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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: priyanshiii

@lachu okay!!!!! But ur line 'only diamond can cut diamond' makes me ๐Ÿคฃ how she will cut herself??? She can't even see a rose petal to be eaten by bihaan...


in that scene i was like what did he do wrong ๐Ÿ˜†

yaar u r just ๐Ÿคฃ
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Lachu-


Ok now I'm sure you are someone I knw with a new id๐Ÿ˜†...i always thought she was the last one who would say something like this ๐Ÿ˜†

Ohh yeah.. u r deep secret ! ๐Ÿ˜†
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Ladies! today I am on Thapki's side. Let me be her advocate ๐Ÿ˜†๐Ÿ˜†๐Ÿ˜†
She has not softened towards Bihaan because he is the constant reminder of everything that is wrong in her life. He may saved her so many times, but then he is responsible for the mess. If he had let her marry DS, he wouldn't have do this. He brought it upon himself. Plus she would have done the same for him if the opportunities had been presented. So what's big deal?

As for liking vasu - Duty and karma overrides feelings. - Mahabharata and Bhagvat Gita say so.
As for Shraddha - Ahimsa is best - Buddha said so.

๐Ÿ˜†๐Ÿ˜†๐Ÿ˜†

Now your turn...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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FINALLY ! Katori is on Thapki's side!๐Ÿ˜†
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Katori

Ladies! today I am on Thapki's side.Let me be her advocate๐Ÿ˜†๐Ÿ˜†๐Ÿ˜†

She has not softened towards Bihaan because he is the constant reminder of everything that is wrong in her life. He may saved her so many times, but then he is responsible for the mess. If he had let her marry DS, he wouldn't have do this. He brought it upon himself. Plus she would have done the same for him if the opportunities had been presented. So what's big deal?

As for liking vasu - Duty and karma overrides feelings. - Mahabharata and Bhagvat Gita say so.
As for Shraddha - Ahimsa is best - Buddha said so.

๐Ÿ˜†๐Ÿ˜†๐Ÿ˜†

Now your turn...


Playing devils advocate?
OK..
If gita says so abt vasu n Buddha says so abt shraddha, why don't they say the same thing abt Bihaan? Do they specifically say that if u hv been married by dhoka then don't forgive? Jesus says they know not what they do so forgive. So why can't Bihaan b forgiven? Repenting for ur wrong deeds even god forgives u. Why can't Bihaan b forgiven then? its just that Thapki is very judgemental.She thinks she's God!
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: fan.matsh


Playing devils advocate?
OK..
If gita says so abt vasu n Buddha says so abt shraddha, why don't they say the same thing abt Bihaan? Do they specifically say that if u hv been married by dhoka then don't forgive? Jesus says they know not what they do so forgive. So why can't Bihaan b forgiven? Repenting for ur wrong deeds even god forgives u. Why can't Bihaan b forgiven then? its just that Thapki is very judgemental.She thinks she's God!


Forgiveness must be earned and Bihaan is working towards it.

She is not god. Difference between Bihaan vs Vasu/Shraddha is that Bihaan action had a major impact on her life but Vasu/Shraddha are irritants but have not done anything to "destroy her dreams" (as far as she knows). Shraddha may have taunted her multiple times but has not physically hurted. Thapki knows about Vasu's hate but not actions.


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Posted: 9 years ago
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Bihaan is working towards forgiveness I agree. But will thapki the mahaan aatma ever forgive him is the question. Whatever he does for her, she ignores. If his only aim in life was to torture her he wudnt help her ever. He wud hv left her to die. u might now say he loves her so that's why he does help her n protect her. But when he saved her from bomb fire there was no love lurking around. why didn't she even once think that why did he risk his life to save. U wud say she wud do the same thing so what's so g8. but there's a difference. According to her Bihaan is a dhokebaaz n a gunda. So how can he do good things that too to her where as she's made of gold if not god!? why doesn't she stop for a moment n think? Bcoz she's judgemental.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: fan.matsh

Bihaan is working towards forgiveness I agree. But will thapki the mahaan aatma ever forgive him is the question. Whatever he does for her, she ignores. If his only aim in life was to torture her he wudnt help her ever. He wud hv left her to die. u might now say he loves her so that's why he does help her n protect her. But when he saved her from bomb fire there was no love lurking around. why didn't she even once think that why did he risk his life to save. U wud say she wud do the same thing so what's so g8. but there's a difference. According to her Bihaan is a dhokebaaz n a gunda. So how can he do good things that too to her where as she's made of gold if not god!? why doesn't she stop for a moment n think? Bcoz she's judgemental.


Here is big assumption: She really loved DS and believed she could not live without him - She has stated as much but even I do not think that was the case.

She has recognized he is not a goon but he is still a dhokebaaz to her. She also realizes that for him duty to family comes above feelings - and that applies to her as well. She knows he will protect her as he is bound by duty.

She ambivalent towards him as she cannot fully comprehend his actions on the marriage day. She cannot fully trust him. She also does not know that he did not have problem with her stammering. He teased her like other people. Audience take it as good-natured teasing, but how she is to distinguish that from other teasing. He also reinforced this issue when she lost her voice. He states he could not understand when she spoke, how can he understand her now. SO he is lacking 2 things that are most important to her - guy who accepts her as she is and trustworthiness.


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Posted: 9 years ago
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since ,thapki too needs an advocate.. and katori is doing the job single handedly , i will go on to support her! I have ir back katori๐Ÿ˜‰
Everytime thahaan met b4 marriage., the meeting proved out to b disastrous.. she does see the good side in him now, but the bad he has done to her , by replacing the real dulha with himself in the mandap ,just bcoz he thought she wasn't worthy of him , was the worst. And keeping aside our fan gIRL love for bihaan if u think, u would realise that it is not very easy for a girl to forget such a big incident of her life "replacement of dulha" ..and that too just bcoz she stammers.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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@Katori: Assuming she loved DS then why is she still in this marriage? She shud hv walked out on the very first day. Why is she still nibhaofying this marriage even if its for 3 months? She cud hv stayed aloof like she was initially. She very much acts like a bahu these days. If her only aim was to b Pandey bahu irrespective of whose wife then she was obviously not in love with DS.
N u say Bihaan is duty bound so he protects her? Then what abt her duties towards her husband? Has she at any time tried to understand his problems or his point of view? No again. She's judgemental n fixed abt her views.
just bcoz u can't comprehend someone's action doesn't mean u can assume that the actor is bad. Benefit of doubt Shud b given. If Shradfha cud n granted benefit of doubt why not Bihaan?
And when Bihaan said he cudnt understanding d her then or now he certainly didn't mean bcoz of her stammering. In fact she Shud know that. She talks to him the max. though its mostly their fights. n she is given a fair chance to speak up even during their fights. He doesn't butt in inspite of her stammering.
She wants to b the SUPER BAHU now. when u can't b a wife how can u b the bahu? She is the bahu bcoz she is wife of the son. If she can't b the wife then how can she b the bahu?
She wants to b perfect in every way except in forgiving / understanding Bihaan! Again its bcoz of her judgemental n fixated views.
I agree trust once lost is very difficult to gain. But what I am against her is not that she is not in love. She may nvr love him. I hate her double faced nature n her fixated n judgemental views n she always sitting on the high horse b it with DS or with Bihaan. World is full of grey shaded people. its not all b/w

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