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greeshma014

@greeshma014

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Posted: 9 years ago

#21

i just want to knw why MR.perfect Dhruv pandey married shradha if he was so much in love with thapki..it's confusing..😆😆.. just give a proper justification for his this act..

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dushturain

@dushturain

Rocker

Posted: 9 years ago

#22

Originally posted by: abhishek678919

I agree with you on somethings like bihaan's goodness and thapki's gradual fall to bihaan but the point i wud like to stress is... why did all the house members including thapki fail to realise that dhruv is in agony and pain on loosing thapki in his first marriage. each and everyone including thapki never took an effort to know what dhruv is passing through... and frankly speaking... i didnt like your opinion on sita wihout raam. i respect you as a person because your comment has been put in a very sensible and mature way . but sita and ram's relationship shudnt be misunderstood.. raam has abandoned sita for a genuine reason which is dharma which is very dificult to be understood by common people like us.. in ramayan, a washerwoman spends a night in another man's house without the knowledge of her husband. she remains chaste ofcourse as its her friend's house. in those days' there was a rule that no wman shud sleep in another man's house without her husband being along with her.. society ran on a set of rules laid to prevent obstacles and suffering in the lives of people..but that washerwoman ignored that and slept in another man's house..and when confronted abt why she did like that , she uses the name of sita saying that "when sita has stayed in raavan's custody for almost an year and still lord ram accepts her, why not you accept me? " ram doesn't want any woman to use the name of sita and do misdeeds.. so he had abandoned sita . he chooses to send her off to her parents but as they dont accept the decision, he sends her to a safe place near to valmikis ashram

LORD RAM IS AN EXAMPLE OF DHARMA. not just ramayan, eevn quran , bible and each and every holy epic prescribes the right set of rules for society ...and such rules shud prevail no matter how difficult they are.. we live in a society. we shud abide by the rules set by it.

HI Abhishek,

First, thank you for explaining me the context behind Sita's exile. really now I feel less hostile against everyone who says "Ram-Sita" jodi. yes i understand what Lord Ram wanted to established by exiling Sita. ANd I do agree, society needs to be run by a set of rules.

However, to set this as an example he selflessly gave up his love, Sita's love, their future, so that all human kind can learn from it. His heart is soo big and and I can't imagine the pain he must have went through to be separated from his love.And that is why he is a god.

But I am a simple human being and very selfish about people I love. I can never give up my love like that. Also I never hesitate to break rules of society or any general rules and thats why I will probably burn in hell.

Anyways thank you for explaining me stuffs.

About Thapki-Bihaan-Dhruv...

Thapki and Bihaan didn't have any romantic feelings towards each other until Dhruv consented to marry Shraddha. When Dhruv and Shraddha's rings were bought, that was the first time a romantic score was given and that too only on Bihaan. However, he didn't realise that his feelings for Thapki are indeed romantic until a lot later. And Thapki, she never had any romantic feelings for Bihaan until the stabbing drama. Both Bihaan and Thapki was still waiting to get separated.

SO my reason of saying those...Thapki-Bihaan was living platonically with each other... BUT DHRUV MARRIED SHRADDHA on his own. SO everyone of the family members thought he moved on and is happy with his married life. And Dhruv hid his feelings for Thapki well as well.

And Why would Thapki take an effort to understand Dhruv's pain?? She asked him to get over her.

Did you forget what she said to him?? even if she gets separated from Bihaan she will not go back to him because she is not a doll. If she doesn't want to resume any kind of relationship with Dhruv why will she try to understand his pain better, try to make him feel better?? which will only give him more pain and false hope because they dont have any future. So it was good, Thapki stayed away from Dhruv.

pfff...i dont know how much I could explain...the thing is, even if Thapki-Bihan got divorced right away...she still didnt want to marry Dhruv...becasue she was hurt and humiliated and she is not an object to pass along. AND MAINLY BECAUSE SHE DIDNT LOVE DHRUV. That was why probably it was so easy for her to let Dhruv go...(not easy but still)

But now, if same situation happens with Dhruv marrying Thapki betraying Bihaan. Do you think she will quietly go along with it divorce Dhruv and just leave??? NO, and this is because SHE LOVES BIHAAN. She will want to be with Bihaan by hook or by crook.

Thapki never loved Dhruv...and there was no future for them once Bihaan married her.

But I also agree. Dhruv genuinely and only loved Thapki all his life. however he shouldn't have married Shraddha and ruin another girl's life.

Edited by dushturain - 9 years ago

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Sid

@Get-Lost

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+ 2

Posted: 9 years ago

#23

Agree with you.

All the characters in this serial are criminals. Even Thapki. And the writer wants TRPs but the condition of this show is getting worse day by day..Don't worry this show might not survive long.

But the thing is..nobody is going to realise what DS went through. So you are basically talking to a wall. My suggestion..watch some other show.😳

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Roseymi

@Roseymi

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Posted: 9 years ago

#24

@dushtu... 'Hoo wow... thank you...

is it that difficult to understand the context of why we root for Thahaan...? I mean isn't it supposed to be like that...

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naran1986

@naran1986

Explorer

Posted: 9 years ago

#25

Originally posted by: Roseymi
I don't know all rules but I know one thing...
Love rules

Dhruv didn't stand up for Thapki when he had to ...he was a channel person ...who always stood by truth but when his own fiance was duped he chose to be mute...

He didn't have to marry Shraddha it was his own choice...Nd when he did he should have been completely hers ...should have even loyal and truthful to their relationship...like even when Thapki was in a dhokaebaaz marriage she stood by it didn't become a double sided person...

Lastly when the person whom you profess to love rejects you ...you should respect that...it is called respect for that person ...here he just considers Thapki as a toy...

I agree he went through a lot but so did Thapki... ...but his emotions nver came out he seemed to be okay with Thapki being Bihaan's wife ...until recently when he decided otherwise...
And about society rules then right now Thapki is Bihaan's wife ...Dhruv should have the mind to follow that dharma ... Of not stealing others wife...
Bihaan is going through the same situation he is getting his karma back true ...but he had made himself worthy for Thapki's love through his actions...he changed his ways...but now not in any way does Dhruv deserve her...he is going against dharma...

Bihaan will get his karma back when he looses Thapki forever. It is not going to happen . Bihaan will never understand what a wretched act he commited.

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fan.matsh

@fan.matsh

Rocker

Posted: 9 years ago

#26

Let me clarify that first of all I am a ThaHaan fan n hv started watching the show only after Thahaan marriage n hv watched it to only c how the story progresses.
But v as Thahaan shippers were nvr blind to his act of dhoka marriage like u guys r of Ds's weaknesses. V always know that he was equally responsible for the wrong doings just as much as his mom. But his subsequent acts hv actually redeemed him from Thapki's perspective!
what v don't understand is why did DS acting now after almost an year of marriage? Why did he not come out clean then? Why did he not bring Bihaan to the books then, got him jailed and subsequently got the Thahaan marriage annulled? I am sure had DS done that then Thapki wud hv been proud of DS n wud hv happily gone back to him! but no then she was left to her own devices to handle all the criticism n all the dishonorable comments people made. So she did what she felt best. Had DS stood by her then all this wudnt hv happened.!!
And the so called Dharamaraya DS (he ought to hv been DR😆!), married Shraddha to make jealous. He didn't think k twice to do that!! She was ruining a woman's life dammit!! n he didn't feel guilty even once. Now of course he is a gone case u can't reason with him - he has turned a psycho!!

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Roseymi

@Roseymi

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Posted: 9 years ago

#27

Originally posted by: naran1986

Bihaan will get his karma back when he looses Thapki forever. It is not going to happen . Bihaan will never understand what a wretched act he commited.

@ naran... Bihaan won't loose Thapki ...you know why coz once he commits to something he gets it done... that's what happened on the Tharuv marriage day...

If den it was for family today it is for his wife...that guy will get her back...

Please don't get me wrong ... I have never agreed to what he did ...but today Thapki is all his...he did wrong , he repented , he made that girl fall in love with him without any efforts ...okay except for Sheena track ...he has shown that eve at his worst he can't think like Dhruv...

I don't know why but Bihaan is too different from Dhruv...he doesn't fight only for himself ...when. He fights it is for somebody whom he loves... And for them anything even if it is his life he can keep it on the table...but Dhruv he can't do that...if he could he would have fought for Thapki long back ...for her reputation and honor...he failed way back...and more than Love it is the feeling of having the best that rules Dhruv...

Sorry if I hurt your feelings...but this is my opinion...

Edited by Roseymi - 9 years ago

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Sanju

@.Karna

Rocker

Posted: 9 years ago

#28

Haha ...oh god ,i dont have much energy to fight with dhruv or maybe ankit's lover again and again ..(if you insist ,then i will surely be glad to do that )...now only one thing...when you yourself feels that thapki is a cheater ,selfish then why do you want thapki to unite woth your lord dhruv . She is not worth of it . Let her rot with bihaan . They are alike ,they are dhokebaaz ,selfish,cheater blah blah ..let them die. And you live with peace .ohkay

Edited by sanju15k - 9 years ago

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Fiza

@Fizak

Dazzler

Posted: 9 years ago

#29

Ah! One dhamka post is much needed for forum activity..good tomorrow is rank day...so anyone else come out...sab bahar nikalo!

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Msaa

@Msaa

Voyager

Posted: 9 years ago

#30

I agree only one point bihaan married thapki for his mother's love is wrong...then answer my question if u r mother is going to die u just left her and go...2nd bihaan is unaware of dhruv love thapki...3rd he is not directly go and marry thapki to stop tharuv marriage he tried many ways but in the neck of the moment he marry thapki...only.situation makes bihaan to marry thapki also we know vasu manipulate bihaan emotionally...why dhruv married shradha to make thapki jealousy is the right way shradha may be evil or good dhruv just taken her life granted...dhruv never think abt shradha even a one day he didn't treat her as his wife...but bihaan always stand for thapki in all d situation...bihaan always used by others but he choose wrong way like now dhruv follows ...don't call bihaan as selfish...finally dhruv knows about thapki and bihaan love eachother ,but he want his love back...she is your brother wife then also u want her back...she hates u from her core of the heart then also u want her back...this is called selfish...finally bihaan stop tharuv marriage to save his mother but dhruv try to kill his brother for getting his love back...if a person is cheated by others he can also cheat everyone is not good message to society ...

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