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bookworm2

@bookworm2

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Posted: 15 years ago

#351

I love reading all this banter more than the serial. I am not a big fan of these soaps- reason they show too much cruelity and unrealistic drama. my gripe why don't they balance the good acts and evil acts. ie why cant they show the good people also getting their way. I am seeing that Maju and Savita get away with their actions scot free. especially that Manju and her brother. Now that Sachin died why couldnot they end this track by putting Manju's brother behing the bars. Man! it is sickening to see that the peole with good values and good intentions are the ones to suffer all the time. Is this what the message is that one should not be good, should have no values??

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Tanyaz

@Tanyaz

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Posted: 15 years ago

#352

that seems to be the message . Specially manju is getting away with murder .Even savita, sachin's death did not change her evil ways at all.

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koolsadhu1000

@koolsadhu1000

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Posted: 15 years ago

#353

Originally posted by: bookworm2

I love reading all this banter more than the serial. I am not a big fan of these soaps- reason they show too much cruelity and unrealistic drama. my gripe why don't they balance the good acts and evil acts. ie why cant they show the good people also getting their way. I am seeing that Maju and Savita get away with their actions scot free. especially that Manju and her brother. Now that Sachin died why couldnot they end this track by putting Manju's brother behing the bars. Man! it is sickening to see that the peole with good values and good intentions are the ones to suffer all the time. Is this what the message is that one should not be good, should have no values??

bookworm , welcome . u can also join us in our daily banter if u like .

The answer to ur question is YES . Good people are equated with foolish people who voluntarily choose suffering . the evil ones go scot free , their innumerable villanous acts r forgotten with the passage of time.

Manju has not got a single punishment . In fact she is sleeping like a queen while ma in law feeds her fruits.

Savita is extracting jewels and wealth from Shravni .

Archana for no fault of hers is being maximum punished for crimes she never even committed .

Manav has been turned into a sad faced puppet .

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Nikita Lakhe

@nikitagmc

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Posted: 15 years ago

#354

Ok koolsadhu here's an example of equality in PR

Archana removes her mangalsutra and gives it to kaka for her mother's happiness even though she wanted to be with Manav and had even kept a fast for him... and she knew Manav loved her too.

In spite of that kaka does not shout out 'yeh kya apmaan kiya tumne.. is pavitra mangalsutra ka aisa anadar kiya' and blah blah blah... he said, 'I understand your sentiments' and got ready to leave.

Not exactly the same but can be kind of equated with Manav filling sindoor in another woman's maang against his will to satisfy his family. What say?

Edited by nikitagmc - 15 years ago

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Nikita Lakhe

@nikitagmc

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Posted: 15 years ago

#355

Let me point it out that I am not defending Manav for the sindoor act, nor am I blaming Archana... her situation was perfectly understandable and as I said earlier, any person will choose blood relations over a spouse of few days.

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koolsadhu1000

@koolsadhu1000

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Posted: 15 years ago

#356

nikita , really ? Are u seriously talking about a situation when Archu hadnt even lived with Manav as a bride for 15 days ?
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Well , if u say so . 😆 But my dear arent u missing the point here . Who the hell is interested in sweetu Manav going coming back In archus life anymore by weighing his mistakes and searching in vain for some in HER life to counter balance his ? People like me and Tanya r interested in him going ahead with his commitment to shravani . Let us take it for granted Archna was wrong , this Godman was totally right all along . But now deliver the commitment to Shravni like a man yaar , why these wishy washy somersaults with archu , filling sindoor in temple etc ? Even if it is Shravni , as a woman doesnt she desrve better ? Commitment ki hai to nibhao , dont stand with your feet on two stones Godman !.

Edited by koolsadhu1000 - 15 years ago

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Nikita Lakhe

@nikitagmc

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Posted: 15 years ago

#357

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000
nikita , really ? Are u seriously talking about a situation when Archu hadnt even lived with Manav as a bride for 15 days ?
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Well , if u say so . 😆 But my dear arent u missing the point here . Who the hell is interested in sweetu Manav going coming back In archus life anymore by weighing his mistakes and searching in vain for some in HER life to counter balance his ? People like me and Tanya r interested in him going ahead with his commitment to shravani . Let us take it for granted Archna was wrong , this Godman was totally right all along . But now deliver the commitment to Shravni like a man yaar , why these wishy washy somersaults with archu , filling sindoor in temple etc ? Even if it is Shravni , as a woman doesnt she desrve better ? Commitment ki hai to nibhao , dont stand with your feet on two stones Godman !.

Kools, i'm not looking at mistakes that Archu made so that I can counterbalance them with Manav's and say that the guy deserves another chance. Not at all... in fact today when I and Tanyaz were discussing Karanjkar family and Manav and the fact that the karanjkar family had also tried to get Archu engaged to Satish even when she wasn't divorced... at that time I said.. if Karanjkar family say they can't forgive Manav coz of injustice done to Archu, it is okay... but if they say they can't forgive him coz he got engaged to shravani before divorce, then I will call them hypocrites. At that time Tanyaz said Manav doesn't need to say sorry to karanjkar family coz they have also been wrong to him.. but I said no he should apologize whether or not they were wrong... coz Manav was wrong, and like a responsible person he should accept it.

The point is.. I do not believe pointing out other's mistakes is a way of raising yourself up(or in this case, pointing out other's mistakes is a way of raising Manav up). He has made mistakes and rather than point out others mistakes, I would prefer him to correct them, even apologize to Manjusha saying you were perfectly right in making the complaint against my family and I am extremely sorry that my Mom made Archana complain against you. Yes, I want him to say all this to Manjusha with folded hands... Manjusha whom I hate like hell.

Manav cannot be exonerated by pointing out mistakes of others, I know that well. The only way human beings can be forgiven for mistakes they make is if they accept and take responsibility of their mistakes. And that is what I want Manav to do.

Regarding the commitment thing toh I also don't understand, why he filled sindoor in Archana's maang that day.. my guess... he just couldn't control himself from giving one moment of happiness and satisfaction to Archana, or maybe he just got carried away in emotions like he was when he shouted at Savita for calling Archana a beggar, or when she fell from terrace or in today's episode. I don't know... can't understand what is going on in these creatives mind. Besides there is no need to call Manav godman and say Archu made the mistakes... we both know Manav is a good man, but he really doesn't deserve to be called god.

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Tanyaz

@Tanyaz

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Posted: 15 years ago

#358

I know it is not a popular opinion here but again after watching today's episode, I stand firm on my decision that I want manav out of Archana's life . In fact what Sal said today is something that I feel that maybe it is good . At least now Archana is free of him as he belongs to another woman.

Even in the pre cap again he is telling Archana to forget about him . Now he is really really trying to finish his relationship with her . Why is she not getting it . She has to stop crying and start seperating herself from him .

beleiev me this man is goingto marry Shravani sooner than we think ....

Archana is just torturing herslef for nothing ...

Anyway ....making butter chicken and rice tonight for the boys . I won't have it . For me one brown bread grilled chicken burger ...😭

I deserve this after the holiday I had .

But I had papdi chaat for lunch ...that was yummmyyyyyy😛

What is every one else having .

Is anyone goingto see My name is Khan ...let me know if it is any good . What about you Kool .????

Edited by Tanyaz - 15 years ago

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koolsadhu1000

@koolsadhu1000

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Posted: 15 years ago

#359

Tanya I am going to see My name is khan whenever possible

Tanya the only person who made sense yesterday and today is Sulochna who fired Vaishu and Varsha for sending her back there and commenting that thank goodness its getting over finally

Today too she was sensitive and correct [ she is most of the time except in her warmth at that stupid Manjus arrival and her fruit feeding]

I cant believe Archna gave a gift to Shravni ........a Bappa idol of silver .

I cant believe Manav accepted it [ I dont dwell on those scenes as they r the worst , pukey kind]

Archana is frankly getting herself insulted

But Tanya we r now having hope from chawl women , they shud just over ride Archna and give SAvita hell

Today is Mahashivratri day . Am fasting . Ate sabudana khichdi in morning . Same in evening coz fast cannot be broken today . For the kids will make vegetable pasta .

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Tanyaz

@Tanyaz

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Posted: 15 years ago

#360

How lovely , I love to see people following traditions .

I just can't wait to see Archana pulling herself away from this family . You are absolutely right . She is insulting herself . Kool , she is finding it very very hard to break away from this man . It is much much harder than what I thought it would be .

It is almost as her saans is ( breathing ) is going out of her body , drop by drop life is draining out and she is trying very very hard to catch the last bit of life that is left in her .She is struggling to live but life is just going out of her and she can do nothing about it .....

His love was definitely her oxygen ...he was her life . Even when she was away from him , she would spend most of her nights being awake thinking about him....

God help this woman, either help her to have strength to go on and forget him , or just take her ....end her misery .

Let this time get over with , hopefully wounds will heal but I think at this time Archu would prefer death then to move on without him....