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@ divmath: I admire how you are such an opponent of the on-screen pairing of Jagat-Gauri and rightly so. I see the premise behind it that if they show Anandi and Jagya resolving their differences, then the whole concept of child-marriage is goint to be tossed out the window and it would, in contradiction, prove that everything works out just fine and like fairy tales in the end. Also, I understand your views of looking at Jagat-Gauri's relationship as one that's based on true love rather than physical attraction. So let me pose this to u:
1. Would u want the optimistic/lovely/trustworthy girl like Gauri to hook up with a deceitful/liar/untrustworthy/two-timer of a guy like Jagat? What justifies his concealing his true identity and details about his married life to her? I am sure this thought must have crossed your mind at some point 😊
2. It is already established that Jagat wanted Anandi to satisfy his physical needs. What gives the guarantee though that he won't fall for the next chick who is doing her FRCPS in London or States when he flies abroad to do his specialization and find a new perspective in his life over there too, thus leaving Gauri behind? It can happen right. After all, he was so quick to jump on the bandwagon of transition from a "ganwaar village" (as he puts it) to a city babu. So for him, there's no stopping him from leaving Gauri for someone with more knowledge and much more modern than Gauri once he meets her. He has no shame to abide by his ethics or cultural values anyways. Would you want a character like that to get hitched with someone like Gauri? Certainly no..
Bottom line is: Any relationship based on lies and deceit is bound to crumble either under pressure, over time or subject to the monotony of life. Theirs is such relationship from Jagat's side. I don't blame Gauri because she's being kept in the dark. But I do hope that Jagat's trumpet is blown soon now and both girls end up tossing him out of their lives.
If anything that's coming out of the show right now, its the fact cheating and deception is fairly easy to fall a prey to in this world.. And that's a lesson in itself. That can happen to anyone, be it someone having a child-marriage or a love-marriage.
Cheers,
Sana~
1. Would u want the optimistic/lovely/trustworthy girl like Gauri to hook up with a deceitful/liar/untrustworthy/two-timer of a guy like Jagat? What justifies his concealing his true identity and details about his married life to her? I am sure this thought must have crossed your mind at some point 😊
2. It is already established that Jagat wanted Anandi to satisfy his physical needs. What gives the guarantee though that he won't fall for the next chick who is doing her FRCPS in London or States when he flies abroad to do his specialization and find a new perspective in his life over there too, thus leaving Gauri behind? It can happen right. After all, he was so quick to jump on the bandwagon of transition from a "ganwaar village" (as he puts it) to a city babu. So for him, there's no stopping him from leaving Gauri for someone with more knowledge and much more modern than Gauri once he meets her. He has no shame to abide by his ethics or cultural values anyways. Would you want a character like that to get hitched with someone like Gauri? Certainly no..
Bottom line is: Any relationship based on lies and deceit is bound to crumble either under pressure, over time or subject to the monotony of life. Theirs is such relationship from Jagat's side. I don't blame Gauri because she's being kept in the dark. But I do hope that Jagat's trumpet is blown soon now and both girls end up tossing him out of their lives.
If anything that's coming out of the show right now, its the fact cheating and deception is fairly easy to fall a prey to in this world.. And that's a lesson in itself. That can happen to anyone, be it someone having a child-marriage or a love-marriage.
Cheers,
Sana~
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