I realize half of us are angry at her, and the other half are defending her ... but I'm simply baffled ...
I just DON'T UNDERSTAND why she's so mad at 'em??? It's not a rhetorical question either ... Someone wanna attempt at answering?
She claims that Sid made decisions for her? THat he didn't hold up to the vows he took - well HELLOO - she did'nt want to consumate the marriage to begin with... SHE didn't want to take it further and ASKED FOR MORE TIME IN THE LETTER. He gave her teh time, and she's crying about not keeping his vows? And if she's upset about how he sent the divorce papers - WHO WOULDN'T after asking her a gazillion times if she wanted in or out???? Granted he was a bit trigger happy, but she needs to see that it was an attempt to try to get her to make a decision .. ONE SHE STILL HASN'T MADE. Granted he shouldn't have sent them - quite a drastic move to make someone make a decision - but it also spelled out that he wanted to give her space and the consideration he thought she deserved.
I can somewhat see her anger - if someone is trying to figure out what they want - whether they wanna move forward with their husband or not and BAM you see divorce papers - it will hurt. But she's accusing him of things he hasn't done ...
Then we have Armaan - she's been angry with him since he got back. Ok, so he ran away. Fine, I'll give her that one. BUT she moved on and got married too - that hurt him worse. THEN he moves on, accepts fate, and is leaving, when BAM she gets angry at HIM for Sid sending the papers.
BUt wait - wasn't she angry at Sid for sending the papers??? Then she's angry at Armaan for sending the papers too? Wow. And then WHY, oh WHY is Armaan the bad guy here? What EXACTLY has he done to deserve such wrath???? Loved her? And then backed off when he thought she had moved on? I just DON'T understand why she's angry with him? Why does she keep saying he's making decisions for her? WHAT decision has he made? Other than to leave Sanj. when he acceptd that she was married????
And now, to top it all off, when Sid and A are getting along, she has a cow????
I don't get this girl. I just give up. I can't figure out, for the life of me, what she's crying about half the time.
Some one explain please.
-S
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