Is amar wrong if he forgets and forgives

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docsweety

@docsweety

Voyager

Posted: 13 years ago

I don't understand why amar is called spineless.is it really wrong to forgive.I know it's easy to say how can he forget what sky said.I think he is a intelligent player who knows that his family opinions are what matters to him and they know he hasn't done any wrong. He did sit with sid and mahek at first but Sid started taunting him back since mahek returned atleast sky stopped that since few days.he is only here to win the money to help his family.moreover Sid and mahek are not leaving a chance to speak bad about him .what is he supposed to do sit and talk to the walls or what

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Jas

@MrManagement

Voyager

Posted: 13 years ago

I agree. He is just trying to pass his time. Sid and Mehek always ignore him with he talks to them. He never abuses mehek, or tries assinate her character. Amar does't want to fight sky because sky get dirty in fights. Amar knows that there is only few days left, and instead of keeping grudges everyone should live quietly with each other.

Even sanjay when he came to the house said the the best attitude is forget and forgive, and before he left he told amar to keep doing what your doing

But mehek/sid fans will keep bring up the point what sky did to him why is he still taking to him, well sid did the same thing to him also. He has no choice but to talk to someone, they live in closed building 24 hrs. It really easy to say that Amar shouldn't talk to anyone, but unless your are placed in that environment you don't know the feeling.

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suraj_singh

@suraj_singh

Beginner

Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: docsweety
I don't understand why amar is called spineless.is it really wrong to forgive.I know it's easy to say how can he forget what sky said.I think he is a intelligent player who knows that his family opinions are what matters to him and they know he hasn't done any wrong. He did sit with sid and mahek at first but Sid started taunting him back since mahek returned atleast sky stopped that since few days.he is only here to win the money to help his family.moreover Sid and mahek are not leaving a chance to speak bad about him .what is he supposed to do sit and talk to the walls or what

Actually Amar is harmless not spineless. Basically he is only mature man in the house, not picking up fights, not looking for footage, not assasinating other's charachter.

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paras2

@paras2

Explorer

Posted: 13 years ago

In real life is someone called you napunsak , someone say bad thing about your childrens and wife even if you are friendly to that person, then these qualities make you fit to support Amar.

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675943

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: paras2
In real life is someone called you napunsak , someone say bad thing about your childrens and wife even if you are friendly to that person, then these qualities make you fit to support Amar.

btw dere r not his qualities...this shows ki ye kitna bada fattu hai...mental insaan...koi ek stand to rakho

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Ajnabee

@*Woh Ajnabee*

Stunner

Posted: 13 years ago

Amar is NOT neutral. When he's with Sky and Juhi, he bitches about Sid and Mehak. When he's with Sid and Mehak, he bitches about Sky and Juhi. That's not neutral, that's hypocrisy. He doesn't have the guts to stand up to people like Sky, who unnecessarily bring his family into little fights in the house. He hasn't "forgiven" Sky - he is scared of standing up to Sky. If he hates Sky and Juhi as much as he expresses on the show, why does he worship the ground Sky walks on? Sid is annoying, but I do give him credit for being by himself when he was cornered by the other housemates, instead of trying to get in their good books.

Having said that, this late in the game, it is a good idea to avoid fights on the show, which is what Amar is doing. However, throughout the show, Amar has truly been spineless. He has gone to low extents to protect himself from being nominated.

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Jas

@MrManagement

Voyager

Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: *Woh Ajnabee*
Amar is NOT neutral. When he's with Sky and Juhi, he bitches about Sid and Mehak. When he's with Sid and Mehak, he bitches about Sky and Juhi. That's not neutral, that's hypocrisy. He doesn't have the guts to stand up to people like Sky, who unnecessarily bring his family into little fights in the house. He hasn't "forgiven" Sky - he is scared of standing up to Sky. If he hates Sky and Juhi as much as he expresses on the show, why does he worship the ground Sky walks on? Sid is annoying, but I do give him credit for being by himself when he was cornered by the other housemates, instead of trying to get in their good books.

Having said that, this late in the game, it is a good idea to avoid fights on the show, which is what Amar is doing. However, throughout the show, Amar has truly been spineless. He has gone to low extents to protect himself from being nominated.

Well have you seen a episode where Mehek, sid, sky, or juhi have not bitched about anyone? Amar is playing all side, THAT is why from day one he told everyone he is not her not to make relationship but to play the game. He has said that over and over again. Everyone knows that he is on nobody team. You talk about sid being himself, everyone from the host to the viewers agree sid is copycat. His chachma number one, he first waged his tail around shakti, then sky, amar, mehek, shonali, andrew and then mehek again. Just because amar doesn't support mehek all her fans are after him. Sid abused mehek so much, amar has never assassinated mehek character, he has never personally attacked her. Amar has been fighting his battles by himself, he doesnt' have host to hid behind.

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prerna4rishav

@prerna4rishav

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Posted: 13 years ago

No.. He is not wrong if he forgets and forgives..

But the thing is, you can not keep forgiving a person who has insulted you SO many times.. People are calling him spineless cuz he is again back to the gang who insulted his family, even his daughter.. He should not have done that in real life..

But what I think is, he is here to play a GAME.. And no matter if it's on-cam or off-cam, he can not stoop down to Sky's level calling him Impotent and talking abt his sister and all just to give it back to him.. Well it's true that I will prefer him to react at least once.. Last year after constant provokation and all, even such calm people like Shweta and Sameer reacted, but may be that is how they will do in real life, and hence they chose to be real here.. But for Amar, we can clearly see, he has not come here to show his real-self, but JUST and JUST to win the show.. And he is doing a FAB job there.. He didnt go beyond his limit in ANY fight.. He never insulted/created fight of his own barring one..

One kind of people are there, who choose to show their real-self in game show and insult others back if they are insulted. They can not control their temper after a certain point.

Another kind of people are there, for them it's just a game show, so dont take anything seriously and focus on game. Play it fair and win.

I find both the category people deserving winner for a game show..

What I HATE is, stooping down to Paataal to win a game / creating fights 24x7.. Character assassination krap and other stuffs.. Those people deffo dont deserve to win 👎🏼

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suraj_singh

@suraj_singh

Beginner

Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: paras2
In real life is someone called you napunsak , someone say bad thing about your childrens and wife even if you are friendly to that person, then these qualities make you fit to support Amar.

These things are not said by amar. He has to live in the house for few days so he is talking to everyone, he denied any friendship in last episode.