Since I haven't seen all the episodes from the beginning, this part has confused me too...thanks for the clarification!😃
If Arnav was 15 when they were kicked out of Sheesh mahal (Anjali says so when she first appears at the fashion show), and if he is 26 now (nani says so in the first discussion about La in the house), that means 11 years have passed in the interim.
 So Anjali must be at least 30 now...and is married to Shyam only for the past 3 years...and we don't know how Anjali and Shyam met...sometimes I feel it is time we knew a little more about Arnav's and everyone else's past.
Also, since I couldn't find all the earlier episodes, can anyone weigh in on why Khushi goes to Sheesh Mahal to meet her then prospective brother-in-law? Did he live there? Is there some connection somewhere with Arnav's extended family?
Arshi will get married sooner or later, and I don't think it would be ALL lovey-dovey..then the show would lose its central theme.😛 
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Hi,
To answer your quesion about Sheesh Mahal:
Khushi went there because Arnab, after buying it from his uncle, converted Sheesh Mahal into a hotel and Payal's barat was suppossed to leave from there. So khushi went there to talk to Payal's intended about the dowry issue but instead got mistaken for a model for Arnab's bridal collection. 
As for Anjali and Shayam I think that she has an inferiority complex due to her "disability" and Shyam either instigated or simply took advantage of certain circumstances in a chain of events where Anjali was at her lowest, hearing all kinds of nonsense due to her disability and unmarried status. Similar to the situations he instigated to lead buaji into pushing for Khushi-Shyam (Ewww) wedding.
 
 
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