Scrutiny of yesterday's epi - my ans. 2 all ques.

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Hello Forumwasio, Good Morning evry1. Presently I am in a mood of doing autopsy of yesterday's epi. There wee so many negative threads floating around in d forum yeaterday. Y he has done dis, I hate him doing dat, dey r not gud family, how can dey think smthg like dat''.all kinds of questionnaires but answers ' NONE. Almost evry1 for pakaoing their bheja on smthg or d other'.xcept a few who njoyed d epi. I am in dat few n I am here wid all d answers.

Y didn't KHUSHI SPEAK????

Gud n very apt questions yaara. Y she was taking all non-sense of evry1 (though it was not non-sense for me) n didn't speak a word. Has she spoken nethg against her LG b4 in front of ne1??? The answer is NO. Y ne family member will blieve dat wat she has done is just to save her di's marriage. Moreover, d one who can break her di's wedding can break her di's marriage too. How can she speak???? If she wud hv den obviously d question arises where y didn't u come to us??? Now how come dat solve d solution bcoz if ASR decided smthg he'll do no matter wat evry1 else thinks. She herself on't know d real reason bhind it, wat she'll xplain to others.

Y ASR moves away leaving her alone???

Hmmm I thought abt it. Dat was a shock for me too. Den I got d answer. ASR is a man who never cries in front of ne1. At dat moment he was bursting out in tears bcoz of his Di's condition n cross questioning. He can't cry in front of evry1 otherwise truth will b open to all. Moreover there was shyam too. If u all can recall wen he was moving upstairs he stares at shyam. Regarding khushi'as he told her earlier while marrying, she will b staying in RM.

Y Nani n Anjali reacted this way???

I hv brothers too. I can never xcept dis kind of thing wid my own brother even if d girl is of my choice. It was ignorance which were making dem respond like dis. Dey both hv neglected d whole family n get married without their blessing. Dey wanted d marriage but not dis way. For Anjali her chotte is evrythg. He means world to her. Wat u ppl were xpecting "OHHH chotte I am so happy dat u got married n dat too wid khushiji. I love u chotte for dis". Come on'' wake up. Den y angry on khushi ''..as I said earlier it was unxpected n their neglegance which was bothering both of dem. Marriage is not a play dat within an hr it's done widout ne vows n blessings n every1 is gonna xcept it. It's relationship of lifetime.

Y Guptas reacted so angrily????

LOL yaar ek baat batao, if ur family daughter will do such a thg. wat will u do???? "Oh my darling!!! U got married. U didn't told me. Come, lemme shower my blessings on u" '''.grow up. Parents n relatives r part of d lives n moreover dey repeatedly asks her abt d reason for her decision but all in vain. Dey r parents (n whether adopted or their own) but dey were her parents. Just think guys if Payal wud hv done smthg like this, dey wud have given her their blessings ??? I know d answer is NO in all ur minds. If payash marriages in ds way dey wud faced d same thg which wat arhi is facing. Though Buaji was lil harsh wen she said "U hv proved once again dat u r adopted" but I can consider d agony of dat old lady who don't hv ne child of her own xcept these 2. She was angry.

I REALLY HOPE I WILL NOT BASHING FOR DIS POST.

Are u all convinced wid my answers. To like maaro na n do comment. Even criticism is welcome but in healthy way. Plz refrain using negative stmts. Buddies there is a way to say nethg. I hope u guys understand wat I am saying.

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Posted: 14 years ago
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I agree with ur take on why khushi was quiet and why ASR left...

but rush i am sorry...i just didn't think that the family over melodramatic reaction was necessary...first of all...Khushi is not a strange girl...to the Raizada's...they have known her for so long...and they always liked her...or should i say Naani adored her for so many reasons...and to ask her whether she knew the value of mangalsutra and sindoor was just too much...Yes, she knew it and that why she had a mangalsutra and the sindoor...she didn't run away and yes if they were shocked..they could have sort it out properly...but yelling at them was just unnecessary...and Anjali...Arnav marriage has been her wish all along...but when he got married to khushi...the girl of her choice..OMG..come on ...I just can't reason with their reactions at all..

As for the gupta's...i had absolutely no hope...Garima a total gone case, but even the slightest hope i had with buaji...that went into the gutters today and Shashi..God knows when the CV's r planning to get him off his wheelchair..poor guy...I am sure if it was him...he would have never counted khushi never..
Edited by shybabe - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I totally agree with your take on why ASR left - it was because he did not want to breakdown in front of everyone. He was at that point because of everything that had happened, as well as his sisters crying reduced him to this state.

He did not on purpose leave Khushi to the wolves. He just was not thinking about that and even if he did, he may not have lifted a finger to help because he is so angry and disillusioned - like he looked impassive when Garima slapped Khushi -even though inside he hated that
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: Anamika100

I totally agree with your take on why ASR left - it was because he did not want to breakdown in front of everyone. He was at that point because of everything that had happened, as well as his sisters crying reduced him to this state.


He did not on purpose leave Khushi to the wolves. He just was not thinking about that and even if he did, he may not have lifted a finger to help because he is so angry and disillusioned - like he looked impassive when Garima slapped Khushi -even though inside he hated that

Though he was inpassive on d surface but yes u r correct he hated dat. Letz c how many days he can b impassive to khushi's pain. He loves her truly aur wo pyar kabhi na kabhi bahar aa hi jayega.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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totally agree!!! but was a bit depressed watching khushi so helpless with all the ladies torturing her n also for arnav coz he cant tell anyone abt the real reason!!😭 i just hope these sad times pass off soon!!!😔
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Dost ye baat to har post mein kah-kah ke thak gayee main ki yehi sab reason tha...
but poor ASR uske naseeb mein bashing hi likha hai...

thnx for pointing this in a separate post..👏
Why ASR left , i never felt it was a cowardice act...He lft because he could not divulge all to Anjali..whom he is most answerable to..he had tears in his eyes..he could not appear weak in front of entire family..So he left..not because he could not face them..He seriously had no answer...but nevertheless he gave that fiery stare to Creep..

Same way when he had broke up with Lavanya, he never told d reason...family had asked but nobody made such hue and cry...La told its mutual ..but why happened..they din answer it...ASR was never answerable to anyone since beginning of the show..he did d same again last night...even if he wanted this time..

And family reaction is quite obvious..Nobody will accept such sudden marriages..I will also loose my patience...haan ..it was lil more dramatic..Buaji n Garima could have controlled their tongue at least..never mind I am still ok with it...😡

All these are nothing but a strategy of CVs to show the intense passion later when ASR regrets...this is how drama works which needs to satisfy all kind of audiences...
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Rashmi: I can't believe this.. This was exactly my feeling after seeing the episode.. All characters were doing, exactly what was expected.

Khushi can't tell because even if she tells no-one will believe her. Arnav was choking with emotion after seeing the pain in Anjali; he could'nt lie to her, yet he could'nt tell her the truth.. and as you said, could'nt afford to break down in front of Shyam.

Family reaction would be this way.. as no one expected this from Khushi... Nani and Anjali, though welcomed her as Chote's would-be, were questioning her more on why the 'rushed wedding' and the reason behind it.. They were surprised.. To them it was unbelievable that Khushi being an epitome of sanskritis could actually agree to Arnav on this... Gupta people were torn in emotion today, as they lost face with Payal's inlaws.. All the words that were said and hurt Khushi were said out of emotion out of the situation, because they could not relate to what she had done.. It looked more hurtful because Khushi was already was forced into the wedding.

This scene was needed for taking the story to the next step in my PoV. All said, I was in the minority today!!! 😊
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: shu_cal

Rashmi: I can't believe this.. This was exactly my feeling after seeing the episode.. All characters were doing, exactly what was expected.


Khushi can't tell because even if she tells no-one will believe her. Arnav was choking with emotion after seeing the pain in Anjali; he could'nt lie to her, yet he could'nt tell her the truth.. and as you said, could'nt afford to break down in front of Shyam.

Family reaction would be this way.. as no one expected this from Khushi... Nani and Anjali, though welcomed her as Chote's would-be, were questioning her more on why the 'rushed wedding' and the reason behind it.. They were surprised.. To them it was unbelievable that Khushi being an epitome of sanskritis could actually agree to Arnav on this... Gupta people were torn in emotion today, as they lost face with Payal's inlaws.. All the words that were said and hurt Khushi were said out of emotion out of the situation, because they could not relate to what she had done.. It looked more hurtful because Khushi was already was forced into the wedding.

This scene was needed for taking the story to the next step in my PoV. All said, I was in the minority today!!!😊



Count me in shubha, I was in minority too.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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It is perfectly alright to ask, what would parents do. Should they bless them.
They don't need to bless. But why the over dramatics and hurtful words. Did they murder someone?
Kushi and ASR did not run away and come back after months. They got married and came back to the house within hours. How was prestige shattered when there seems to have been no crowd except family there. Couldn't it be questioned after everyone calms their nerves down. What kind of family will do this. Aren't elders supposed to be wiser, have more patience and have worldly charm about them.
All I want to ask every girl is this. You are in love with someone but never confessed. That same someone blackmails you and there is no way you can spill the beans. Would you laud your family for slapping you, spitting on you, trampling your soul? If so, then hats off to you.
If there was atleast one guy on this forum who says he is male and says what ASR did is what a man has to do to a woman who cheated him. All these ladies doing ASR worship will make sure that poster is forever banned. But I doubt if anyone will see the reason why I say this.
Why did ASR have tears. Because his Di had tears? What was there for her to cry so much. Because he is not giving a reason. He did not give a reason when he and La broke up. Where were the water works then. Even then his DI demanded answers and was hurt. Why was he not crying then.
The only reason CVs made ASR leave is not because ASR is shattered. CVs made ASR leave the room so Kushi's essence of a human being is completely and utterly shattered. Maybe for the story or maybe for TRPs. That was as much an assasination of ASR's character as it was of Kushi's character when CVs made her mouth "Leave Your Wife".
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Thanks dear for your detailed explaination to the family reaction and why Khushi was silent. When she herself is in a shock and yet to recover from teh same, where is the scope for her to open up? Even if she opens her mouth what can she tell them except that she is married to Arnav for the reasons better known to him and he is not around and also can't expect him to explain reason for his decision. Sh had t be quiet as a loving sister, dutiful wife, how can she tell them that he blackmailed her to stop payal's wedding? when every one is in that particular mood, was it right from her part to open her mouth and even if she, would she have been able to complete one full sentence before crashing? She was holding herself from collapsing.
And as for Gupta's, their reaction was right and never felt over reacted. If they were against getting her married, then her action of eloping and marrying would have been OK but when they were ready to get her married even before Payal, how on the earth you call them greedy? An adopted mother feels the pain more than a maternal mother as she feels that my upbrining is wrong. And as for Buvaji, how can you people be so mad? have you forgotten that when she came to know about ASR hurting Khushi, she had banned her from working at his office as well as she oppsed her to work in RM as well. She was hurt that khushi didn't inform them about her marriage or they felt that she didn't trust them. So please keep cool. Things will fall into their place slowly.
And as for as Anjali and Naani are concerened, they were happy that both these people are coming together and they had dreampt of getting them married also. But this was a big blow to their love and trust that they were not involved in such a big decision of life. they are not against Arshi marriage but against the way they married. Their faith in Khushi was that she will make Arnav realised the values of marriage and the responsibilities and when she herself blew that in the air they were disappointed with her.
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