Ever missed anyone very badly ? - Page 8

Originally posted by: hindu4lyf

Sometimes I miss someone so bad that it actually hurts. The pain of being away from them for so long. The pain of not being able to see them day in, day out. The pain of not being able to hear their voice as often as you used to.

So this year all of my friends went to uni. Some of my closest friends study outside London and it feels so strange when you go from seeing them every Monday-Friday for the last 5-8 years of your life, to only seeing them a couple of times during the year. We're all still the closest of friends but things have obviously changed a bit. However when we do meet up, it feels like no-one's been gone anywhere for the last few months and nothing has changed which is something I love about my friends. :)

I guess I just have these random times when I really feel the absence of certain people in my life. People that once meant the world to me.

I have a couple of friends from IF that I'm friends with on FB and in general I am really close to them. They're the kind of friends that tell you everything, the name of their new crush, when they pass their driving test, what movie they're going to watch and any other silly little detail. So whenever either of us go in to hibernation mode when we have finals or whenever there's an argument of some sort and we don't talk for a long time, then I miss those little things that become part of my daily routine.

My mum always told me..

People will always walk in and out of your life. Some will stay longer than others, but everyone will play their part in your life in some way or another. I don't know why but those words always stuck with me.

Originally posted by: xobile

Often people are just friends with people with whom they spend the most time. It's nice to see that distance hasn't lessened your friendships. 😊

Originally posted by: P1nk

I miss being 17.

Originally posted by: hindu4lyf

Not at all :) I mean I love my uni friends and I think they're great people but I've known my school/college friends for a very long time so it's hard to completely cut off friendship that has lasted so many years.

Distance does indeed make the heart grow fonder..but too much distance is never good 'cos then we get accustomed to never having that person around and begin to accept their absence in our lives.

Originally posted by: tulipbaby53

Yeah, I've missed people badly before, and quite often it hurts me a lot!

Sometimes I miss people who are no longer living, but I always feel they are close by somewhere. Maybe in spirit or even they have returned in another life form.

Sometimes I miss my good friends from my old college, but I know I'll see most of them soon. It doesn't hurt me to remember them. I feel good thinking about the good times we had, and I do get sad b/c I miss them, but it's okay.

Sometimes I miss people who do not even care one bit about me, and I know it yet I still miss them. I don't know why.

Originally posted by: tulipbaby53

I don't miss them b/c they have not given me the opportunity to miss them yet 😃

Yes, it's not good to keep thinking about people who are no longer living b/c lots of times if we cannot let go, that spirit cannot leave. They feel guilty and "return".

Originally posted by: Summer3

Funny things about friends is that when I come across certain people I get an instant liking to them as if I had know them before, and we suddenly click.

I always keep in contact with all of them, one way or other. At other times I just think of them and I know full well that they too will get my mental message.

Some have unfortunately left this world but no harm done, still they are with me.

Good Friends are indeed rare.