Arman's love vs Abhimanyu's love

Hello all,

I agree completely that Armaan is the Best Lover Boy....... No one can be like him at all in love.......

Having said that I know that it does look like Abhimanyu's love is selfish..... However, how can he even call Nikki his love when he is not sure what she feels about him...... Everytime she moved towards him or encouraged his touch, he felt that she loved and cared for him.........Yet when that testing time for love came she left him completely stranded and humiliated......... She didn't even save his dignity when he was accused of forcing himself on her......... After going through such low humiliation, he is obviously going to think she doesn't care for him at all and that she was falsely leading him on......... Its good enough reason for him to feel she used him and led him all along and when she was with her friends she just dumped him....... So obviously he is not going to encourage anything to do with love for her...... Also he is going to fight his own feelings and not succumb to that at all..... Most people feel the best way is to do it is to attack the other person's dignity and show them how it feels when a person who is stripped of dignity feels......... Heartbreak in love can still be survived...... Hvr losing one's dignity in front of so many people scars the person up completely........ So right now he is not a person in love he is a person who is completely charred up from inside............ You really can't expect that he would be thinking about love at this point of time....... That love has to be once again be touched from the core and nutured back. It was Nikki who brought him down from the stern serious Abhimanyu Modi to a lover Abhi and it was Nikki who sent him right back to where he was at the beginning........Now that he has learnt his lesson he is definitely not going to lower his guard........

Michelle

Originally posted by: maggie131984

Hello all,

Seeing the way Abhimanyu is reating to the insult he faced by the intern gang, a question arose : Does he really love Nikita? Because if you love someone , you would never hurt that person. Even if u hurt that person, later on you feel remorseful and hate yourself for causing grief to the person you love. Like Arman, he has faced so many insults, rejects from Ridhima, but never has he tried to insult her or give grief like Abhimanyu is giving to Nikita whom he loved. Arman took the insults and rejects and gave him self pain. Whenevr he did somehting, it was to make Ridhima realize that she loves him.He always respected what Ridhima wanted and never forced her to do what he liked (like kiss). He went away twice to keep Ridhima happy, On the other side, Abhimayu just cares for himself. If he is in pain, so is Nikita. If he loved her he should have seen the hurt Nikita is going through. Today. insulting in front of others, by throwing away the file at her was worst. Abhimanyu said he will not love her, one cant remove the love from heart. I love Arman's charatcer compared to Abhimanyu in terms of love. Abhimayu's love is selfish while Arman's love is pure.Abhimanyu on the other side kissed Nikita and insulted her. If he didnt want her to be a part of his life, then why did he kiss her? Abhimanyu doesnot have the coruage to fight with others for his love, like Arman did.Arman faced insutls from his own freinds and then from Dr. Shashank.

Love Arman's love for Ridhima.

What do you guys think?

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Originally posted by: maggie131984

Hello all,

Seeing the way Abhimanyu is reating to the insult he faced by the intern gang, a question arose : Does he really love Nikita? Because if you love someone , you would never hurt that person. Even if u hurt that person, later on you feel remorseful and hate yourself for causing grief to the person you love. Like Arman, he has faced so many insults, rejects from Ridhima, but never has he tried to insult her or give grief like Abhimanyu is giving to Nikita whom he loved. Arman took the insults and rejects and gave him self pain. Whenevr he did somehting, it was to make Ridhima realize that she loves him.He always respected what Ridhima wanted and never forced her to do what he liked (like kiss). He went away twice to keep Ridhima happy, On the other side, Abhimayu just cares for himself. If he is in pain, so is Nikita. If he loved her he should have seen the hurt Nikita is going through. Today. insulting in front of others, by throwing away the file at her was worst. Abhimanyu said he will not love her, one cant remove the love from heart. I love Arman's charatcer compared to Abhimanyu in terms of love. Abhimayu's love is selfish while Arman's love is pure.Abhimanyu on the other side kissed Nikita and insulted her. If he didnt want her to be a part of his life, then why did he kiss her? Abhimanyu doesnot have the coruage to fight with others for his love, like Arman did.Arman faced insutls from his own freinds and then from Dr. Shashank.

Love Arman's love for Ridhima.

What do you guys think?

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Well said ... I totally agree with you

If I could choose, it would be Armaan for me! Cause in the past no matter how much Riddhima humiliated him or acted b*tchy in some way he still didn't give up or act the way Abhi is right now..

@ trinzie:agree with u totally..

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Originally posted by: kash4life

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agreed with you 100%

im not saying for once that Abhi doesnt love nikki but he sure has damn strange way of showing it!! and being angry at someone not give any man in in this entire world the right to kiss a girl, shove her away and then say this is your aukad

if you remember, riddima in 2007 august sent armaan to jail falsely accusing him of killing a girl, armaan was furious at her but nt once did he get revenge in the way that abhi is doing

when riddhima made a mockery of armaans love showing everyone the presents that armaan gave her and making him look like an idiot, armaan never did anything close to what abhi is doing

niki has stayed quite which has hurt abhi alot i agree but what has happened to abhi is not nearly as bad as somehting armaan has had to suffer from, from everyone but the difference is armaan has never gone so extreme about revenge like abhi and that is what is putting me of abhimany modi right now

@ trina: totally agreed

Armaan & Abhi are two completely opposite people, so therefore obviously their love would also be completely opposite :) Armaan is definitely the best lover-boy as michelle said but that does not mean Abhi's love is selfish, before we start saying Abhi's hurting nikki and all that, we've got to keep in mind, this has happened to him before, he has been broken in love before it's very obvious, when he was thinking the night he kissed her, he said why does this always happen to me ? so the fact that he let himself fall in love with Nikki was gnawing at him because i think he thought that maybe this time it would be different, maybe she would accept him, and when he poured his heart out to her by the pool, he got humiliated and he took her silence as a serious low blow, he took that as an understanding that she didn't care enough for him. And ofcourse he won't show it, but this whole situation with nikki is killing him inside, if you notice his character's face and stuff lately, it looks like he's been spending some sleepless nights.. not to mention that amazing stubble :)
So his love is not selfish, it just needs to be nurtured a bit.And as for fighting for his love, how can he fight for the very thing that's causing him so much grief ? right now he's trying to get himself out of love because it hurts so much so there's no way he's going to try to fight for it :)