Hi there everyone,
I also would disagree that Manav is disgusting. In fact, I think he is right in the way he is treating Archana. I don't have much sympathy for Archana simply because in each case, she has either been a wrong judge of character, or she is a coward who can't speak her mind. Of all the people, she trusted Ajit over Manav, the same Ajit who framed her and called her a prostitute. She knows what he is capable of. He made her go all the way to a brothel, gave her photo to a pimp and made it look extremely beleivable to satish's family that she was a prostitute. At that moment, her beloved mother had a fit and blamed Satish's family for beleiving a pimp. Yes, we could blame them for not trusting Archana. But if we look at it objectively, why should he? He didn't know Archana or her family. it was a fully arranged marriage where its a duty of each family to be weary of everything before they tie the knot. So Satish or his family really had no reason to trust her simply because they didn't know enough about the family. They were just tyring to be careful. Yet, we including myself sympathized with Archana because we knew her character.
Now, if we go on to Manav, this same Archana who had been framed by the same Ajit did not even raise an eyebrow when the same Ajit framed Manav in the exact same way. Hello! do you not see a pattern here???? even a 2nd grader would find the connections because is it really a coincidence that the same moron accused one person of prostutiton and her very husband of being a man whore? honestly!! and Archana had every reason to trust her husband. She was married to Manav!! She knew what kind of a person he was. When she was blamed for being a prostitute, Manav came as angel and rescued her. He was a complete stranger to her and he told her in that taxi, "I trust you and I know you are not like that." So, why does this dumb Archana need proof or explanations from her angel like husband whom she married and knew his character?? and why on earth would she believe Ajit???? it makes no sense!!
This is the first blow that Manav received from Archana (not to mention all the insult he tolerated from archu's mom at the wedding in public. If it was any another egotistic guy, he would blame his wife for what his wife's parents did. But on the other hand, he loved his wife dearly and blindly). The second blow came when Manav's family went to jail. Sure manav didn't have proof that Archana did it. But really, after Archana mistruted Manav despite all his goodness, and after going through the physical torture in jail and seeing your parents and sister get beat up in jail, why on earth would he sit down and try and think this out rationally? he is also a human being and he is allowed to be irrational and emotional when his goodness has given him nothing in return. The final blow comes when he loses his brother. this is death we are talking about. Again, Archana directly didnt have much to do with this. But if they didn't have the criminal record, his visa wouldnt' have been cancelled, and shravani's dad wouldn't have refused.
Manav has received nothing but hurt in this relationship, and even though Archana is also hurting, she is responsible for it because she broke the very foundation of their marriage, which is TRUST. she has no one else to blame but herself. and I am 100% with Manav. it is very true that when someoene is too kind, the whole world walks all over you like a doormat and that's what has happened to him.
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