Just one word - Page 8

Originally posted by: akanna

Yes Rachna, that's right.. He asked them to talk to each other, hold hands and walk.. Maybe that they didnt feel comfortable with each other, and so by knowing each other a bit more, they would feel comfortable to do the steps together. And Terence was right - Amar and Shakti were excellent in that duet!! 😃

^^SB, it was all published, na?? I remember reading about it... 😉 😳 😃

@Lak and QRST - yep, we girls love dreaming, that we spent half of the awake time in dreaming, and then whole sleeping time also dreaming!! Lemme quote a magician's words now!! "Make a wish, make a wish, and I will make your wish come true!!!" 😉 😳

haha..... so right akanna.... we girls day-dream a lot...LOL.... and if i have to make a wish, rather two, i wish a long, happy life for my child and the second one would be to find true happiness within me..... i dont know if i'm gonna wish for any men as men have always gotten me pain....... 😔

^^ Totally see your point and I know where you stand with your words... That's why we girls like to pick someone like Terence to dream on... na? 🤗 He makes us happy with his gentleman nature, his sweet character and smile, everything that we never see in a man around us!! Now all the men here will run to choke us!! 😆 Terence has the magic that we can forget about everything and everyone in life and just enjoy watching him!! And when his dance is added on top of that, it's like having a grand feast with the yummiest dessert!! 😃

Originally posted by: akanna

^^ Totally see your point and I know where you stand with your words... That's why we girls like to pick someone like Terence to dream on... na?🤗 He makes us happy with his gentleman nature, his sweet character and smile, everything that we never see in a man around us!! Now all the men here will run to choke us!! 😆 Terence has the magic that we can forget about everything and everyone in life and just enjoy watching him!! And when his dance is added on top of that, it's like having a grand feast with the yummiest dessert!! 😃

Really wonder if Terence is like this in real life too... i really wish he's like this for real cos it gives me some hope about men 😃 , not that I want one( i dont qualify), just that i can stop generalizing things about men.

Originally posted by: Lak001

Really wonder if Terence is like this in real life too... i really wish he's like this for real cos it gives me some hope about men 😃 , not that I want one( i dont qualify), just that i can stop generalizing things about men.

He is, I am sure!! Unless someone is a superb actor, he or she wont be able to fake it for so long and the real character will always take a peek in between.... His interactions with others on the show and his contestants as well as other team contestants suggest that he is like that in real life too.... 😳

Now coming to qualification - that's only a perception of our own mind! What we see as non-qualificcation might not hold true for many others, and vice versa... It's something that our culture has instilled deeply within us... Our elders are very good in molding us to follow certain things blindly... I am brought up not any differently either... I am not saying we should break all that we are taught, but when something is not right and has to be broken, it should be... 😃 I know it's hard to get out of the generalization of things, especially when time and life prove to us that our beliefs are right... But there are some good men out there like Terence, even though they are only a few in number... 🤗

since u girls are jumping into' hardcore philsufi 'life , lemme add my few cents....

Good men, Bad men...i think eventually it only matters if we know what we truly want...one of my teachers once told me.... we all know what we don;t like, but do we truly know what we truly like & want in life....
sometimes its all about getting the right perspective & prioritize......men should also be just part of the whole prioritization process.....it shouldn't start and end with them,...😃

@ LAK001 - I dont want to sound like im preaching or lecturing...but Honey, there's a lot of happiness within u, take a deep hard look inside u...U WILL FIND IT 😃


and one more thing...dont expect a man to give u happiness....becoz most men are pretty self centered and preoccupied with their own happiness & success in life... so unless u dont make urself a priority & provide happiness to ur own self.... they will never get around doing that...even though most women unconsciously & selflessly do it all the time when they are serious about a relationship....with men it doesn't work that way.....its just that in their own world.....they are the most important ppl...so u have to convey it to them by making urself a priority in ur own eyes, once they realize that , then they do turn around.😊

In my opinion, there is so much in life to live for, so much to learn, so much to explore - that eventually, there's hardly any time to ponder over any man....if at all😉

I hope I didn;t bore the living crap out of y'll😛
sorry,if i did😃

@QRST, I agree with your points.. I also agree that there are good and bad people among men and women, as well as among all kinds and races... And as the saying is - Familiarity breeds contempt", so when you become familiar with someone, let it be a man or a woman, you will start to find faults with something or other... Human nature!! 😊

And I completely agree that men shouldnt have to be a part of our prioritization process nor we have to start and end everything in them... Instead we can use them as some conditions in "Life" flow chart or non-critical processes in the "Life" pipeline!! 😉 😆

One thing is absolutely right - men are extremely self centered!! At times I really wonder how they are made like that?!! But my grandpa wasnt like that though my Dad is!! I can see the same traits in my brothers too!!! Why do guys have such big ego??? 😕 😃