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Posted: 13 years ago
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Jan Akka, Leaving the husband MM and the one yr old daughter also indicates lack of human values.
Probably Prabha and L can set right the damages done by Bhuvana and Jr: Bhu. Didn't they sponsor the travels for VR? Does Bhu know that? In that case, she would have damaged her husband's plans also.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: shubba

Leaving MM for good reason is okie...if she had taken care of her own kid and proved to be a strong woman well we can accept...
But her reason...😡...she liked to live with lakshman, the life she wanted and did not want to live false like with MM...and hence ditched the kid and ran to lakshman...
Seriously no forgiveness for this act...
T's dad and mom took care of their life well by marrying someone else...but the real sufferers are T and TPS and i would mark T as the major sufferer and 100% Bhu is the only reason and she can never justify her act for the same. 😡
About prabha interfering, yes its a good option...but i think before he intervenes things gone out of hand..now we need to see what prabha/lakshman had to say for T's reaction...😕

shubba, given a chance I can see you heading to give a slap to bhuvana too👏
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: maha2us

Jan Akka, Leaving the husband MM and the one yr old daughter also indicates lack of human values.

Probably Prabha and L can set right the damages done by Bhuvana and Jr: Bhu. Didn't they sponsor the travels for VR? Does Bhu know that? In that case, she would have damaged her husband's plans also.

She knows I guess...bcos it was deepa's nightmare and VR immediately informing lakshman saved prabha's life and as a return Lakshman helped VR...so i guess Bhu did nto object...😕
@Vjayam - ROFL, being a mother, that too after seeing the baby's face how can she act so mean to the kid and run for her own life...if at all she had properly divorced MM and went away T might not ahve suffered this much(TPS knew lakshamn was keeping away so she managed)...that irritated me more of Bhu...
Actually I can see lav the upcoming follower of Bhu..😛...with GW as her advisory member Lav might do too...next sick creature..self-centered to the core...and the way she scolded the kid and her justification to GP for the same...😡...If I really get a chance i would make Bhu slap Lav and Lav slap Bhu as many times as punishment😛...😆...thats best for them...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I hate Prabha for being a emotional fool. He got moved by Bhu's tears. Bhu and L liked each other and had compatibility issues in their first marriage. Fine. But they should have divorced their respective spouses before they started living together. Prabha should have pointed this out.

Bhu and L should have thought about all this before bringing innocent lives to the world. 😡 They should have either fixed their issues first or got divorced. Both keep saying their first marriage was hell. I hope there will be some scene/flashback elaborating their past life in the future episodes.

Shubba, I know. But I still wish Kumaran not to degrade her character further. It was in response to AJ comment. She said Bhu will start seeing T as her enemy and someone else will be added to her enemy list in the upcoming episodes. 😕 If it is even after knowing she is her daughter it will be too pathetic. She need not have motherly feelings but should just maintain distance from her daughter if she doesn't like her. It is the human thing to do.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Jinju, did L claim he had compatibility issue in the first marriage? I guess Bhu only told Prabha herself and L found their first marriage as hell. What she told had no water. Bhu told MM and his mom harassed her. Was the patti really bad? L has so far told nothing about his first marriage. Both Lax and Bhu had opportunity to sort out their first marriage. Lax really lived in TPS's home and studied there and her relatives liked him a lot. Surely Patti would have been a good MIL to Bhuvana.
Bhu could have been admired if she behaved like Sudha and used her capabilities to make things work for her with MM. Sudha took initiative for a carefree Puvi and worked out things for him. Also she lives with a gutter MIL also and made her situation excellent for herself. She gained Puvi's respect. They are good parents also for their daughter. Bhu no doubt was capable and if she had taken the help of MM to come on the top of life with all her capabilities she would have been admired.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I think it was after L suffered a heart attack. He did not tell anything in detail but he did talk about his first marriage to his son. He sounded quite bitter.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I am not condoning B's leaving the child. This is definitely a bad thing. She probably can be forgiven if she lead a life with values later. But she is like a mafia chief in her arrogance. Lakshman also left his wife and kid. We are tolerating him better than we tolerate B because he still has some human values. Hope that is the reason. Society seems to forgive a man's leaving his wife and child but extremely harsh on a woman if she did similar thing.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Bhu just claims that she was tortured by MM/Patti; probably it is just a way of consoling his son P and justifying her own immoral acts! Whatever, if P was sharp enough he could have easily asked back his mom why she didn't divorce and run away with someone? Why she had to leave an infant and desert a family? What abt Lax's family? he too had a son and wife to whom he had duties? Just because TPS was employed, strong and from a good background, TPS' son probably didn't have to suffer as much as T. Although Lx had problems with TPS, probably these could have been just sorted out as he didn't want to divorce her and still seems to have guilty feelings. He does have a soft corner for TPS and TPS too didn't want to divorce Lax. If that was the case, it is probably Bhu who just exploited and widened the rift bet'n TPS/Lax. Well, it still needs 2 hands to clap and Lax was also at fault.

Whatever justification bhu gives, it is very hard to digest what she did. Also, she doesn't have an iota of guilt unlike Lax!! So, if she had met someone better than Lax would she have done the same thing again? She lacks even basic human values and acts very arrogant because of the money she has. I wish TPS strips her of every penny and she is brought to roads, and maybe she is then brought to her senses.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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@ Shubba, I disagree that T's suffering was 100% due to Bhu. Are you condoning all the cruelties of Mm just because he was dishonoured by his first wife. He was ready to pimp her to Vel for money. What kind of man will do that? True , he gave her shelter. But did he not sire her? He ruined her chance for free education scholarship. Lakshyam seems to be less of an offender here because Tps did not ill treat her son while in a similar situation MM ill treated his daughter. Is that so?
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Actually, as far as i remember, Bhuvana never mentioned MM/Pati(specifically) when she tried to reason out prabha for her acts.
She said, living a life with someone/in a place which did not give her happiness was hell. She quoted the same reason for Lax ditching TPS too..She said, she cannot cheat herself and live a false life with MM just for the sake and as Lax also had the same reason(she said TPS was over-dominating) and both ended up marrying each other. MM/Pati was never brought into the picture...the whole part of the story wrt Bhu life is yet to be unfolded. Lakshman got only guilt feelings towards TPS, that too not bcos TPS is his wife or for the son...he said TPS was quiet alright till their first kid was born..(wonder what...how many kids for TPS)..
and he said they need to pay TPS her share of money for the sake TPS dad sell some property and sponsored him for his education and made him a doctor. He quoted the same to Prabha too..
SO both Bhu and Lakshman did with a reason that they liked each other and did not want to live with their spouses and married ditching them. Both mean the same and should never be forgiven...The interesting thing is thru Bhu(run away act from woman) acts T was the sufferer and theru lakshman acts(runaway from man) TPS was the sufferer. Lakshman/Bhu has never been shown to regret their acts(just like the SQ lav) and they justify them saying they did not want to lead a life cheating themselves, ultimately making others life hell.
Bhu is still dominant over lakshman, but lakshman can put up with her and not TPS just bcos, bhu/lakshman earned together and came up together wheras when he was with TPS entire credits were taken away by TPS family.
Bhu/Pati cannot be compared with Sudha/GW...bcos both have different ideas for life...DIL/MIL...where as we can compare...Bhu/Pati with Lav/Nit mom...Pati and Nitish mom wanted their DIl to be right and point out their mistakes but both mils Bhu/Lav think they are right and bother only about status and society...

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