Gulaal not accepting Kesar as husband is correct

Looking back in the past, when Kesar was a kid and Gulaal came into this house as Vasant's wife, Pan baa expressed that Gulaal is taking care of Kesar like a mother.

again one more mother son relation post ...phew...! anyways its gulaal decision chahe beta banaye ya hubby hume kya 🤪

lol well when everyone said gulaal is like kesar's mom no one knew that one day that boy was going to get married to gulaal 😉

If she was thinking that way, then it was paap for her to have married him then. Maybe it was okay for dadi to say it that way when Kesar was 12 but now he is a grown man and the same dadi recently refered to Kesar and Gulaal as pati patni in front of Gulaal and she never raise any objection. Gulaal may not at present accept Kesar as her husband, there is no denying that for better or for worst they are man and wife.
Taking care of a younger person is not an automatic qualification as a mother or to be label as one.

Originally posted by: datqurlx3

lol well when everyone said gulaal is like kesar's mom no one knew that one day that boy was going to get married to gulaal 😉

and after the DV if they still said that, they said it through the POV that gulaal is his caretaker and protector. to put a name on that relationship, they may have called gulaal his mom

people often need to put a name on certain relationships, and at that point many thought of gulaal as kesar's yashoda.

that didnt necessarily make her his actual mother. [his mother is already there: paan ba]

it reminds me of how many indians marry their cousins. growing up, they may call them bhaiya, but what happens when they end up marrying?

funnily, in the show no one was exclusively able to point out why gulaal cant accept kesar. many came up with their own questions:

is it cuz kesar is younger? is it cuz he's vasant's brother?

i guess us viewers will find out with time 😊

haha completely agree with you melanie...i know alot of people who has called their cousin by sister or accepted that relatinship erent made for that because at the end it wasnt like that... they got married and its all cool... and seriously these post whether or not gulaal is kesar's mom needs to stop... either people are not accepting this truth or they dont want to see our sweet couple... and i must say one more thing... in a husband wife realtionship.. alot of time a wife takes care of a husband like a baby or a child or treat them like a mother, but that doesnt mean they are their chikdren or anything.. its just the way of behaving...always remember... only true blood relationships are true and nothing else.. doesnt mattr how much people refer you as a mother of someone or sister or whatever...

Originally posted by: bintus02

If she was thinking that way, then it was paap for her to have married him then. Maybe it was okay for dadi to say it that way when Kesar was 12 but now he is a grown man and the same dadi recently refered to Kesar and Gulaal as pati patni in front of Gulaal and she never raise any objection. Gulaal may not at present accept Kesar as her husband, there is no denying that for better or for worst they are man and wife.
Taking care of a younger person is not an automatic qualification as a mother or to be label as one.

hahah!! good one.. same dadi who asked gulaal to take care of him like a mother.. note just ''to take care of himn like a mother''. and later on in life that same dadi is calling out their relationship as husband and wife... now you guys should get it.. its absolutely normal to mary your devar as i said... count only true blood relationship and with the rest we can have all kinds of relationship 😉 lol!!!

Originally posted by: Manoshono

haha completely agree with you melanie...i know alot of people who has called their cousin by sister or accepted that relatinship erent made for that because at the end it wasnt like that... they got married and its all cool... and seriously these post whether or not gulaal is kesar's mom needs to stop... either people are not accepting this truth or they dont want to see our sweet couple... and i must say one more thing... in a husband wife realtionship.. alot of time a wife takes care of a husband like a baby or a child or treat them like a mother, but that doesnt mean they are their chikdren or anything.. its just the way of behaving...always remember... only true blood relationships are true and nothing else.. doesnt mattr how much people refer you as a mother of someone or sister or whatever...

Absolutely agree with you. We really need to move past this constant parading of Gulaal as Kesar's mum. The serial is clear enough for people to understand that this has never been the case and yet they insist on posting this kind of comment over and over again. Now time to move away from this kind of questions. Let's get over it.

Originally posted by: Manoshono

haha completely agree with you melanie...i know alot of people who has called their cousin by sister or accepted that relatinship erent made for that because at the end it wasnt like that... they got married and its all cool... and seriously these post whether or not gulaal is kesar's mom needs to stop... either people are not accepting this truth or they dont want to see our sweet couple... and i must say one more thing... in a husband wife realtionship.. alot of time a wife takes care of a husband like a baby or a child or treat them like a mother, but that doesnt mean they are their chikdren or anything.. its just the way of behaving...always remember... only true blood relationships are true and nothing else.. doesnt mattr how much people refer you as a mother of someone or sister or whatever...

Originally posted by: bintus02

Absolutely agree with you. We really need to move past this constant parading of Gulaal as Kesar's mum. The serial is clear enough for people to understand that this has never been the case and yet they insist on posting this kind of comment over and over again. Now time to move away from this kind of questions. Let's get over it.

Originally posted by: datqurlx3

lol well when everyone said gulaal is like kesar's mom no one knew that one day that boy was going to get married to gulaal 😉

and after the DV if they still said that, they said it through the POV that gulaal is his caretaker and protector. to put a name on that relationship, they may have called gulaal his mom

people often need to put a name on certain relationships, and at that point many thought of gulaal as kesar's yashoda.

that didnt necessarily make her his actual mother. [his mother is already there: paan ba]

it reminds me of how many indians marry their cousins. growing up, they may call them bhaiya, but what happens when they end up marrying?

funnily, in the show no one was exclusively able to point out why gulaal cant accept kesar. many came up with their own questions:

is it cuz kesar is younger? is it cuz he's vasant's brother?

i guess us viewers will find out with time 😊