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of course she loves sid thats why Armaan ki har thakleef use dard detha hai and uska har chot se use fark partha hai...
of course she loves sid thats why Armaan ki har thakleef use dard detha hai and uska har chot se use fark partha hai...
This is just perfect. I also think the same. She was adamant in not accepting her changing feelings during their Honeymoon. She was resisting because she thought she will never be able to accept another man. This is perfect example of what a man/woman think they should do, but end up doing something else. She was resisting, finally let go of her resistance, wants to meet Sid and express her change of feelings (in Pune). On seeing Arman, her guilt returned to her. Infact, I think because of these guilt feelings only, she is unable to move ahead freely until the point Arman has talked to her (prior to KC). When Arman tried to help her recognize her true feelings, she felt little releived of her guilt and could move ahead with what she actually wants (in a more free way). I mean she never wanted to move away from Sid, but could not put that infront (of anybody) because of her guilt.
Further, she did not want to get back these guilt feelings. So, she tried to un see the pain Arman is going through. It actually happened two times. The first time Sid openly made her aware of Arman's still existing feelings (when Arman tried reading a blank diary) and then she had to acknowledge. The second time, during her birthday till she saw Arman physically hurt, she tried to unsee his pain. I don't agree with many others who say she has become suddenly aware of Arman's pain. She just did not want to see it, but was forced to do it finally as Arman was not settling.
I think this is it, if we look at the end feeling of it, that she is stopping and also hestitant to be totally happy until Armaan moves on - she cant satifiedly be happyOriginally posted by: Perfangel5655
That is so true. Like every time Sid gets close to her she seems scared. She is not scared because she doesn't like being intimate with him it's because she feels guilty. She never felt for anyone other than Armaan yet when Sid touches her she comes alive. She said in the scene where both of them wore white. She didn't understand how another guy could have such a strong effect on her. She wanted Sid to love her. Even if she doesn't love him yet she cherishes him. She knows he makes her happy. The only problem is Armaan is absolutely miserable and she feels responsible for it. She is stopping herself from being totally happy till Armaan gets over this misery.
Absolutely awesome post on Riddhimas guilt. I totally agree with your 100%. From watching ridz in the last few days I feel she is very much in love with Sid even though she hasn't said the three words yet but for Ridz to give herself fully to Sid even though she wants to, Armaan must move on in life. She is very guilty that she has found everything love, a beautiful man that loves her and cherishes her and would move heaven and earth to see her happy. What does Armaan have and what does she see at the present except a SACK OF MISERY. I am convinced that this is the reason that although there is no doubt in my mind that Ridz is absolutely in love with Sid her happiness and future with Sid cannot move forward until she sees Armaan happy.Originally posted by: Perfangel5655
That is so true. Like every time Sid gets close to her she seems scared. She is not scared because she doesn't like being intimate with him it's because she feels guilty. She never felt for anyone other than Armaan yet when Sid touches her she comes alive. She said in the scene where both of them wore white. She didn't understand how another guy could have such a strong effect on her. She wanted Sid to love her. Even if she doesn't love him yet she cherishes him. She knows he makes her happy. The only problem is Armaan is absolutely miserable and she feels responsible for it. She is stopping herself from being totally happy till Armaan gets over this misery.
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