Ashta-Bharyas of Shri Krishna...

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Ashta-Bharyas of Shri Krishna...
As mentioned in our ancient scriptures, they are the Ashta-Bharyas : the 8 principal wives of Lord Krishna. He loved Rukmini the most and she was His 1st wife, His main consort - the Patrani. As the incarnation of the enlightened Lakshmi, Rukmini bore all the qualities of a divine consort in human form. Rukmini was the daughter of Bhishmaka, king of Vidarbha, who had decided to marry her off to a prince named Shishupala from the kingdom of Chedi and was against her marrying Krishna. Rukmini having fallen deeply in love with Krishna sent a message to Him to come and rescue her. Krishna abducted Rukmini from the wedding ceremony and married her in Dwaraka.
Amongst all Krishna's wives, Srimati Rukmini Devi was His most Beloved one. The Skanda-Purana declares : "Rukmini is in Dwaraka what Radha is in the forest of Vrindavana".
Lord Krishna's 2nd wife, Satyabhama having undergone a lot of suffering in her previous mortal life on earth, sought refuge in Vaikuntha (Vishnu's Abode) after her death. Due to her relentless service to Vishnu as his care-taker, Vishnu promised to take her as his wife in her next re-birth. So in the Krishnavtara, when Satyabhama is re-born as the daughter of Satrajit, she is given in marriage to Krishna (Vishnu's reincarnation), who makes sure that she leads a happy life and all her wishes are fulfilled.
Though Satyabhama was a very courageous and strong-willed woman very adept in the warfare of Archery, but she was also known for her temper tantrums. It is said that Narada during one of his earthly visits, sang praise of Rukmini and gifted the heavenly parijata flower to her. This upset Satyabhama and she also insisted to have a Parijata flower, which grows exquisitely in the spiritual world and heavenly planets. So to fulfill her wishes, Krishna much against the wishes of Lord Indra, brought a Parijata tree from Swargalok and planted it in Satyabhama's palace garden in Dwaraka. Krishna stuck to his promise of keeping Satyabhama happy all the time, whatever it took him to fulfill her wishes.
Krishna's wives were all individual personalities. Amongst them, Satyabhama was the most feisty. She always used to offer an argument, which Krishna would enjoy.
Krishna's 3rd wife, Jambavati was the daughter of the bear-king Jambavan, given in marriage to Krishna. Jambavan was a very devoted disciple of Lord Rama and had helped him to defeat Ravana.
Once when Arjuna and Krishna were strolling on the banks of the river Yamuna. They saw a beautiful woman in deep penance. Krishna asked Arjuna who she was. Arjuna told him that she was Kalindi, the daughter of Surya (Sun-God), and also the river Yamuna personified. She was penancing because she only wanted to marry Lord Vishnu. Krishna, very touched, by her deep devotion, offered himself in marriage and thus Kalindi became Krishna's 4th wife.
Mitravrinda and Nagnajiti (also known as Satya or Nila) were the 5th and 6th wives of Krishna. Mitravrinda was the sister of the Kings of Avantipura (Vinda and Anuvinda) and Nagnajiti was the daughter of the King of Kosala. Bhadra, who was the daughter of Krishna's aunt, was his 7th wife, and married him in a Swayamvara Ceremony, choosing him as her husband.
The condition for seeking Lakshana's hand in marriage was more complex than Arjuna's endeavour to marry Draupadi. Jarasandha and Duryodhana failed to aim their arrows at the desired target. Arjuna tried but deliberately did not hit it right because he knew Lakshana was destined to be wed by Shri Krishna. Bhima did not even try aiming the arrow out of high regard for Krishna. So it was Shri Krishna who aimed right and after his win in the archery competition, married Lakshana in the Swayamvara ceremony, accepting her as his 8th wife.
From the Bhagavad Gita, there is evidence of the Ashta Bharyas, leading a happy married life with Krishna in the Yadava Dynasty. Krishna's relationship with His wives has been glorified as something unique as for His giving pleasure. The Ashta Bharyas, simply by being attached to Krishna in conjugal love, in a life of luxury and opulence attained the highest salvation. The married life of Krishna has been an enigma to many of his devotees and followers.
Besides his 8 wives, Krishna also married 16,100 women who were abducted and imprisoned by a Demonic King in the Dwapara Yuga. The Narakasura episode relates the story of the slaying of Naraka, the demon who was tormenting the maidens of the Gods, saints and kings by shutting them up in his palace. Narakasura had gained a boon from Lord Brahma that he would die only in the hands of a woman. Hence, he had abducted and imprisoned all the women to safeguard his life. Krishna freed them all after killing the Demon in a fierce battle with the help of his brave wife Satyabhama, who aimed the fatal arrow at the demon.
In Vedic society, a girl who stays in the house of another man is considered defiled and unsuitable for marriage. No prospective groom accepts abducted women, suspecting their chastity because of possible rape / molestation by the Demonic perpetrators. Thus, the maidens had nobody to turn to after Krishna liberated them from the clutches of the Demonic King. So he married them all, giving them refuge and shelter and they were happy to have Krishna as their one and only husband.
Thus, Krishna had 16,108 wives and he begot 10 sons and 1 daughter with each of his wives. This is the way he perpetuated the Yadava Clan / Dynasty.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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thanks a lottt..raj for this info abt LORD KRISHNA & his 8 wives
yes ,RUKMINIJI was GODESS LAKSHMI 😛😃
the rest of 7 wives of LORD KRISHNA did tapsya in their previous lives to get LORD VISHNU as their husband ,all were great devotees of LORD VISHNU
i was only knowing abt Rukminiji,satyabhama,Jamvati not abt the others
thanks for this info abt each of them !!!
can u plz tell where RUKMINIJI first saw LORD KRISHNA & FELL in love with him !!!
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Sita, Rukmini had heard about Shri Krishna from childhood and she had set her mind that she will marry only with Krishna... 😊
In those days the maids of India married the very man whom they loved. Rukmini, the young daughter of King Bhishmak of Vidarbha. was very much perturbed for she was to be married to Prince Shishupal, son of the king of Chedis, whom she did not love at all, for she had fallen in love with Krishna, Prince of Dwarka.

Frequently she had heard many a glorious deed of bravery and gallantry from persons who visited her father's court. Never did she see him but she liked to listen to the stories current in the town about him. She, therefore, made up her mind to marry him. She thought he was the only prince in the land worthy of her hand.

She had five brothers. She sought their help to win Krishna as her husband. Rukmi, the eldest brother, did not like her choice though the rest of the four brothers agreed. He advised the king, their father, to marry his sister to another young wooer, namely Prince Shishupal, son of the king of Chedis. The king agreed.

In vain did Rukmini try her best to persuade her eldest brother, the Crown Prince of Vidarbha. "No brother", cried she, "I love Lord Krishna, Prince of Dwarka. I have given him my love and it can never be given to another."

Rukmi was hot-headed and adamant like a rock. He firmly and in high words told her, "I strongly object to your proposal. I do not like that notorious Prince of Dwarka. Prince Shishupal is a better suiter than Krishna.

Rukmini knew that all the odds were against her and that she must find her own way to win the man she loved. She remembered an aged Brahmin who was in her father's court. He might be able to help her, she thought and so she sent for him.

"Most lovely Princess," the Brahmin said, " I am ready to help you. Please command."
" I want you to take a letter from me to Prince Krishna of Dwarka."

The princess thereupon handed the letter to the Brahmin who promised : "I will be in Dwarka within no time."

The faithful Brahmin rode as fast as he could. The way was long and not free from danger. When he reached there he requested for an audience with Lord Krishna. After having shown due hospitality and courtesy to the Brahmin, Krishna asked him, "Reverend sire, may I request you to let me know the mission of your visit ?"

The Brahmin replied : "I have brought a letter for you from Princess Rukmini, the only daughter of King Bhishmak of Vidarbha (modern Berar) but he has betrothed his daughter to Prince Shishupal, son of the King of Chedis, whom she dislikes very much."

He took out the letter from one of the folds of his garment and handed it to Krishna. It read as follows :
"My Lord, I have listened to the tales of your splendour and prowess. My conduct might seem to you unmaidenly in approaching you in this manner but most worthy Prince, you are the cause of it. I am sure you would accept a girl, who brings her heart to you. It is a right of a girl to choose her own husband as a husband chooses his own girl to wed with.

Pray, you not to deny this right to a girl who loves you ardently, for I can think of nothing but you. I pray to accept me else I shall become the wife of Shishupal whom I do not wish to marry, it is settled. Do not ask my father for my hand. Come here, 0 unattainable Lord, before the appointed day for my wedding and carry me away in your arms. A day prior to my wedding I shall go to worship at the shrine of Goddess Ambika. At that time, come and seize me. If you will not come, I shall die of sorrow."

Krishna read the letter over and over again. Here was a strange request to save a maiden from an unwanted match. But he had already fallen in love with her without seeing her, for the fame of this beautiful girl had reached his ears from the citizens of Dwarka. At last he said to the Brahmin : "I shall go to Vidarbha and carry her away like a leaf wafted by the wind."
"The day of her wedding is close at hand," the Brahmin remarked.

"We must start immediately," Krishna said and he bade his charioteer to be ready with the swiftest of steeds. He also took with him a strong body of Yadava knights. Along with the Brahmin, this company galloped day and night and reached Kundinpur just in time.

From the opposite direction Prince Shishupal accompanied by his royal father arrived near the walls of the city. King Bhishmak went out in a grand procession to receive and do honour to his would-be son-in-law.
Rukmini sat in her palace in despair. It was the eve of her wedding day. All kinds of thoughts crowded in her mind. She thought about the old Brahmin, for the old man had not come back. She felt doubtful whether Prince Krishna had got the letter or not. If he had received it, what would he think about her request ? Perhaps, he might reject her hand, at this thought what a flood of tears she let loose?
All at once her left eye began to throb. It was a happy omen. Just then a maid servant announced that a Brahmin had come and was seeking her audience. At once he was shown into the room.
"Did you meet Prince Krishna ?" she enquired eagerly.

"Lovely Princess ", replied the Brahmin, "Krishna is already here. He is now in the city." He thereafter narrated all that had taken place at Dwarka.

Krishna too announced his arrival to king Bhishmak who gave him a right royal reception. He along with his Yadav knights entered the city which was gaily decorated with arches, flags and banners for the wedding ceremony. Earlier Prince Krishna stressed his own point indirectly in a short dialogue, the views he held about the rights of women to choose their own husband. They too ought to have equal rights and opportunities along with men. As she had told Krishna in her letter, Rukmini went out that day at sundown to worship at the shrine of Goddess Ambika. She was accompanied by well-armed men and her palanquin was well guarded and many of her young friends went with her.

"O Devi Ambika," she prayed "Thou knowest how I have loved Thee and if I have done anything to win Thy favour, please grant me the boon that Prince Krishna whom I love intensely be my husband."
She came out of the inner temple and went outside with her two friends. Coming down the steps she suddenly espied a golden chariot carrying high a flag with an eagle on it.

The chariot came close to her just near the temple steps.

Krishna looked at her for a moment. He was bewitched by her beauty. Their eyes met for a while. She blushed deeply throwing sidelong glances at him. He looked and looked at the sunniest and warmest smile which played upon her face. Immediately he lifted the most beautiful maiden of Vidarbha into his chariot and earned her away.

Again and again he looked at her, when they sat together in the chariot. He thought her beauty most enchanting, it was he thought, the loviliest female figure and form that he had ever seen. Both of them silently gazed and gazed at each other. At last Krishna broke the silence and said, "I loved you before I could see you. "

"Dearest love "- she said, "We are not strangers, perhaps we have met somewhere though I do not remember the place might be in the births gone by."

Shishupal was furious when he came to know about the development. He saw from a distance that his would-be bride was being carried away before his own eyes. He pursued the couple at full speed with his picked armed men and overtook them. Instantly the Yadav knights of Krishna charged them. They were slaughtered and defeated before they could reach Krishna's chariot.

Rukmini's brother Rukmi grew in rage and raced furiously after the fugitives - his sister and her captor. Krishna challenged him to a single combat. Rukmi accepted it. He jumped from his chariot and drew his sword. It was a dazzling duel, swords clashed with thundering noise. Rukmini prayed Krishna not to kill her brother. At length Krishna struck him softly on the head with his sword. Then and there he fell down on the ground unconscious. Krishna tied him with a rope and let him go. It is said Rukmi felt so crest-fallen that he did not go back to his father's kingdom but went away somewhere else to an unknown destination. He was never seen again, perhaps he died of shock and shame.

Krishna entered Dwarka triumphantly. He was greeted by the citizens with shouts of joy. His wedding with Rukmini was celebrated on an auspicious day. Three thousand years have passed since then, yet the story of Krishna and Rukmini is still listened with joy by young and old'sons and daughters of India.
Edited by set_raj - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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THANKS raj for this info abt KRISHNA & RUKMINI love story !!!
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Wow, thanks for these two stories Raj! I did not know the names of the other wives of Shri Krishna, so thanks a looot for these stories, I also enjoyed reading the Krishna Rukmini vivah story, it is sooooo sweet!😍
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Originally posted by: sita11

THANKS raj for this info abt KRISHNA & RUKMINI love story !!!

ur welcome sita...will post more on Krishna soon..

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