tHENDRAL mONDAY- uPDATE FOR June 11, 2012 - Page 3

a good mixed episode of varied colors...

Thanks Jayashree for the nice update. Lucky you got T and T scene today.

There is an easy way by which Bhuvana can punish Laxman. We saw that she is aware of the latest laws when she told Laav and GW file a police complaint against Puvi and TA. She can file a domestic violence case against Laxman and the burden of proof is on Laxman in this case. A curious fact is this law can be invoked by women who are not legal wives like Bhuvana also! Is she aware of this law?

Thanks Jeya for the lovely update👏

Today by chance, when I was visiting another person, I was forced to watch what was going on in the serial Kasturi. This was the way dialog went by. Kasturi and Rekha went to an astrologer with Rekha's mom. Both the women told their husband is died to the astrologer. As the story went by, the same man is their husband. The astrologer told both the women that their husband Ram is living. But he also said the husband will come back if both of them wore their Thirumangalyam. When the astrologer said this, both of them were delighted. Also the astrologer told them to do a Pooja and both the women agreed to do the Pooja. So both of them have decided they share their husband even if the husband is a cheat. Is it the way of life of people? I asked those persons is this the way they want the serial?

@Maha: You're absolutely right ... even the big-mouthed TPS mother keeps repeating that Lax is an innocent person and Bhu only spoiled Lax's mind ... even Akhil does not bother to take revenge on his father for abandoning him as a kid ... T also seems to have not taken into account Lax role in breaking up her family ...

missed the episode...thanks for ur update vijayam!

Director after all is an Indian man, that too Tamilian, who are top in their male chauvinism. Tulasi who is supposed to be a saintly heroin is being used to promote this male chauvinism. She forgives MM for all his atrocious faults, forgives Lax, forgives her evil MIL because she is her husband's mother,but spews venom at Bhu for leaving her( though she left her with her father and patti and not sold her to the biggest bidder like MM did). Even Tulasi's character is very irritating and immature in trying to be overly saintly.Even Tamil is better. At least he calls spade a spade. I don't think it is Tulasi's idea that Nit tortures GW. Tulasi expected him to eat a humble pie so that she succeeds in her agenda to be a do gooder. I hate such people who are in sensitive to the feelings of others.

Originally posted by: Jan50

Director after all is an Indian man, that too Tamilian, who are top in their male chauvinism. Tulasi who is supposed to be a saintly heroin is being used to promote this male chauvinism. She forgives MM for all his atrocious faults, forgives Lax, forgives her evil MIL because she is her husband's mother,but spews venom at Bhu for leaving her( though she left her with her father and patti and not sold her to the biggest bidder like MM did). Even Tulasi's character is very irritating and immature in trying to be overly saintly.Even Tamil is better. At least he calls spade a spade. I don't think it is Tulasi's idea that Nit tortures GW. Tulasi expected him to eat a humble pie so that she succeeds in her agenda to be a do gooder. I hate such people who are in sensitive to the feelings of others.

Thulasi started her steps against her mom only after she made sure her mom has not changed a bit even after meeting her daughter/husgband(MM) after so many years and still a lady who openly said it was she who sent goons to chop her hand and said she might even killed her and said she feels ashamed to call her a daughter...if at all BHU has felt a bit sorry for her acts in deserting her kid T might not have been so stringent with Bhuvana...her anger towards Bhu is 100% justified...it would be wrong only when she went against bhu after bhu showed some signs og sorry...Did Bhu do that? she tried to justofy her acts and still hates T and calls it a right act...where as others do accept their mistake...as far as GW, thulasi's consideration is GW is much better than her mother who thinks she does good for her kids according to her(GW).. she knows GW is money minded too but her consideration is bcos atleast she had raised her kids in a good way by making herself suffer to feed/educate her kids...Thulasi is not a saint here but a normal human who forgives ones mistakes when the other end feels for the act whole heartedly...she thinks from other's perspective too as in why they did such mistake and not blindly support them...she counts for her forgiving act towards other but she doesnt have any when it is for BHU...before knowing Bhu s her mom she wanted to keep away from her but ever since she knew bhu never felt sorry for the act anyone in Ts position wd do so... it is the same director who showed thulasi walking away from tamil when she cannot put up TAs arrogance and making her prove her acts are right against C to her husbd...so i dont think T is portrayed as a saint but as in how a normal middle class indian/tamil girl would be...it is 100% sync with the character...she respects everyone's feeling is the point here but takes advatage to people whom she thinks wont betray her anytime(deepa,kalyani,TA)...she hinted nitish to correct lav mistakes but did not give any ideas as in how to...but the basic idea is from T ofc here...but acc to me lakshman character s the worst of all who changes mind acc to the situation who doesnt even think of what mistake he did but talks like as though he is at mistake and of all advising prabha,lav etc...he s the one to be punished of alll but shd be by TPS only

@shubba, any normal girl will not forgive a mil like Gw. I would only call Sudha nor mal and T is shown as saintly. T was too ready to forgive MM even before he apologised. Ok at least I can nderstand that. In case of Bhu I hate the way the dir has created that character just because she violated her marriage and abandoned her child. She could have been made to feel sorry , but the idea is to create hatred towards a woman who crossed the line. While Lax is shown as magnanimous.