Originally posted by: why6
Misti, I started writing it but got busy with some work. So am posting it now. It is possible that others have already written this. But I am posting it anyway.
Thanks...thats ok...any comment is welcome.
Misti, I liked today's episode and liked both Dev and Radhika even though both are wrong and both are in denial. Ok, first of all I liked Dev's expressions. He was getting angry but this time it was at Radhika because he knew that Radhika doesn't have rights on these gifts which are for CB. In that sense, he was right today. He had a point when he said that Radhika was deceiving the family. It is true. From Radhika's knowledge, this family is a nice family except for mental Padma whom Radhika is excusing and not blaming for her reaction. Well same goes for Rohan. Even here Radhika is not blaming him for his acitons in the temple. So in any case as far as she is concerned, this is a nice family and she is playing with their emotions in order to achieve her own goals.
Yes and I do accept his POV here too regarding the family...keeps his reasoning for his actions and Radhikas POV aside. None know about the games that badi bahu and Virat are playing...none know about the real person behind dadajis condition.
But from Dev's point of view, he is being totally hypocritical. I really hope that he loses Radhika for a while because otherwise it will not sink in for him. He calls her out on her deception but what about his deception? He could have easily told the family that the girl doesn't want to get married. Then he decided to keep quiet in the hospital about Radhika being Rohan's wife (this is before Radhika had agreed to go to PB). His reasons at that time were that he didn't want to disturb Padma in that condition and didn't want to break Maheswari's faith about CB. So Radhika never entered his mind when deciding that. He relied on Radhika to break the news to the family as he himself wants to keep his image intact within the family. So he wants Radhika to tell the truth that she is not Rohan's wife but not that she considers him her husband. So he is blasting Radhika for the part of truth she won't disclose when he himself can do it easily.
Exactly...he forced her to get ready for this marriage knowing her beliefs...knows that Radhika's marriage to Rohan is incomplete yet he is keeping quiet and is expecting Radhika to own up to this fact. ...I am also hoping that he looses her for a while to realise the folly of his actions...that one cannot play with others life so that he can doo his duties. I am actualy feeling sorry for him because he might loose something valuable for his blindness.
His monologues are very limited and so far they show more of blaming Radhika. But expressions indicate that he has accepted that Radhika is not Rohan's wife and this marriage was a mistake. So he wants that truth to come out but not his marriage truth because ...(we need monologues for this).
Yes...if a monologue is not given here then it makes the situation messy.
I liked this way of her finding out and this would make her even more determined in her goals. As far as feeling guilty or not, I have to put down to chunnu munnu's belief in discontinuity. They may not show discontinuity in costumes but the dialogues are always changing.
😆...Laughing at the clothes bit because that is what struck me when I watched the SBS segment...that discontinuity in dialgues, scenes are ok but clothes is not...or the angle of the ghunghat is not.😆
Her stubborness and lying by ommission is wrong and she would have to bear consequences. She is wrong because she is not thinking that this is a conservative society and there would be ridicule and humiliation this family would face when the truth comes out. So in that sense she is being selfish unknowingly.
She is not even thinking of her father and his condition in the society when or of this truth regarding false marriage comes out...Purohits are rich andinfluential but her father is not.
Dev is right on that, but again since he is being the most selfish where his actions have caused Radhika to lie like this, he has no right to criticize her on this. Not that I have great expectations from Chunnu munnu, but would like to see an episode where they show Dev and Radhika realizing it and not using "Kanha's name" or "dharam aur adharam" to justify this. Fighting for your rights is more than fine, but not at the expense of others and not in a wrong way.
Yes...would like to watch this...but doubt yhat Chunnu munnu will show this.
I actually liked the last scene a lot. Dev in his anger is crossing all bounderies and Radhika stopped him from crossing that boundry which is the most important for her. If he doesn't consider her his wife, he has that right but not to dictate her about her personal actions. Just as he was wrong in blasting her for telling Rohan the truth (even if it was the entire truth), he was very wrong today in trying to disrupt her puja. Glad that she used that stern voice on him and stopped him. Just because he is her husband (and he is acting like one and that too a one who feels that he has total rights on a woman just because she is his wife) according to Radhika, he can not control her actions. Radhika also exercised her rights by holding his hand and stopping him from something wrong. Liked Dev's stunned look. He doesn't know Radhika at all and doesn't realize how strong she is. Along with Maheswari, he too is underestimating her strength.
Yes...as you have said before she is like still water and hence people usually does not realise what lies beneath...or inside her.
I know it won't happen but it would be nice to see an episode where Radhika asks him with what right he was asking her to marry Rohan or stopping her from doing her pujas or stopping her to believe in her childhood marriage. I would also like Dev to ask her why she was forcing her beliefs on him when he can not force his beliefs on her. Avinash and Rubina are very good in confrontation scenes and it would be nice to see an episode where both show normal human reactions and take each other to task.
Yes...if they are soumates then from my POV they should be challenging each other and also questioning each others actions...and in this way enable each other to become better human beings.
Misti, I saw your soulmate thread and will add my thoughts there eventually. But it was very good. Being a soulmate doesn't mean not questioning one another. So today Radhika questioned Dev and he is of course constantly questioning her. But want Radhika to be given more dialogues where she can ask Dev some legitimate questions. By doing so won't make her less of a soulmate or an ideal woman. Chunnu munnu, consider doing that. It would make your show more interesting.
Ok regarding the thread and yes to the rest.
I liked the reference of Radhika going to Mathura and not to London'.Touche Chunnu munnu'😆😆😉..
🤣 I was also chuckling at that and thinking of you.
Me too...I was laughing...😆...I am waiting for the Shakespeare reference now.😉😆
As soon as Radhika asked for permission, the expressions on not only BB and Virat's face, but also at Dev's face was worth it. Dev looked totally horrified and especially when Radhika was glancing at him and talking about KK, he was totally spooked. That was a funny scene. Actually, Maheswari and Viraat are so arrogant that they can not see that Radhika is not meek at all. She is doing whatever she wants but does request it sweetly. If she doesn't get her way one way, she gets it another way.
Yes...actually at what point he had "what the heck are you upto look"😆
I too liked today's episode a lot especially as it showed Radhika's strength. I really liked her stating her request very plainly and her dialogues were for Dev and not for BB. She was letting Dev know clearly that she would pursue her own path regardless of his views. I like this independent Radhika. Just show more scenes with Dev where she can challenge his views. Probably once Rohan is cured which it seems would happen at the end of this week or early next week, they should show a powerful episode between Dev and Radhika where Dev is forced to look at his actions. Right now he is acting like a coward (I know many people won't like this description) where he is concerned about his own image (this is my definition of people who sacrifice needlessly and especially who sacrifice their loved ones without taking into consideration their feelings) and blaming Radhika to escape his own guilt.
Well one can say that he is a coward...to me he is extremely confused and is being pulled in two opposite directions..his obigation at one end and Radhika forcing him to come out of his comfort zone at another end...since he realises subconsiously that coming out of his comfort zone will entitle him to question his own beliefs and ethics, he is fighting back for his own survival...he has survided in this house and has not lived his life. One of my cousins had a pet parrot and he usaully used to stay in his cage...not because he was not allowed to fly around but because he was scared of venturing outside. Even when the doors of the cage used to be opened he used to refuse come out of the cage and sometimes he used to walk to the door...lean out of the cage...hold the door with his beak and then himself shut the door of the cage...Dev is reminding me of that parrot.
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