originally posted by: Punkin1122

Thank you Eveline, lovely post. Your perspective was spot on and I enjoyed it. KKGSR is truly a chamer, smart business woman and NUTS! We love that about her. ASR will never be a tamed little cat, love or no love, he is a lion. He will always get mad and say hurtful things but KKGSR is ready and willing to give it back to him in spades. They are perfect and the time is coming when they both will acknowledge this sooo lets enjoy the ride...😛😛

oh yeah...i have always maintained that even when they come together dont expect them to change...he wont give up his spots...and she wont give up her crazy antics either...they have to love and accept each other the way they are...