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Posted: 18 years ago
Sorry guys for not replying for such a long time. I have been really busy.

1. I ran into my ex-crush( this is guy I met at graduation and emailed a few times before abruptly stoped emailing him) while shopping with my dad and that was akward becasue he actually talked to me, not much becasue I just said hi and turned around.

2. My dad had to fly to India on short notice becasue my granny is very sick.

3. I run it to this cute guy from one of my classes twice and it was really wierd. The first time he accused me of not being in class and I was in class, he saw me later in the day. Today, I ran into him in the hall, he was talking to his friends (all guys) and he stops to talk to me.

4.I am to busy planning to protest the gurudwara commitee at my gurudwara and that has left little time for me to chat with you guys.

5. I am trying to be nicer to guys and not always bit their heads off or make fun of them and that is not easy!!

See I have been busy, not just to lazy to talk to you guys.

-Rimpy

-Rimpy
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Posted: 18 years ago

Originally posted by: punjabi#1

I hate to say this but to me Islam is the most strict religion. But I also thing that the strictness of a religion depends on where its being followed and what kind of culture it is. Like Islam is stricter in like Afganstian, than say the USA. For me personally Islam is the strictest religion, it could be that I don't know much about the religion.

Let me know if you guys agree!

-Rimpy

Hey rimpy!! how are you girl!! well i agree with you to some extent! you know as part of being a muslim girl, i thought my religion was strict, but to tell you the truth, weren't all religion strict at some time! They all asked for the same thing and they all try to dominate men more than women! you know i even foudn out that, woman holds a very high place in islam and they have the right to decide for their future as well!

But every single religion that started out was strict! In no religion, you are suppose to wear tight clothes, or short skirts, and all the traditional talks!! you see what im saying! But you know as time passed by, people are becoming rather moderate religion wise and started to follow the new trends; it's definitely the 21st century, where religion is given less attention!

But, precisely from my point of view, i try to follow my religion, and stay within my limits but then again, I"m also living by the trends of today! Whether it's islam, buddhism, christianity, or any other religion, they all ask for the same stuff but may be in different manner. We see Islam as strict because, it's been enforced a lot on women specifically and it also depends on the men on how they treat you!

All religion started out the same, but because through time, some people moved on with the world of today, and became moderate religion wise; but you know i have to say, i seriously don't like some girls wearing such cocky clothes such as mini skirts or tube tops or even see through shirts!! hmm to me, there is a limit that a girl should stay within when it comes to her physicality, and then some girls wonder why guys are hitting on them, well because they are trying to show off their skin! i don't see anything wrong with wearing tight jeans or tight pants, as long as you are a bit covered and trust me, you'll still get guys to hit on you when you are covered!! Ahh they are men, they will never stop looking whether someone is naked or fully covered!😆 jokes apart!! but yaa, im definitely not against someone wearing mini skirts or what not, because i guess it's their life, and everyone has the right to live their life with their perspectives!! It's just a general awarness i'm trying to make and not much more! sorry if someone got offended!

Sobia you are right; family definitely comes first and as far as the guy is concerned, inshallah if you and him are meant to be together, than it'll surely happen!

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Posted: 18 years ago

Originally posted by: punjabi#1

Sorry guys for not replying for such a long time. I have been really busy.

1. I ran into my ex-crush( this is guy I met at graduation and emailed a few times before abruptly stoped emailing him) while shopping with my dad and that was akward becasue he actually talked to me, not much becasue I just said hi and turned around.

2. My dad had to fly to India on short notice becasue my granny is very sick.

3. I run it to this cute guy from one of my classes twice and it was really wierd. The first time he accused me of not being in class and I was in class, he saw me later in the day. Today, I ran into him in the hall, he was talking to his friends (all guys) and he stops to talk to me.

4.I am to busy planning to protest the gurudwara commitee at my gurudwara and that has left little time for me to chat with you guys.

5. I am trying to be nicer to guys and not always bit their heads off or make fun of them and that is not easy!!

See I have been busy, not just to lazy to talk to you guys.

-Rimpy

-Rimpy

Hey first of all rimpy, i hope your granny gets well soon!

hmm rimpy you are a bit like my sister. She is most of the time mean to guys, but i think it's in her nature! She doesn't potray guys in a very good sense!!

Even sometimes im the same, because your exprineces teach you a lot! Guys are guys, and this fact can never change! I was watchign 20/20, and they always talk about some important issue!

They mentioned that guys have a much higher percentage of hormones than girls, so you should know what that means... 😆

And girls comparingly have much higher level of maturity, which obviously is a given fact!

Rimpy i really wish that you can find a guy that is perfectly fit for you and i'm sure god has something decided for you as well girl!!

okay i'm off in doing my chem h/w!! takecares will reply laters!

love

khoo

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Posted: 18 years ago

Originally posted by: punjabi#1


Its tomorrow today!! so what happended?? don't try to hard to bump in to him, only say hi if you walk by close to him. I think you should try to say hi to him when you guys are walking in the same direction because that way you might even get a few sentences out of him.

-Rimpy

p.s.-good luck!

hey rimpy welcum bak

1st of all i hope ur grandma feelz betta

now nothin happened 2dai either i didnt c him...and no i m not gonna purposely tri 2 bump into him....

but guess wat....c im part of this thing called the muslim students association msa 4 short at my school and we had an iftar parti 2dai so near the end of the dai we had an announcement 2 remind ppl bout it and my friend has physics wit him and she said tht when the annoucement cam on his friend gav him a look and smiled at him and he smiled bak...my friend sayz tht this might mean tht he likez u...i hav no idea wat it meanz....

S..N...Å ....

I?o-PK PriDe

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Posted: 18 years ago

Originally posted by: khoo

Hey rimpy!! how are you girl!! well i agree with you to some extent! you know as part of being a muslim girl, i thought my religion was strict, but to tell you the truth, weren't all religion strict at some time! They all asked for the same thing and they all try to dominate men more than women! you know i even foudn out that, woman holds a very high place in islam and they have the right to decide for their future as well!

But every single religion that started out was strict! In no religion, you are suppose to wear tight clothes, or short skirts, and all the traditional talks!! you see what im saying! But you know as time passed by, people are becoming rather moderate religion wise and started to follow the new trends; it's definitely the 21st century, where religion is given less attention!

But, precisely from my point of view, i try to follow my religion, and stay within my limits but then again, I"m also living by the trends of today! Whether it's islam, buddhism, christianity, or any other religion, they all ask for the same stuff but may be in different manner. We see Islam as strict because, it's been enforced a lot on women specifically and it also depends on the men on how they treat you!

All religion started out the same, but because through time, some people moved on with the world of today, and became moderate religion wise; but you know i have to say, i seriously don't like some girls wearing such cocky clothes such as mini skirts or tube tops or even see through shirts!! hmm to me, there is a limit that a girl should stay within when it comes to her physicality, and then some girls wonder why guys are hitting on them, well because they are trying to show off their skin! i don't see anything wrong with wearing tight jeans or tight pants, as long as you are a bit covered and trust me, you'll still get guys to hit on you when you are covered!! Ahh they are men, they will never stop looking whether someone is naked or fully covered!😆 jokes apart!! but yaa, im definitely not against someone wearing mini skirts or what not, because i guess it's their life, and everyone has the right to live their life with their perspectives!! It's just a general awarness i'm trying to make and not much more! sorry if someone got offended!

Sobia you are right; family definitely comes first and as far as the guy is concerned, inshallah if you and him are meant to be together, than it'll surely happen!

agree wit wat ur sayin khoo...btw i neva knew u were a muslim thtz kool...so u prayin all nite 2dai?

now bak 2 the point...everything has its limits and yes we r modernized these dai...we dnt follow exactly wat our religons say 2 do so yea....i mean i dnt wear a scraf...but i c girlz round the school hu wear 1 and smoke do stupid stuff wit guiz...and a lot of other bad thingz....but they think since they r wearin a scraf thtz fine...well its not and when ppl ask me y i dnt wear one i tell them tht i havent grown up wit the idea of one and at least i dnt wear 1 but i act properly whereas mani ppl hu wear one rent wat u call proper islamic girlz just cuz they wear 1......do u guiz get wat im tryin 2 say?

S..N...Å ....

I?o-PK PriDe

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Posted: 18 years ago
Sobia, keep trying maybe you'll run into him soon. Did you run into him at the party? Or has the party not happened yet?

Sobia, what would you do if a cute guy invited you to lunch but your friend (a girl) had already beat him to it? Do you ditch your friend and join the guy or do you reject the guy knowing he might never ask you again? What do you do after you explained to him that your lunching with your friend and he invites both of you?

-Rimpy

p.s.- I picked the friend and I think the guy is mad.
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Posted: 18 years ago
id go wit my friend but itd tell the guy tht my friend asked me 1st and tht im sry and mayb sum other time....and if he asks both of us than y not!

btw wat happened hu did u reject 4 lunch i need detailz

S..N...Å ....
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Posted: 18 years ago
rimpy im goin 2 bed rite now but when i check later i want a detailed report on wat happened

S..N...Å ....
I?o-PK PriDe
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Posted: 18 years ago
Part 1

okay, I sit next to this guy in one of my classes last class but today somebody sat between us. He talked to the other person but kept looking at me, we didn't talk at all during class. I left without saying bye to him but ran it to him when I was getting lunch with my friend. She was getting lunch from a different cart then me and he came up behind me and asked if I was getting lunch, I said yeah, I am hungery. He said cool, and that he'd see me in the eating area and I said 'ookayy'!

-Rimpy
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Posted: 18 years ago
part 2-
My friend and I get to the sitting area and find that he had saved me a seat and was waiting for me. He immediately wlaks over to to me and notices my friend and invites both of us to join him. I refuse because me and my friend were going to talk in punjabi and I told him he wouldn't be able to follow the conversation. Plus, I didn't my friend to feel akward. So we walk away to grab spoons before we sit down and while we are doing that he picks up his stuff and leaves. I felt so bad.

-Rimpy

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