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Posted: 8 years ago
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Friends first I m a big fan of thahaan and now tolerating tpk only for bihaan...I like thapki whenever she acts as normal human being and without hypocrisy...and my doubts as follows

1.bihaan slapped thapki and send her out of the house...so my doubt is bihaan is unware of thapkis pregnancy and everything is against thapki at the last moment daadi also lied...in ghost drama thapki accepts her truth then bihaan warns her and gives last chances also...but people r blaming bihaan well planned for to slap thapki(I too hate those who slaps girls) but I hate bihaans dialog after the slap...thapki slaps bihaan when he did drama of his death vasu slapped thapki when she spoiled karvachowth virat...thapki slaps shradha coz shradha try to kill adithi baby and even thapki knows shradha is pregnant...

so my doubt is slapping is wrong or if u have a right reason u can slap?

2.people still blaming bihaan married thapki by cheating and now thapki also took revenge by swapping her place to goberdevi...everyone knows bihaan is emotionally blackmailed by vasu but bihaan has no intension to marry thapki...some people now praising kabir actions he also did same with thapki...kabir get divorced thahaan ,registered his marriage with thapki also he transferred pandey house into his name by dhoka...

here my doubt is who is good in giving dhoka?bihaan or kabir?

3.bihaan throws thapki and kabirs photo infront of everyone so bihaan spoiled thapkis character or silence of kabir spoiled thapkis character...

so who spoiled thapkis character?

4.finally revenge is solution for anything?

Really guys I have more doubts but these r main doubts please help me...


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Posted: 8 years ago
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1. If the situation and circumstances are so then one can slap according to the situation in bihu case he slapped thapki as she failed to prove kosi guilty
2.kabir
3.kabir
4.no
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Di, our priority has always been bihaan because whatever he did all was a result of betrayal from his loved ones.
1) when someone slaps the other one, there has to be solid reason an he had the reason. And whatever he told after the slap, we had already made long posts against bihaan before. But then was it not bihaan gave her a last warning. He asked her to leave the house because he didn't want to risk his mother's life. Why are we forgetting that even during tabela track, dadi had slapped thapki and threw her out. Then why didn't people call dadi as abuser and calling bihaan as abuser?Just because bihaan is a male then why do people say men and women are equal and at times we differentiate? Why can't male and female be equally seen in crimes too? Vasu slapped thapki two times in the show, thapki slapped dhruv and shraddha, adidi slapped bihaan for molesting her etc.

2) If your mother says she will kill herself then what would you do? Would you ignore her or sacrifice your life for her? Bihaan did what his mother blackmailed him into. Didn't kabir fall under the blackmails of Sankar and stood quiet during binkar marriage? Bihaan yearned for his mother's love and she said she will give him a son's rights if he agrees. Had she been his biological mother, would she had done this? No she wouldn't have. I know now vasu is completely changed and thapki changed her thinking. But still I didn't fall for vasu's character completely. And yesterday she said her family is united. But where? Thapki swapped bride for Bihaan and that old part is over now.

3) bihaan flinged those pictures, yes it suits his character. He is a hot headed man, if somebody hands you over your wife's intimate pictures, what would you do? How could he not lose his cool? He did somewhat wrong but somebody sent you pictures means it is already publicized to others, if suppose the person had put it up on newspaper then? But it was kabir who could have saved her respect but he didn't. Okay he didn't want to say about the rape attempt in front of all but atleast he could have taken bihaan aside and explain it. But he chose to listen to sankar. Actually he only cares for his own sister and revenge and about nobody else.

4)Lastly revenge is no solution. It affects the society as a whole. Then why are the law makers in our country for if everyone starts taking laws in their own hands? Everyone said Bihaan is a goon, he has power and people to free him from jail but is n't it that kabir has more money? Then what did he boast for? He could have continued strongly with the case but no he is a coward. he wants to hurt bihaan's family to break bihaan from within. But in between he is paining a lot of innocent people.

P.S. Nothing more to say. I spoke a lot...Thank you for reading 😊
Only Bihaan is the selfless person in that PZ...Rest all are selfish..
Edited by Rinka_Ritz - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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1 biihaan throws thapki and kabirs photo infront of everyone here bihaan spoiled thapki image
2 silence of kabir spoiled thapkis characters here kabir spoiled thapki image
3 bihaan and kabir both spoiled her character in front of family and outsider 😡
And mein reason sankar spoiled thapki character in front of bihaan 🤢
Edited by Poonam23 - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Poonam23

1 biihaan throws thapki and kabirs photo infront of everyone here bihaan spoiled thapki image
2 silence of kabir spoiled thapkis characters here kabir spoiled thapki image
3 bihaan and kabir both spoiled her character in front of family and outsider 😡
And mein reason sankar spoiled thapki character in front of bihaan 🤢



bihaan was right if you r seeing your loved one picture with another guy then what he will do and he is in the same state of love but thapki moved on so easily...so his action is right...and may be someone ask y not bihaan take her to room and ask abt photos...please be realistic and bihaan asked many times and he witnessed all the kabir and thapkis rasam also...thapki has lot of chances to tell d truth but she is not telling the truth till today she is silent only...bihaan hope that she is his thapki only then after watching photo only he react what normal person will do...

abt pandey family respect when she was revealing truth of herself she is not vaani that day pandey family respect gone in air infront of everyone...
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Msaa



bihaan was right if you r seeing your loved one picture with another guy then what he will do and he is in the same state of love but thapki moved on so easily...so his action is right...and may be someone ask y not bihaan take her to room and ask abt photos...please be realistic and bihaan asked many times and he witnessed all the kabir and thapkis rasam also...thapki has lot of chances to tell d truth but she is not telling the truth till today she is silent only...bihaan hope that she is his thapki only then after watching photo only he react what normal person will do...

abt pandey family respect when she was revealing truth of herself she is not vaani that day pandey family respect gone in air infront of everyone...


Hmmm you're right ..
I stop watching tpk because of kabir and Shankar ..
Only read wu out post so mujhe no idea who is wrong..or right
😆 😆
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Rinka_Ritz

Di, our priority has always been bihaan because whatever he did all was a result of betrayal from his loved ones.

1) when someone slaps the other one, there has to be solid reason an he had the reason. And whatever he told after the slap, we had already made long posts against bihaan before. But then was it not bihaan gave her a last warning. He asked her to leave the house because he didn't want to risk his mother's life. Why are we forgetting that even during tabela track, dadi had slapped thapki and threw her out. Then why didn't people call dadi as abuser and calling bihaan as abuser?Just because bihaan is a male then why do people say men and women are equal and at times we differentiate? Why can't male and female be equally seen in crimes too? Vasu slapped thapki two times in the show, thapki slapped dhruv and shraddha, adidi slapped bihaan for molesting her etc.

2) If your mother says she will kill herself then what would you do? Would you ignore her or sacrifice your life for her? Bihaan did what his mother blackmailed him into. Didn't kabir fall under the blackmails of Sankar and stood quiet during binkar marriage? Bihaan yearned for his mother's love and she said she will give him a son's rights if he agrees. Had she been his biological mother, would she had done this? No she wouldn't have. I know now vasu is completely changed and thapki changed her thinking. But still I didn't fall for vasu's character completely. And yesterday she said her family is united. But where? Thapki swapped bride for Bihaan and that old part is over now.

3) bihaan flinged those pictures, yes it suits his character. He is a hot headed man, if somebody hands you over your wife's intimate pictures, what would you do? How could he not lose his cool? He did somewhat wrong but somebody sent you pictures means it is already publicized to others, if suppose the person had put it up on newspaper then? But it was kabir who could have saved her respect but he didn't. Okay he didn't want to say about the rape attempt in front of all but atleast he could have taken bihaan aside and explain it. But he chose to listen to sankar. Actually he only cares for his own sister and revenge and about nobody else.

4)Lastly revenge is no solution. It affects the society as a whole. Then why are the law makers in our country for if everyone starts taking laws in their own hands? Everyone said Bihaan is a goon, he has power and people to free him from jail but is n't it that kabir has more money? Then what did he boast for? He could have continued strongly with the case but no he is a coward. he wants to hurt bihaan's family to break bihaan from within. But in between he is paining a lot of innocent people.

P.S. Nothing more to say. I spoke a lot...Thank you for reading 😊
Only Bihaan is the selfless person in that PZ...Rest all are selfish..



Rinka I saw last nyt u alia poonam r giving reply to those kabir fans...please dear avoid those people and I m very happy bihaan accepts what he is and his work...and he is not shedding crocodile tears like kabir and thapki...I m so happy...
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Posted: 8 years ago
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okay di... we will royally ignore them from now...
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Posted: 8 years ago
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1 no ...bihaan was not wrong in that ...people slaps someone who does mistakes.
A father also slaps her daughter for her mistake ...so slaping a girl is wrong are talks of feminists .

2 marrying someone by cheat is wrong no matter what is the reason .
Bihaan got emotionally blackmail and kabir also got emotional blackmail by neha's tears ...but both are wrong, no one can deny that .
Lets take an example :- a person 'A' robs a bank ...and after few months , he got arrested ...reason of his action was just to make some money
Another person 'B' robs a bank ...and after few months got arrested ...reason of his action was to pay the medical expenses of the hospital for his mother's treatment .
Now what do you think , on hearing this ...think if you are a judge of a court ...will you give different type of treatment to both ?...will you give different punishments to them ? ...and if yes , on what basis or rule of laws ...remember there is a statue a lady in a court who is blindfolded by a black cloth ...there is meaning about that ...hope you know that .

I would have given the chance , then i would not do any partiality . yes person B would surely get my sympathy .. Just that only

3 again i would like to take an example ...assume
There is a couple (husband and wife) ...having some intimacy ...a stalker or say any random person get able to click some pictures of them .
He send that to someone whom the couple knows ...and that person uploads the pictures on internet ...oh why to bring internet ...lets say , the person throws the picture of them in front of everyone ...there was a party going on ...there were neighbours , friend , family members , relatives and many other guests .

Now , the couple get insulted ...they get insulted the moment when everyone gets to see their private moments .because the crowd are now talking ill about them ...judging their characters ...some instanly uploaded the pics on social media ...some updated their status #UnderTheRoofWithA.s**tyCouple.

Now , please tell me ...where is the role of the husband in this process , where is the role of wife in this process ...where is that god damn explanation ...
No where ...you know why ? ...because no one cares ...as everyone knows that they are husband-wife , no one needs any clarification ..the only thing matter is that they somehow get their pics which should not be displayed ...who displayed that ...the husband?...or the wife? ...

Now let me complete the story...the wife came forward and tries to explain that ...but her husband was standing dumbstruck ...Story ends .

Now the bottom line is "The real fault was of ...
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The husband"
...hmm ...right?
Because he was standing dumbstruck .. ...the process of insult started when he doesnt even try to speak ...right?
Because we belives that only the wife got insulted ...all that drama will not affect the husband's image ...right .? The only victim is the wife ...why? She is a female ...and the husband is a male ...and no on cares about a man's image or reputation ..right? ...hmm i got a big lesson from all of you ...i enter my adullthood with this mentality ...thanks to you guys ...all the teachings which my mother and father gave me ...will surely vanish from my brain soon , as the type of debates i m endulging in..and exploring the mentalities of you guys ...i wil...ah .leave it .
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4 no, revenge is not the solution ...'kunki badle ki aag me insaan khud hi jalta hai '..

Edited by .Karna - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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@ sanju bhai

my second doubt is who is good in giving dhoka and I m not justify bihaans dhoka...I accept whatever may be the reason cheating a girl that also in her life's important step is never justied...

abt photos you r worry abt kabirs respect and reputation...I never respect kabir coz for hisrevenge he is ready toplay with thapkis respect..

for me both the gender r equal and there is a lot of way to take revenge but he chooses thapki for his revenge what's fault of thapki loving bihaan or thapki is wife of bihaan...

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