Why is Swammni not married

Why is she still unmarried women living in her fathers house.

I dont know about you guys, but in most familes the oldest daughter in law which would be (V) would have the run of the family.. not the Daughter of the house.

She is unmarried 50 year old lady who has her nose so far up in the air she is getting nose bleeds.

If I was an unmarried women of her age and living in the house I would not be so stuck up. THe way she treats her sister in laws is as of they are her daughter in laws. She gives them no value at all.

In the wedding she was doing and taking charge of the entire thing, in the house everyone has to listen to her regarding everything, what is the two daughter in laws roles in the house then. She acts more like the wife then the daughter to her father. He gives her way too much importance in everything and not at all to the other two daughters in laws of his that gave him his 3 grandsons. If she is a widow then she needs to go back and live in her in laws home and leave this house alone.

Maanvi is completely correct. I have never went to anyone home that they had a menu card and everyone checked marked what they wanted to eat for breakfast, lunch, and dinner. Where they had to be ready to eat a a certain time or else they dont eat. If i wanted a menu to pick my food from then I would go to a restaurant not a my home kitchen. Home Kitchen is where you laugh, and make food that everyone loves and enjoy eating. That is why ppl say nothing beats home cooking.

Apparently she is a widow, but even then as you cleary pointed out it should be the daughter in law who should be given the importance, and have a say on how the house should be run, and yet its Swamini:s

i know right! your post is so true.

oh this is one post I would love to come back to.. but in synopsis.. you mean to suggest that an old unmarried woman has no right to pride.. pride of her convictions.. of her psyche.. interesting tangent you present.. on the contrary her history for me is rather intriguing.. and respect again is also earned not commanded.. V bros till now havent suggested that she commands that respect from them but rather earns it.. so give her some benefit will ya..😃 and secondly.. she is very in line in her behaviour.. doesnt hound one like a dog.. she knows where she can and should call shots.. she mostly does so in Viren's matter as she feels that right by his own compliance.. i for one havent seen her presume the same right over virat.. she keeps her opinion to herself about both inder and virat in spite of dadaji's irk..

she probably has a secret promiscuous past 🤢

She has a bad past probably. And anyways even if she was in her own house she'd ruin that household with her rules and crap 🤢

Pretty and sonali good points. I liked both your perspectives and I kinda agree with sonali.

Who would want to marry her? Unki Harqatein Kaafi Hain ... 🤣

Originally posted by: Suchi-NivReniac

Pretty and sonali good points. I liked both your perspectives and I kinda agree with sonali.

But did she not hint that, she had lost her love? I am sorry may be I missed where it was said she was married.

I think she was in love and gave up her love for her father's rules etc. and to take care of his family when everything went haywire after Viren & Virat's dad passed away etc.

I do not think DJ is cruel but I do think he is way strict. And considers what he does is correct and undermines others efforts. Some parents are like that. They say negative things thinking that their children will prove them wrong and get the encouragement via reverse psychology. But Its usually wrong approach.

The self esteem of the children are usually hurt and they progress less. This is clearly seen with chachaji. HE stammers in the presence of DJ but else he is fine and a loving husband.

He does not have children right?