1 no ...bihaan was not wrong in that ...people slaps someone who does mistakes.
A father also slaps her daughter for her mistake ...so slaping a girl is wrong are talks of feminists .
2 marrying someone by cheat is wrong no matter what is the reason .
Bihaan got emotionally blackmail and kabir also got emotional blackmail by neha's tears ...but both are wrong, no one can deny that .
Lets take an example :- a person 'A' robs a bank ...and after few months , he got arrested ...reason of his action was just to make some money
Another person 'B' robs a bank ...and after few months got arrested ...reason of his action was to pay the medical expenses of the hospital for his mother's treatment .
Now what do you think , on hearing this ...think if you are a judge of a court ...will you give different type of treatment to both ?...will you give different punishments to them ? ...and if yes , on what basis or rule of laws ...remember there is a statue a lady in a court who is blindfolded by a black cloth ...there is meaning about that ...hope you know that .
I would have given the chance , then i would not do any partiality . yes person B would surely get my sympathy .. Just that only
3 again i would like to take an example ...assume
There is a couple (husband and wife) ...having some intimacy ...a stalker or say any random person get able to click some pictures of them .
He send that to someone whom the couple knows ...and that person uploads the pictures on internet ...oh why to bring internet ...lets say , the person throws the picture of them in front of everyone ...there was a party going on ...there were neighbours , friend , family members , relatives and many other guests .
Now , the couple get insulted ...they get insulted the moment when everyone gets to see their private moments .because the crowd are now talking ill about them ...judging their characters ...some instanly uploaded the pics on social media ...some updated their status #UnderTheRoofWithA.s**tyCouple.
Now , please tell me ...where is the role of the husband in this process , where is the role of wife in this process ...where is that god damn explanation ...
No where ...you know why ? ...because no one cares ...as everyone knows that they are husband-wife , no one needs any clarification ..the only thing matter is that they somehow get their pics which should not be displayed ...who displayed that ...the husband?...or the wife? ...
Now let me complete the story...the wife came forward and tries to explain that ...but her husband was standing dumbstruck ...Story ends .
Now the bottom line is "The real fault was of ...
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The husband"
...hmm ...right?
Because he was standing dumbstruck .. ...the process of insult started when he doesnt even try to speak ...right?
Because we belives that only the wife got insulted ...all that drama will not affect the husband's image ...right .? The only victim is the wife ...why? She is a female ...and the husband is a male ...and no on cares about a man's image or reputation ..right? ...hmm i got a big lesson from all of you ...i enter my adullthood with this mentality ...thanks to you guys ...all the teachings which my mother and father gave me ...will surely vanish from my brain soon , as the type of debates i m endulging in..and exploring the mentalities of you guys ...i wil...ah .leave it .
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4 no, revenge is not the solution ...'kunki badle ki aag me insaan khud hi jalta hai '..
Edited by .Karna - 8 years ago