Manav and disgusting???
first of all put yourself in the shoes of the person whose wife left him claiming he was characterless... he suffered insults quietly for 6 months, then his entire family was put into jail and then his brother died. He has gone through HELL!!!
As opposed to you I think he has even proof to know the complaint was done by Archana.. the biggest proof Archu's own mother and her own unresponsive behavior in the past 6 months.. he thinks she hated him enought to do the complaint, the fact that she loved and respected his family was washed off when Sulochana said Archu hated his family and had moved on in life unconcerned about them.
Archu had a place for him in her heart cos his behavior to her had always been good.. in fact it was excellent. Archu knew he loved her. The sketch that Ajit drew of Manav's character was drastically different and unacceptable. Even after their separation.. he showed his goodness by saving Varsha.. that is what made Archu think of his goodness. But with Manav the scenario is different....The guy has gone through troubled times... he has been facing his wife's unresponsive behavior since 6 months.. he has enough reasons to believe she hated him and wanted to walk out of the marriage.. now she has come 2-3 times to say, she didn't make the complaint.. is it possible for him to believe her? I on my part think it is highly unrealistic. He needs to see Archana's love and concern and feel it, only then he will believe her.. time and love are the best healers and that is what Manav needs right now. He loves Archana, there is no doubt about it.. he cannot see her uncomfortable or in a pitiable state falling at his feet... but his mind is right now clouded with rage and responsibilities.. he has accepted it that his marriage is over and only a realisation of Archana's feelings is going to melt his heart now. It will happen, no doubt.
Varsha only said Archana didn't make the complaint, Manjusha did. Big deal!! That was something he had seen in jail himself. She didn't say Archana didn't even know about it. Manav thinks she may not have made the complaint but she was party to this plan.
About Sanskars... well... anyone else in Manav's place wud have thrown the Karanjkars right out of his house.. he didn't do that.. wud have said something rude and nasty when he saw Archana with Satish outside the police station, but he didn't.. anyone in his position wud maybe have slapped his wife... he didn't do that...wudn't have even let Varsha or Satish enter his garage cos he thinks they made the complaint... he is angry but not disrespectful... He may be rude but certainly not disgusting.. he clearly tells them that he does not want to insult them and is not interested in talking with them instead of abusing and badmouthing them as his Aai does (now THAT is disgusting!!)
What does he do instead?? when he sees his wife uncomfortable in the male crowd in the train, he gets up and offers her his seat.. when she falls on his feet he feels bad and picks her up instead of walking off... when she pleads him to let her come to his brother's asthi visarjan, he allows her to come thinking she wants to seek penance. These are signs of the gentleman within him.. and of the Manav that still loves his Archana.
His anger is completely understandable, I wud still have understood if you wud have been angry with him for being angry with Archu... but DISGUSTING???? No way.. not at all!!
Still reeling under the shock.... Manav and disgusting??
Edited by nikitagmc - 14 years ago
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