Isnt Radha Bua's Character Contradictory?

I find Radha Bua's character a bit contradictory in the sense that when she heard Suhana & her dad's conversation about how much Suhana dislikes her marriage, her husband and her in-laws, she was shocked, upset and angry. But then when Ishan came to her and said he doesn't want to be with Suhana as she prefers to be alone, Radha Bua advices him and says that he should be with Suhana as she is his wife. Then after that they show her going to Badi Ma and complaining about Suhana, and going to the extent of saying that Ishaan & Suhana should be separated! Then Badi Ma advices her but still she wasn't convinced when she walked out from there.

If she actually dislikes Suhana (the way she told Badi Ma), I don't think it is possible to start liking her so quickly and behaving very sweetly with her. It is not possible to like someone overnight whom you just said you dislike.

I guess she has mixed emotions😆maybe because of the continuous staring at suhana effect...her mind is not stable😆

I don't think she dislikes Suhana. She is just angry with her for not giving Ishaan his husbandly dues. Internally she is both livid with Suhana and sad for Ishaan.

She first tried to gauge Ishaan's discontent by asking him to join Suhana in their room. Since Ishaan refused, she thinks that he is not happy with his marriage. That's why she told Badi Maa to separate Ishaan and Suhana. She tries to act normal in front of everyone else, including Suhana since Badi Maa told her not to reveal the truth to anyone and to let Ishaan work on setting his marriage right. However, she gets her spurts of anger whenever she sees Suhana treating Ishaan as a non-entity, not her husband.

Originally posted by: *dewdrop~pearl*

I find Radha Bua's character a bit contradictory in the sense that when she heard Suhana & her dad's conversation about how much Suhana dislikes her marriage, her husband and her in-laws, she was shocked, upset and angry. But then when Ishan came to her and said he doesn't want to be with Suhana as she prefers to be alone, Radha Bua advices him and says that he should be with Suhana as she is his wife. Then after that they show her going to Badi Ma and complaining about Suhana, and going to the extent of saying that Ishaan & Suhana should be separated! Then Badi Ma advices her but still she wasn't convinced when she walked out from there.

After that, when Badi Ma asked Radha Bua to go to Suhana's room with coffee and juice, she dint seem angry and smilingly took the tray. Then in yesterday's episode, Radha Bua happily came to Suhana's room to enquire about her packing to go to her Maayka for 'pagphere', and offered to help her out. She dint have any signs of anger or dislike at that time.

If she actually dislikes Suhana (the way she told Badi Ma), I don't think it is possible to start liking her so quickly and behaving very sweetly with her. It is not possible to like someone overnight whom you just said you dislike.

So I find her behaviour towards Suhana pretty confusing 😕. So does she actually like or dislike her 😕?

Yes, Radha bua's character is little confusing. But if we connect all the dots and see, it all makes sense.
1. I read a post in this forum few days ago, how Radha bua's character is not a negative role. Yes, she is concerned for Ishaan and that is understandable because he has always been someone special to her.
2. Radha bua herself told Suhana that iss ghar mein Badi maa ki baat koyi tthal nahi saktha. Dada, dadi kobhi... that speaks volumes about Badi maa and how much she is revered.
3. Yes, she did complain to Badi maa and wanted to free Ishaan from Suhana. Badi told her to sleep over that thought and consider Ishaan coz his heart is set on Suhana. Badi maa could see Ishaans immense love for Suhana.
4. Badi maa reminded Radha bua that Ishaan is very smart and understanding and alwys knew what to do. So they need to place their trust in him to fix his marriage.
5. Badi maa told radha bua that they have to make all efforts to save their marriage.
By concluding the conversation to sleep over it, it would have tremendous affect on a person. Aur bua dil ki buri nahi hai...

The logical explanation would be that she trusted Badi maa's judgment and decided to follow the advise...

Others who know this theme better, may want to pitch in shed more light....

Shall we see the positive aspects in this thread? If it is not making sense, then we can all pitch in other ideas 😃😛😊

I want to see all positive things to enhance our understanding about these characters 😛 thaki SGP ka mazaa zyada loot sakthe hai... 😉😉

I think she likes her…. But is confused with her affection.

I guess that his family is so closenit that such things effects all of them too much specially for Radha bua because she has this soft corner for Ishaan!

She is also angry and confused at the situation and feels really bad for Ishaan-he is a really nice and simple guy for something like this to happen to him!

And in all this glad she is not over reacting and abiding to Badi Ma's advice.. She will come around .. she just has to see the love from Suhana to Ishaan.. that will make her feel better..

Originally posted by: -Veena-

I think she likes her'. But is confused with her affection.

I guess that his family is so closenit that such things effects all of them too much specially for Radha bua because she has this soft corner for Ishaan!

She is also angry and confused at the situation and feels really bad for Ishaan-he is a really nice and simple guy for something like this to happen to him!

And in all this glad she is not over reacting and abiding to Badi Ma's advice.. She will come around .. she just has to see the love from Suhana to Ishaan.. that will make her feel better..

Sahi kaha Veena. She has to see Suhana's love for Ishaan.. Phir Radha bua Suhana ko sar aankhon par bitthayegi 😛

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i think she likes her until she remebers she is ishaan's wife...😊

Originally posted by: *dewdrop~pearl*

I find Radha Bua's character a bit contradictory in the sense that when she heard Suhana & her dad's conversation about how much Suhana dislikes her marriage, her husband and her in-laws, she was shocked, upset and angry. But then when Ishan came to her and said he doesn't want to be with Suhana as she prefers to be alone, Radha Bua advices him and says that he should be with Suhana as she is his wife. Then after that they show her going to Badi Ma and complaining about Suhana, and going to the extent of saying that Ishaan & Suhana should be separated! Then Badi Ma advices her but still she wasn't convinced when she walked out from there. After that, when Badi Ma asked Radha Bua to go to Suhana's room with coffee and juice, she dint seem angry and smilingly took the tray. Then in yesterday's episode, Radha Bua happily came to Suhana's room to enquire about her packing to go to her Maayka for 'pagphere', and offered to help her out. She dint have any signs of anger or dislike at that time. If she actually dislikes Suhana (the way she told Badi Ma), I don't think it is possible to start liking her so quickly and behaving very sweetly with her. It is not possible to like someone overnight whom you just said you dislike. So I find her behaviour towards Suhana pretty confusing 😕. So does she actually like or dislike her 😕?

Originally posted by: laxmi_s

Appu, acc. to my observation, 😉 Radha Bua has had a haunting experience in her past and that experience itself makes her feel more alert towards anything happening in life...She was also teased upon by other fly. members that once Suhana will enter Ishaan's life possibly Bua will be a bit possessive too.....😲 but she made it a point to tell that whoever is attached to Ishaan is close to her in the same aspect....

The day she overheard (eavesdropping....😆 here too) the conversation between Suhana and her dad, she saw the arrogant and the totally blown up Suhana, which she first of all could not register in her... That left a confusion in her mind about Suhana's existence in Ishaan's life probably.... When Ishaan came to her , and she said he has to be with Suhana as she is his wife (to know her better...... as she is..... ) But then later this confusion triggered an anger as to how she can spoil Ishaan's life and it erupted in her with Badi maa's conversation..... If u notice, Radha Bua is studying Suhana's character, seeing her how she is interacting with other members, considering Badi maa's POV and somewhere feels positive too that Ishaan can win over her, hence was calm and normal when she arrived at her room with the tea and the snacks.... Again when she saw Suhana's thinking was limited to considering only her attire for the wardrobe and there was absolutely no consideration for Ishaan, she flung a statement that Ishaan deserves atleast that much space in her life..... Radha Bua is a beautiful character and has shades of Jaya Bhaduri in Sholay who can speak thousands of emotions even in her silence..... She can in no way go negative......

That was a good analysis of bua laxmi... 👏👏

Although radha bua told suhana to put away some stuff she might not be needing or using so that she can make room for Ishaan, I dont think Suhana registered anything Radha bua uttered. She was in such high spirits.... 😆😆 Am I only the one feeling that way???

Originally posted by: vishmewell

That was a good analysis of bua laxmi... 👏👏

Although radha bua told suhana to put away some stuff she might not be needing or using so that she can make room for Ishaan, I dont think Suhana registered anything Radha bua uttered. She was in such high spirits.... 😆😆 Am I only the one feeling that way???