Should love be expressed over and over again?

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Hey everyone! 🤗

It is said that eyes speak most honestly and explain things more sincerely than do the words. So shouldn't then lovers eyes be enough to express their love?

Is it necessary that love should be confessed over and over again? Should we say "I love you" every day/ week/ moment?

I remember this beautiful line from a song: "Aankhein bhi hoti hain dil ki zubaan!" ..... Hard to translate in English.... but sort of like "Eyes convey the message of the heart."

So in your relationship would you want your partner to say "I love you" every now and then? Or would you just want to read it in his/her eyes?

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Ambrosia thumbnail
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Posted: 15 years ago
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No, you shouldn't have to keep saying "i love you" all the time. Sometimes words can turn hallow. You've done it over and over so many times that you just start saying it out of habit even if you don't mean it.If you love someone...really love someone...they know it and they don't have to have you say it 24/7.
But this is when you get to see his eyes, what if you don't get to see his eyes at all? (I'm talking about online relationships)How do you convey that you really care and you are always there when he needs you and vice versa?
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Posted: 15 years ago
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no you need not keep saying that you love your partner ...once in a while just surprise her suddenly and say that you love her to wacth the smile on her face when she is tired or upset or worried just say it suddenly so that she knw ...yes he love me ....other wise aakehn bhi hoti hai dil ki zubaan is very right concept ...and it works wonders ...

the second case that is online relationships where in this Akkhon ka concept doesn't work...Dil se dil ka connection concept works , incase of online relation ship the way two people carry out conversation matters ....like its not necessary to keep on sending message that i love you...chatting regularly ,listening to your partner trying to help her out with her matters....make your partener feel that yes he cares for me and then you need not specifcally say those three words to convey ....that you love her....the way you behave and converse online conveys it all.




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Posted: 15 years ago
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I believe... without any single word also we can love a person...love is discovery of ourself in others ,no need any language...

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Posted: 15 years ago
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i think it isn't necessary to keep saying you love someone but you should always try to remind someone that they mean a lot to you
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Posted: 15 years ago
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It is said that eyes speak most honestly and explain things more sincerely than do the words. So shouldn't then lovers eyes be enough to express their love?

hahahhhh!.....No you ought to use your tongue too.....because many arent intelligent enough to understand....eye language..😆and moreover many use spects too...so can be bit difficult for them..😆And also I dont think any method is enough to express love....it varies from person to person...for some gestures are enough...and for some..even someones presence....does everything!

Is it necessary that love should be confessed over and over again? Should we say "I love you" every day/ week/ moment?
No I dont think....If you love a person you have to repeat it again and again...but its also important that you should be expressive enough to say the magical words at right time and place.....Small insignificant gestures sometime does the work...which even words dont do...

I remember this beautiful line from a song: "Aankhein bhi hoti hain dil ki zubaan!" ..... Hard to translate in English.... but sort of like "Eyes convey the message of the heart."

I too remember a proverb-
the eyes are the window of the soul...

So in your relationship would you want your partner to say "I love you" every now and then? Or would you just want to read it in his/her eyes?
I would not want him to say it over n over again...but would expect him to say it often.....

Ha!!....eyes....ofcourse you read them...unknowingly!...and if you love a person it will always show in his eyes...you dont have to try for it..😉


Edited by tetuty66 - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Yh I think it's true wen there's love u can feel it... but I think sometimes aise hi keh dene se acha lagta... ok may not all the time... magar coming out with it sometimes randomly rather then saying it all the time makes it feel special... magar yeh bhi sach hai ke without saying those 3 words u can still be in love
But sometimes it cud be important to actually say it rather then letting the eyes express ur feeling... for instance maybe right at the beginning of the relationship... when the 2 haven't actually begun their realtionship... it does happen where maybe one feels shy/holds back or has some uncertainty if the other feels the same way... so I guess by the other actually saying 'I love u' could break those barriers =p
"So in your relationship would you want your partner to say "I love you" every now and then? Or would you just want to read it in his/her eyes?"
To be honest I don't mind either way... if he says it or not... if we love each other I'll knw and so wud he =)
& yh tht's a nice song:
[YOUTUBE]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sBJ346i0X0M[/YOUTUBE]
Edited by rukhaya - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I feel that if we often say " I love you" to our loved ones, then the words become "over-rated" SInce they say " actions speak more than words", its nice to express in actions because anyone can express their love with their lips but to prove it with actions is sometimes tough( if you truly dont love or egos come in between). And for those people who dont understand with actions, I think it should be fine if we express it with words sometimes but not often though🤔
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Well its not necessary to keep saying it every now and then..but once in a while if u say it..it makes the person feel good..of course they can read it in ur eyes..but saying it makes them more happy?..thats what i think..n esp if u say it when that person is low..
Lovers Ka Love thumbnail
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Life is very strick, it sumtime does'nt giv u any secOnd chance. sO, if yOu have got a chance tO find a true partner in sum1, never ignOre this, try harder, and yes, i dO also agree wid the term tht 'Action speaks louder then wOrds'

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