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Posted: 13 years ago
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I do think that DJ is wrong and he is talking to his son in a very hurtful way. It saying to your only living son that i am ashamed of being your father or you being my son is a very strong statement to make.

Sonali = I am not saying that an unmarried women should not have any rights over anything at all, I am an un married girl currently, but I also know my places in my fathers home. The day a family member brings in a daughter in law in the family, then that home mostly is her responsibility to run and take care of. Yes it would be find for Swamani to teach the new daughter in law, but in this case there are 2 other daughter in laws that can do that job. In the wedding Swammani not only picked the girl, the dress, the places, the invitations, the entertainment and even did the pre-wedding rituals that went along.

DUring the wedding she never felt bad for stepping and doing the things that should have been performed my Virens mother.

I also agree that respect is something you earn and not giving away, but I think that you also have to be open minded about things to where people will respect you. Maanvi;s grandmother is also with Maanvi, but she does in a loving way and she lets it go. Where was Swammani is very mean and hurtful with her words.


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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: pretty54

I do think that DJ is wrong and he is talking to his son in a very hurtful way. It saying to your only living son that i am ashamed of being your father or you being my son is a very strong statement to make.

Sonali = I am not saying that an unmarried women should not have any rights over anything at all, I am an un married girl currently, but I also know my places in my fathers home. The day a family member brings in a daughter in law in the family, then that home mostly is her responsibility to run and take care of. Yes it would be find for Swamani to teach the new daughter in law, but in this case there are 2 other daughter in laws that can do that job. In the wedding Swammani not only picked the girl, the dress, the places, the invitations, the entertainment and even did the pre-wedding rituals that went along.

DUring the wedding she never felt bad for stepping and doing the things that should have been performed my Virens mother.

I also agree that respect is something you earn and not giving away, but I think that you also have to be open minded about things to where people will respect you. Maanvi;s grandmother is also with Maanvi, but she does in a loving way and she lets it go. Where was Swammani is very mean and hurtful with her words.



about Swamini.. well its been stablished she considers herself VIren's foster mother.. and so does Viren.. calls her badi maa not bua.. Virat calls her bua.. so I am going to conclude the rights she took over Viren's marriage she wont over Virat's.. secondly when ever she though she is overriding Vanshika's sentiment she has shared her place with her.. esp the mata ki chowki the rest of the times Viren has taken care.. Viren explains to Jeevika just how much Swamini means to him.. never much mentioned about taking extra caution with Vanshika.. the guy is smart.. he knows where to specify things.. so this is not a natural co relation.. its a special scenario.. thats why I said Swamini may be overbearing wrt Viren. .but she doesnt command outside .. esp in Inder's or Virat's matter..

secondly.. I come from a very diff setting.. m unmarried who left home almost close to 8 yrs back and my bro got married but the place in my father' family hasnt changed.. bhabhi is equally comfy in her place.. and we are friends.. who help each other out.. but the authority I have been bestowed for some decision making by virtue of my objective quirks hasnt been taken away.. in fact bhabhi for one totally uses tht to her benefit sometimes.. coz Am sometimes her bridge.. every person is an individual not shaped entirely by a relationship he/ she holds.. thts part of you.. not you.. so looking at swamini just by her relationships and ignoring her individuality is unfair for me.. her individuality is attractive.. and its not tht she makes wrong decisions.. she steps her ego aside when it really matters.. we have seen it.. and why should she feel bad about her rights on viren.. did yashoda feel bad for taking Devki's rights away.. we respect yashoda as a foster parent.. 😃
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Posted: 13 years ago
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sach mai yaaarrr🤣
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Posted: 13 years ago
#14
Thank god she is not married... bechara her pati aaj kya haal hota uska 😕 Kahin na kahin toh ek ladka zaroor keh raha hai "thank god mein is hitler se bach gaya" 🤣
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Swamini is pathetic. she won't marry do anything for herself she has no identity for herself expect one she is the daughter of Vadhera family. She has no respect for anyone. She is bossy rude and arrogant. She herself has no shame of staying in her own house and teaching other people about respect and rules. 🤢

Dadaji is too much he was so rude to Inder. I have never seen so much rules and regulations in one house! Manvi is so right! There are other people in the house who deserve equal amount of respect. He treats everyone like a puppet as long as they follow his rules and regulations they are fine. Its like no one is allowed to have their own opinion in the family. 😡

Don't u think that as a DIL Jeevika should find out the problem and sort it out? 😕


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Posted: 13 years ago
#16
Lol who'd want to marry her
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Well there's like a big secret among the char of this serial. Sometimes i feel a new serial can be made based on these characters. Was swamini married? Or was she dumped? Or was she thrown out of her husband's house (i wish this was true)!
Above all i feel she might have been dumped by some guy Thtl's the reason she has a bad relationship with virat.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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well, who will marry her agar woh apni manmani karti rahe??😡bechara wadhera parivaar...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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@Sonali.19287: completely agree with you. I like Swamini too. Yes she is rigid in her outlook of life (maybe life experiences have made her so). And the thinking that just because you are an unmarried daughter you should not have a voice is just ancient. I have never seen her be mean to Virat or to her brother and his wife. She infact does praise Virat and give him responsibilities where due. Also, i think there will be a Maanvi and Swamini connection. ( I so hope there is). Something where ages ago she was probably as impetuous as Maanvi and then something went wrong to change her prism of the world. From the very first they have shown Swamini be wary and unsure of Maanvi, surely there has to be a reason for that? I like the shades in her character and of Dadaji too... No one in the Wadera mansion is actually terrified of the two, they just respect the fact that they are the decision makers.
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Posted: 13 years ago
#20
I'm pretty sure Swamini must have been engaged to be married at some point..Ho sakta hai the groom showed up late to the wedding and our waqt k paband dadaji called it off😆

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