What would you do? If called names

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Question for women:
What would you do if a woman called out your character and called you names - and picked up a nasty fight with your boyfriend? If she insulted your womanhood and sense of self respect and dignity - that too on national television?

Question for men:

What would you do if a woman called you and your girl-friend names and abused your characters in the worst possible ways - that too on national television?

Would you run and hide? Would you follow that person's orders?

Shweta was a heroine and Sameer was a hero in similar circumstances. That is how many felt then. How do we feel now?

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Posted: 15 years ago
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The funny thing is that earlier other inmates literally abused back and called names when they were attacked and called characterless.. the abusing replies were right at that time and now moti and gandi aurat stuff is wrong! I mean what?
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Same question for You honey 😃

Earlier, Dolly provoked the fight.. went to beeps.. Sam came to support Shweta.. Khali pushed Sam.. Later, Ashmit and Veena said 'Sameer was instigating Khali, and Shweta was wrong in watching the tamasha and if she were a true friend, she would have taken him inside, Khali was not wrong and he just touched Sam, didnt push him'.....

Today, Dolly asked for a simple explanation.. Ashmit provoked Dolly out of nothing! Khali pushed Ashmit, Veena started shouting..

If Veena were a true friend, forget abt being girl-friend, if she were a true friend, dont u think as per her own logic, she should have taken Ashmit inside? At least Shweta does not claim that 'if someone is a true friend, she / he should do this that' unlike Veena.. So Veena turned 180 degree from her statement.. Ashmit was saying Khali didnt push Sameer.. Now tonight, they are saying Khali was pushing Ashmit.. Wah wah..

Overall, it is like a mirror situation with the different victims.. But some people's double-standards are clear ! 👍🏼
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Exactly,all housmates including shweta,seema,sameer,khali they all used cheap beep words when they got angry.abusing stuff is right in this forum,and called moti,gandi aurat stuff is wrong.Its funny.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: prerna4rishav

Same question for You honey 😃

Earlier, Dolly provoked the fight.. went to beeps.. Sam came to support Shweta.. Khali pushed Sam.. Later, Ashmit and Veena said 'Sameer was instigating Khali, and Shweta was wrong in watching the tamasha and if she were a true friend, she would have taken him inside, Khali was not wrong and he just touched Sam, didnt push him'.....

Today, Dolly asked for a simple explanation.. Ashmit provoked Dolly out of nothing! Khali pushed Ashmit, Veena started shouting..

If Veena were a true friend, forget abt being girl-friend, if she were a true friend, dont u think as per her own logic, she should have taken Ashmit inside? At least Shweta does not claim that 'if someone is a true friend, she / he should do this that' unlike Veena.. So Veena turned 180 degree from her statement.. Ashmit was saying Khali didnt push Sameer.. Now tonight, they are saying Khali was pushing Ashmit.. Wah wah..

Overall, it is like a mirror situation with the different victims.. But some people's double-standards are clear ! 👍🏼



The scenario is a bit different here.. Sameer was not related to the fight.. It was his self respect that he came forward and than he didn't say that she is friend and thats why I came.. he clearly mentioned that I couldn't tolerate that dolly was talking about a "woman's character". He came because it was not right to call characterless to any women.. and than also no house mate said that ST was wrong .. Some said that Sam instigated because it was not his direct fight.
Yes.. Veena should have taken Ashmit inside but than again it was her fight too.. Dolly was talking the same characterless stuff to Veena too. She started with item where as at that time she didn't say anything to Sam first.

Yes some members are defo are double standards.. which is clear. At that time ST was right when she beeped and abused in reply.. This time moti stuff is wrong!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Decent girl -- Agreed.. And I actually thought Sam would have done the same for every girl.. But seems he just prefers Shweta over others..

And I did not comment abt Members hun.. I said Veena and Ashmit's DS are clear..
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I am glad that many members understand the situation for what it truly is. Being someone else's supporter should be fine but at the same time people should be honest in reporting facts and events and fair in writing opinions.

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