Parental Pressure Never Works - Page 4

Originally posted by: rickks

Hi Sangeeta Dhi....Nice Post...and well versed with Facts....I agree too.....Even wish for once Shashank would look into Riddhima's Life....and understand that.....He is Forcing her to be in a relationship,where is not happy....She did this for her family...So that Thier name and her upbringing will never be questioned.....But For a daughter who supressed everything for the sake of her parents....atleast This once Shashank must be like Amrish Puri Of DDLJ.....and leave her free from every bondage to a life filled with happiness and love with Armaan...........

Originally posted by: anitamalik

I agree Di! Parental pressure never works thats why I dont agree with this track..I've studied psychology and seriously this is not going to make it easier on Riddhima in now way, but like you said, it will kind of ruin a desire for her to live..shes gonna be EVEN more weak, in the literal sense, and yeah...

Yes, Parents have a right to decide whats right/wrong for their children, I agree with that..But considering its your life, I believe that in the end, the decision is yours and its up to you to make your life worthwhile!

Originally posted by: Preeti_285

Honestly...It's so scary to see a youthful show showing such a bad representation of parents 😳

This kind of behaviour from parents not only makes spectators be disgusted in and children themselves be pushed away from the parents...and lose all respect for these 'parents'...but also ruins the childrens lives...! How can such parents ever smile when they've put a stamp of depression on their childs life?

Really really really disgusting and disappointing!

Honestly...Shashank Gupta has truly proved that Riddhima is not his real daughter... And Padma has proved that Riddhima was nothing but a mistake in her life! The amount they have shown concern towards her life...is SICK..I have nothing more to add!

Originally posted by: caprigurl

awesomely put Bheegi di!
Yes Parents care about children
Yes as Children we need to respect them
Yes most of the times Parents do it out of love!
BUT

There comes a time in everyone's life where you need to make a stand of your own If your ideals clash with your Parents. What is the logic of Spoiling not only your life but also many others by doing something ONLY becos Papa ne kaha tha :(
The 3 idiots example is so relevant for all of us here: What if u r pushed headlong into a profession you will never make it good at? You will FAIL eventually right?
In the same way What if you are given away to someone you barely know , whom u dont love - Maybe you will try to make it work- But with Ridzi - It didnt work it wasnt meant to be
YET YET if someone forces you to Swallow the poison and live a Jailed life for the sake of Compromise, WOULD YOu WOULD YOU?

The parental pressure will not work ji, not work at all unless the parents want their child scarred for life.
Riddhima will somewhere down the line realise How grown up she herself is and then we shall see what DECISION SHE makes for HER life, not cos of Mum or Dad but becos she wants to live a Normal , Happy Love-filled life :)

Originally posted by: Ankita.M

Riddhima was FORCED into the marriage and she is being FORCED to give it a chance.Whatever is done out of compulsion and force is never successful.She may give in to the pressure of society and parents today but a day will come when she will be tired of doing things for others happiness because she will realise that all that she is doing for others isnt giving her any happiness in life.She will realise that there was one decision she talk all by herself and it was only then when she was happy 'literally' and that was when she took a decision that she loves Armaan.

Originally posted by: ishwariya

Wow di kya topic banaya aap ney....

Sach mein di..... this one was very much needed..... parents can take decisoin for their childresn.. lekin asa decisoin nahi jab unki beti ya beta zindagi. ulat palat hojayi.... aur asa may.. hum jab apni zindagi ka chapter kolaingay.. we could never c our own life there instead. we would get to c our parents living our life....

Parents are important n they have the tight to take decisions.. but asa decision nahi jab yeh jantay huwa bhi ki uski beti ki kushi kisi aur ki saath hai..

I just want Armaan to hold Riddhima tight n say ki Riddhima sab teek hojaya.. jab tak mein tumara saath hoon kuch galth nahi hosaktha aur tuamy apni hirsay ka pura kushi milleyga aur woh tumay mein dooinga. baki ki zindai tumay kisi bhi cheez karney mein mein force nahi karoinga... tum apni zindagi jee sakthi hoo. woh bhi kushi kushi...

that would be awesome👏


Hopefully, We will hear a dialogue from Shanky: Mujhey aaj ehsaas hua hai ki apni beti ki khushi ka sabse badha dushman main hoon

i'll be waitng for the day to here this. me too😊

Originally posted by: -Moni-

Parental pressure is something most of us have 2 suffer from n we generally succumb 2 it...mainly because we feel it's our way 2 pay back 2 our parents for their love n support....but we forget that at d end of d day our parents just want us 2 be happy...they make some decisions for us thinking about our good but if we feel it's not right then we need 2 speak up...some of us listen 2 whatever they say quietly n lead our life according 2 their wishes n at d end of d day...our life is full of regrets...n no one is happy neither us nor our parents...

coming 2 d show...Dr shashank needs 2 give Riddhima some space 2 decide for herself...first forcing her 2 marry Sid n then forcing her 2 stay in d marriage will only increase her miseries...I don't know why he is acting in this way...can't he see her pain...can't he see that she is on d verge of a mental breakdown...if not as a parent he should understand her state as a doctor...

exactly...even after that whole rape fiasco, shanky should have arranged for some therapy or psych services for Ridz instead of getting her married...what kind of doc is he???

I love d way u wrote this post...awesome👏 thanks😊

Love
Moni

Originally posted by: prerna4rishav

Ridz is married to Sid.. And in a marriage, sometimes understanding, trust and respect becomes more important than love.. Not always.. but for the time being..

And we already saw how much Ridz wanted to be with Sid.. With each epi, she gives Sid more n more hint that she wants to stay as Mrs.Modi..

So Shashank is helping a mad Ridz to choose the right thing for her.. Anger only ruins life.. Ridz's dec of divorce was an impulsive decision.. Once she calms down, she herself will realize what she was doing..

Just like we saw Armaan punched Sid in anger, and today he said Sorry to him.. Anger can't help to take ANY wise dec.. :)