Whose mistake is bigger?

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Sorry for mistakenly posting...empty post earlier.
Okay so after todays episode...i have question for all of u


Bihaan can not forgive thapki for her lie about giving their marriage another shot...ok

But if we see the past...though bihaan was under pressure...he married thapki against her WILL and most importantly her knowledge...

So whose fault is much bigger and can not be forgiven????

I personally think they are equal now. 😆
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Lolzz.Of course bIhaan's mistake is big ,it's marriage but under Vasu's influence.Here thapki under no influence ,She can use some other excuse to be in pandey mivas like she can come and say lwayer is asking for few more days.So I came back,there can be 100 reasons.I before wanted angry bihaan but ab kuch zyada ho gaya..Uska dil pilagte pigalte raha jaa raha hian..
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: tabi9

Lolzz.Of course bIhaan's mistake is big ,it's marriage but under Vasu's influence.Here thapki under no influence ,She can use some other excuse to be in pandey mivas like she can come and say lwayer is asking for few more days.So I came back,there can be 100 reasons.I before wanted angry bihaan but ab kuch zyada ho gaya..Uska dil pilagte pigalte raha jaa raha hian..

abhi bohot jaada ho gaya...bihaan should forgive thapki and move on...plus i want he never forgets just like thapki 😛 and asks thapki for divorce so that she can realise how important bihaan is in her life 😆
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Both are defo equal now...
Even though the shaadi wasn't his idea &
Felt guilty about it...

Thapki hated him for ages until
She realised that he has a good heart..
& now knows that it was vasu(his god's) idea!

But obviously,. He feels betrayed more as
He thought she was giving them a fresh start! And being devastated that she's not interested in a life of being bihaan's wife.. She was just interested in the truth... I guess he expected her to understand why he wanted a second chance.. But clearly didn't click on 😆 ..

Clearly his reaction to betrayal is different when compared to Thapki.. It's more 'violent' and anger.. & I can't wait for the
Upcoming sequence.. I guess he's been keeping everything bottled in from maa to Thapki ect.. & them using him when they want & ditch them at a drop of a hat..
& then realising that the whole family supporting a woman that only entered their lives for a couple of months and not him... That's bad.. He has no support whatsoever.. I kinda want him to leave this family.. & let them all fall apart.. & get them to realise that he was the only one who protected them..
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Both are responsible for this independly as different kind of betrayals..if thapki what would get over him she might be true as an interrupt as his wify and bihaan as love
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Well ,its clear, bihaan's mistake is much bigger from every angle ,but it was under pressure ,after being blackmailed and it was also unintentional but on the other side thapki did that intentionally.Bihaan got forgiveness after ages ,actually after the truth got revealed but now thapki wants his forgiveness so soon, gajjab!
Dont know why but i dont want thapki to support him ,i want bihaan to leave that place and after a 2 year leap ,he become successfull and makes entry in Pandey niwas ,it would be so cool
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Posted: 9 years ago
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For me , its Bihaans. Even if he was forced to do it for his so called Ma... Please he is an adult that knows the right from wrong.

As for Thapki , ironically she was only tyring to help out with her husbands reputation'

But am feeling for Bihaan. He has had another rejection from a loved one.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Bihaan's mistake definitely is much more bigger compared to Thapki...& I accept the fact wholeheartedly...
But I must clarify my POV...

What Bihaan did was unforgivable really...& I would really have sided Thapki if she decided not to forgive Bihaan ever...BUT she forgave Vasu...& she cannpt forgive Bihaan is beyond me...

Bihaan was coerced into this...

Anyone who has been watching the show since its beginning would know that he holds great importance for Vasu in his life...She tried committing suicide in front of his very eyes...Coercion at its best...Anyone would not want to lose his/her mother like that...She wanted the marriage broken...he did his best...But the moment she asked him to marry Thapki...he repulsed...denied...but Vasu's emotional blackmail continued & he gave in...

I am not saying it waives off his mistakes...but just trying to point out that he was the puppet...with Vasu pulling the strings...

If Thapki has so graciously forgiven Vasu...I don't want her to be cold towards Bihaan...Or else she should not have forgiven Vasu as well...If Vasu's mistake is forgiven, then I will go on to say that Bihaan did not commit any mistake at all...

Secondly, Thapki lied in a situation which could have been avoided by her...She had an exit...She could have made up any excuse...She could have said anything that did not relate to Bihaan's apology...that way..atleast he would not have got the wrong signal...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I think they are on equal feet but that Thapki shouldn't bring back Maa in the dispute when she knows how he is touchy on that subject
And Bihaan has to say to her his feelings before screaming that she betrayed him and cheated him! His anger is justified because she broke his heart and cheated him when he was in love but as she didn't know it yet she thinks that he is angry only for her lie
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: .x-bumblebee-x.

Both are defo equal now...
Even though the shaadi wasn't his idea &
Felt guilty about it...

Thapki hated him for ages until
She realised that he has a good heart..
& now knows that it was vasu(his god's) idea!

But obviously,. He feels betrayed more as
He thought she was giving them a fresh start! And being devastated that she's not interested in a life of being bihaan's wife.. She was just interested in the truth... I guess he expected her to understand why he wanted a second chance.. But clearly didn't click on 😆 ..

Clearly his reaction to betrayal is different when compared to Thapki.. It's more 'violent' and anger.. & I can't wait for the
Upcoming sequence.. I guess he's been keeping everything bottled in from maa to Thapki ect.. & them using him when they want & ditch them at a drop of a hat..
& then realising that the whole family supporting a woman that only entered their lives for a couple of months and not him... That's bad.. He has no support whatsoever.. I kinda want him to leave this family.. & let them all fall apart.. & get them to realise that he was the only one who protected them..

bang on...so right 😭

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