Maryada EDT # 1 - Page 2

Originally posted by: -Fivr-

*sigh* I'm getting ready to head home but I'm probably going to post my thought in here instead of the written update once I watch the episode.. Since we now have a discussion thread and all.. 😆

Originally posted by: poppy2009

 

Please do post here, Fivr! Wanna read your detailed views on yesterday's episodes!😊

 

Btw, I seriously think that Aditya should stop advising Priya! I mean, the dude doesn't know the girl at all and to instigate her to go and slap her ex was not exactly a brilliant idea...as evident from the way, it all ended...making Priya depressed enough to end her life once again!

 

Anu : I agree . But Aditya I guess, thinks that Priya cannot be wrong. Its his assumption, sply since he is so smitten by her. Love is blind as they say 😆. He keyed her up and watched the tamasha 😆, He didnt have any other option too.

 

Amar is a first class jerk alright, but Priya shouldn't have slapped him...because she still doesn't have the mental and emotional strength to fight him back and most importantly defend herself! She is getting worked up by Adi and doing stuff that she normally would not do and hence not able to withstand the repurcussions!

 

Anu :  I didnt like the way she backed off without defending herself. I mean she should think abt it before she head towards Amar and slap him.  I mean what did she think will happen once she slaps the guy? Either he will try to blame her or his wife will ask what the matter is. Either way she had to spit out her side of the story. This was so unthoughtful of her to go slap a guy without getting ready with her defences. I so wished atleast she allowed her dad to reason out the facts.   I blame Aditya for that though. He shouldnt have showed her the guy and keyed her abt "lat" and all that. He should instead have asked her abt the flashback and then helped her out.  Anyways its so human to make such blunders. Rage doesnt reason 😛. But I totally loved the acting in the scene though 😳. Both the actors were amazing as usual.

 

 

Anyway, loved Aditya for standing up for Mr. Pradhan....and his dialouge, 'Ab tu pitne waali baat kar raha hai...' 😆 Amar looked genuinly scared of Adi! Rakesh was fab in the scene!

 

Adi looks mature enough not to jump into any conclusions, even though he looked very confused after all that Mrs. Amar said...and more so because Priya did not defend herself! Waiting for today's episode!

 

Anu :  Ya I agree, I dont think he doubts the girl.  He just wanted to know more abt the past. He wanted to listen. He wanted priya to defend herself. Iam sure after the supposedly jump from lighthouse scene he will get to know abt the past.

 

 

For me the best part of the epi had to be the four women praying at the kua . Each with their own problems. The best frame was all the four women around the well and Aditya in between all of them. I somehow feel he will be the key for all the four womens fights. He definetly seems close to all the four , and he definetly seems a very sensible guy, who cant tolerate injustice.

 

 

@Anu, what a coincidence! I just sent you a PM requesting you to post your views on yesterday's episode...but the PM bounced back, cause your Inbox is full! And there you post it here!!! Edited by poppy2009 - 13 years ago

*stands up and starts clapping*

I have to, just have to give Pradhan's character a standing ovation! I mean the way that guy just ripped his daughter's culprit a new one was just BRILLIANT! Right from the word go, he went on the offensive and made sure Amar knew he wasn't welcome and his actions (whatever they were) were not forgotten. Because a parent NEVER forgets the wrong you dish out to their kids and Amar had just made top of that list for Pradhan! I cannot tell you how refreshing it was to see a father who didn't give a hoot what anyone thought of him while he defended his daughter - being there for her, to speak for her, was his primary concern. Everything else came later. So while other parental figures in other shows might try to brush the issue under the carpet until it is unbearable, Pradhan was not even the least bit apprehensive to let the world know that his daughter wasn't wrong and explain to them why. To him, the truth mattered more than false pretenses and "jhooti izzat". *sigh* I toh am totally fida over that scene! I could watch it again and again! 😆

LMAO!! And when one man backs down a bit, the other steps in - Aditya with his "Na chorey ab tu pitney wali baat kar raha hai!" was FANTASTIC! I literally cracked up - I truly enjoyed how he "warned" the guy in his own unique Adtiya-esque way instead of going all dishum-dishum with him right away! But just because he didn't hit him didn't mean that he wouldn't in a heart beat if that's what the situation called - and Amar could see that. Aditya showed restraint in today's episode even after Pradhan was physically threatened and Priya was publicly insulted, two episodes in a row...  I'm beginning to wonder where that Tarzan-Aditya surfaced from two nights ago.. Maybe it was an effect of motion sickness or something..? 🤔😆

And coming to Amar the "Ex"... WHAT a freaking loser! Amar jee, care to explain why you felt the sudden urge to go talk to a girl you just saw across the dinner line and who you think doesn't even deserve to be spoken to (as you mentioned a little while later to her father, telling him that he should be happy you're speaking to her after "everything")? I mean aik toh khud aa k galey padho, baad mein jab banda irritate ho toh bolo "You should thank me k main galey padha!"?!?! I don't know what exactly Amar did to Priya but from what I can tell, it seems like Priya was attacked by some random men the night of her engagement and he ran the first chance he got with his tail between his legs, leaving Priya to fend for herself. And if that is true, what in the heck did he expect would happen when he spoke with Priya?! That she'd barsao phool on him and tell him she'd been waiting to hear his sweet voice?! Gosh, seriously.. What a loser.

And then what is worst is that when he gets his face slapped by Priya he goes and hides behind his wife. Khud ko saanp soong jata hai aur apni rabid wife ko Priya pe chod deta hai. And what kind of a perverse jerk talks about his ex (one that was even an amicable one) with his wife?! Especially when things are as strained as they are between him and Priya and when there is so much troubled history there!!? Just goes to show how insecure he is - he really wants all the allies he can get in this "fight" so he is telling people whatever he feels is the truth in order to get them to side with him before Priya comes along.

And lastly, coming to Aditya's "motivational speech" to Priya.. This man really doesn't like having to stay quiet in the face of injustice, does he? I mean his hands were itching to give Amar two tight ones on his face but he couldn't because it wasn't her fight or his business. So instead he does the next best thing - he goes and riles up Priya with his frustration and then watched her deliver whatever justice he felt was apt for the guy. Only he forgot that Priya isn't him - so when the rabid wife fights back, she crumbles. As she should - with all the painful history that's associated with her past, it was absolutely cruel and distasteful for Amar's wife to take cheap shots at Priya. So much for that "sanskar" that she was talking about earlier. Priya's slap made her "aisi aurat" toh I wonder what her own "garbage spewing" act made her? 🤢

Lol, abhi itna hi yaad aya hai.. If something else pops back in my head, I'll probably be back.. 😆
Edited by -Fivr- - 13 years ago

@Poppy : I cleaned up my inbox now 🤣. It just was filled up.  Anyways so I was right, the guy is central to the story. I havent seen his interview so no idea what his character would pan out to be but from that one clip from yesterday I could see that he will sure be the motivator behind all the four women.

What I like abt Aditya's character is, that he doenst get into anything directly. Like if he wants to he can go beat up Amar, he can beat up the goons in the train , he could do it, he is capable of doing it all but then he backs off. He lets ppl who are "wronged" to take charge. He wants to boast the courage in the woman who was wronged. He wants her to face the battles with head high. That is one thing I just love abt this character. He is so well thought of in his mind. He understands if he goes and fights for someone else's cause, they can never be able to stand up for themselves. They will always look for some support and that aint a good thing.

@Anu : Bingo on what you wrote about Aditya! The creatives need to be given a pat in the back for making him truly different from the hoards of other 'similar' male characters on air (rustic speaking, extroverted, masculine sorts). Aditya is different as in he reins in his temper and does not misuse his power, instead, as you mentioned, tries to get the wronged person to fight for themself. I loved him for not beating up Amar yesterday (much as I would have loved to see him bashed up...maybe in the future episodes, keeping fingers crossed!😆) and instead telling Priya to go and give it to him! Ofcourse, the entire thing was a fiasco, but atleast Adi's intentions were correct.

Edited by poppy2009 - 13 years ago

Hey everyone.Loved reading everyone's analysis on yesterday's episode ,this show seems to have a lot of potential just wish star had given this show a better time slot ,really not possible for lot of people to stay up till 11:30 to watch it.

I agree with what you guys have said about Aditya in parts - I mean I appreciate that he steps back and lets those wronged stand up for themselves. I am glad he doesn't suffer from the "protector" complex - at least not to a point where it's a nuisance. But I don't know if I am going to call him "different" from all the rest of the men, just yet. I want to wait and see a little bit more. It's too soon for me.. *sigh* The cynic prevails yet again.. But I do appreciate how he wants to "help" and that's his primary motive. Just helping out the girl he cares for. He doesn't want to protect her or defend her, he jsut wants to help her. And I appreciate that. But even so.. I want to wait.. 😆 Edited by -Fivr- - 13 years ago

@Poppy : Ya I too think Priya was tagged "prostitute". That goes with what Amar's wife was saying in yesterday's epi, "She is very famous" in some place. Looks like Amar made Priya look like a "prostitute" infront of his wife, no wonder that woman was all over Priya yesterday. I would love to see her face when the truth comes out. That will sure be a kodak moment🤣. Edited by Anu-Reddy - 13 years ago