Originally posted by: khoo
Hey rimpy!! how are you girl!! well i agree with you to some extent! you know as part of being a muslim girl, i thought my religion was strict, but to tell you the truth, weren't all religion strict at some time! They all asked for the same thing and they all try to dominate men more than women! you know i even foudn out that, woman holds a very high place in islam and they have the right to decide for their future as well!
But every single religion that started out was strict! In no religion, you are suppose to wear tight clothes, or short skirts, and all the traditional talks!! you see what im saying! But you know as time passed by, people are becoming rather moderate religion wise and started to follow the new trends; it's definitely the 21st century, where religion is given less attention!
But, precisely from my point of view, i try to follow my religion, and stay within my limits but then again, I"m also living by the trends of today! Whether it's islam, buddhism, christianity, or any other religion, they all ask for the same stuff but may be in different manner. We see Islam as strict because, it's been enforced a lot on women specifically and it also depends on the men on how they treat you!
All religion started out the same, but because through time, some people moved on with the world of today, and became moderate religion wise; but you know i have to say, i seriously don't like some girls wearing such cocky clothes such as mini skirts or tube tops or even see through shirts!! hmm to me, there is a limit that a girl should stay within when it comes to her physicality, and then some girls wonder why guys are hitting on them, well because they are trying to show off their skin! i don't see anything wrong with wearing tight jeans or tight pants, as long as you are a bit covered and trust me, you'll still get guys to hit on you when you are covered!! Ahh they are men, they will never stop looking whether someone is naked or fully covered!😆 jokes apart!! but yaa, im definitely not against someone wearing mini skirts or what not, because i guess it's their life, and everyone has the right to live their life with their perspectives!! It's just a general awarness i'm trying to make and not much more! sorry if someone got offended!
Sobia you are right; family definitely comes first and as far as the guy is concerned, inshallah if you and him are meant to be together, than it'll surely happen!