Update for Friday 24-Feb-2012 - Page 3

I'm really surprised by the way the story is moving .

I understand that Ta was adamant and believed C and did lot of mistakes but why suddenly so much ego towards T.Even during 4 lakhs matter he did apologize to T and D.Why not now ? I think CT's just want to keep them seperated.More than that why they made T deliver such dialogue ?Can anyone guarantee that life can be without problems ?I feel her expectations are not right from what she spoke to Puvi. And also how can somebody change the character within some days.I would say seperation is good since it will give them time to realize their mistakes.For Ta going and talking to D to convince T is way too much. Even if she comes won't GW/L say that TA never called her back and then why she came back ?

Moreover everytime L came to her amma house Nitish didn't send anybody to pick her up he came by himself.Then why T is thinking so much to go and talk to his wife .So if his sister does mistake and her husband picks her up its ok but same is not true for him.

I don't know I feel there is no more character left in TA. Why CT has made his character so low ?I never expected that they will show him egoistic which is unlike him.

T cannot depend on other people to convey her message to him.I feel only understanding they need is they need more communication and be faithful to each other.Ofcourse TA has some things which needs to be changed but asking somebody has to change before they get to gether doesn't seem right.Its not like smoking /drinking but his own character and he needs time to change himself.

I'm totally dissapointed in the way the story is moving.

Thanks

Desi

What Indira said is not right. There is nothing wrong in asking help from another person. But it is wrong to hurt others. Indira - No one in this World is know-all person.

As Deepa said whatever VR said is 100% right. A wife expects her husband to love her and trust her. Why was he so much pained that he had to be in the good books of Charu and he trusted her a lot and so mentally hurt his wife? He claimed he left his whole family members for Thulasi. The claim becomes hollow as he trusted his mom and sister and severely hurt Thulasi. Also why does he want everyone to talk to Thulasi? Thulasi doesn't even expect apologies from him. All she expects is assurance from him that this type of behavior from him won't be repeated again.

One thing I could not understand is he was severely hurt when Charu was ignoring him and went behind her and took a lot of pains to know why she refrained from talking to him and lived by her lies. Why is this same TA so reluctant to talk to Thulasi now even as he wants to live with her? Can't he go and talk to her, be tender to her and understand her? Where was his ego when he had interactions with Charu?

Wish you all a nice weekend,

When TA mockingly asks Deepa whether T will only come after he falls at her feet and asks forgiveness, VR suddenly comes alive, his upper body pops out and he shouts - "Why not" Then he sinks back in his chair and keeps rolling his eyes - .

TA's shocked expression😲 was priceless!!!!😆

However VR's advice ⭐️to TA is 100% correct - TA's ego "I am a man" is the only thing that is stopping TA from making the first move.👏

The stupid loghead TA lists out in a sincere tone all the people who had been sent to T to plead on his behalf and he still does not realise that it is HE WHO HAS TO GO and extend his hand towards T. I feel like pulling out his hair - 😡

Throughout the episode TA keeps blowing hot and cold - at one point humbly asking advice and when solution is given he becomes sarcastic. 😒 Hope he wakes up next week!!!! Waiting for the promo!!!

thanks shubba too for the update..(i cud not post there as it is closed)

Both thu and fri episodes super but for the misc. Of course K realising abt the fake akhilandeswari shud hopefully come to help in future...

TA's awakening and realisations are good. The Ct's are taking time but if it was shown soon it wud be a little unnatural...A slow and part by part realisation shud do TA good and make the lessons go deep. That no matter who convinces it is not going to work if the source of mistakes is not rectified has to be drilled deep down into TA and who better than T to drive this point home?

If puvi played big brother to the hilt then VR was the perfect father personified. His final punch echoed all our feelings and i cud not help remembering we discussing this aspect is this very forum...

TA has all ideal feelings and ideas about marriage and wife as we hv seen him talking abt Mrs. Tamilarasu being very lucky and how there is no prob in being a dasan to someone who has forsaken her family for him..but he now has to learn to put it into practice .

His recollection of his actions were super and he has only covered half of them..

TA has always lacked someone of VR kind to advice him and from here we hope TT get their orig nature back with a new awareness.

Agreed with Ranu's cmnts abt TA's love for T being deeply ingrained and given time he wud hv surely realised it but this learning lesson as we have been cmntg for a year now is def a must for TT and as shubba said TA's cmnts to T have assumed a new meaning now.

also TT were sort of unevenly balanced till now..with TA being overglorified and T being the selfish protege. This is necessary to raise T's bar and sort of put TT on the same bench...as halves of a whole..

waiting for the promo

Now as far TA's POV. Definitely TA was harsh on Thulasi and he went to the extent of serving the divorce paper. Still what was he telling? During those days when he was harsh one question he was asking was why T didn't trust him. No doubt T knows that Charu had bad intention and Charu wanted to separate her from TA. But whatever be the intention of Charu, why did T believe that TA will yield to the wiles of Charu and the other peis? Can't she believe that whatever drama Charu does, TA is only going to be hers? Thus it comes to the fact that when T talked to Charu based on Sudha's advice, she didn't trust TA. And that was the start of rift between TA and T. TA became angry and behaved harshly with T. From then on, what type of actions T took. All that T wanted to prove was, Charu had bad intentions. if she had trust for her husband, why did she talk to Charu in the bedroom based on Deepa's advice? And what was the need for her to talk to GP and others? She could definitely have waited till TA realized the truth if she believed TA is not going to leave her. TA considered every action she took as a lack of trust on him which only increased his anger. The question TA asks is why T believed she will lose him whatever be Charu's intent? What would have been the case if T had complete trust that nobody could take away her TA from her? Aren't all the actions Thulasi did because of her false beliefs also and not totally because of what TA did?