Would you accept your husband's love child?? - Page 2

If a child was from my husband’s previous marriage, I would love to raise the child if the mom passed away or doesn’t want the child but when it comes to cheating, that’s not forgivable.

I mean, what's the child's fault? I would hold resentment for my husband for a lifetime though. I will just take the child's anger out on him.😆

Originally posted by: hellodona

Wouldn't even stay if husband wanted divorce. Would let him go to other woman.

But seen real life example , my neighbors wife accepted her husband's ema kid because his mom died after child birth.

Never seen the other way round. Women are much more forgiving, that is unfortunate reality.

They could have made Manveer a woman with ego and insecurities but her dragging the child like that just made her a child abuser.

If Angad can throw things at thought of wife being pregnant with another mans kid in a non existent marriage, Manveer should be given grace to slap Inder 50000 times.

But her behavior with the kid, dragging and manhandling after forcing her husband to stay in marriage via suicide threats is bad.

Itv cannot handle these topics anyways. Everyone's reaction is exaggerated.

The only time I have seen it being handled sensitively on itv is in the show Aapki Antara.

@Bold I agree 100%.

Manbeer overacts and faints all the time to emotionally manipulate everyone around her. I have zero sympathy with her.

But I can't sympathize with the child either. I keep thinking that they have shown an extra-cute, very fair, well-mannered child to evoke all this sympathy game. What if the child was dark-skinned brat who didn't go around appreciating the Brar mahanta drama or making sandwiches?

Originally posted by: Ishikatripathi

I am actually shocked to see that some people have voted on "Sure why not " Like wtf

I think it was picked in jest! but they are so open and honest about their relationship, kudos to them!!

Originally posted by: la_Reine

I mean, what's the child's fault? I would hold resentment for my husband for a lifetime though. I will just take the child's anger out on him.😆

Holding on to so much resentment will make me sick. My marriage is not going to survive the child - he can leave and take the child with him to live happily together.

The child is not at fault but is a symbol of everything that went wrong

Originally posted by: Irshita

@Bold I agree 100%.

Manbeer overacts and faints all the time to emotionally manipulate everyone around her. I have zero sympathy with her.

But I can't sympathize with the child either. I keep thinking that they have shown an extra-cute, very fair, well-mannered child to evoke all this sympathy game. What if the child was dark-skinned brat who didn't go around appreciating the Brar mahanta drama or making sandwiches?

I would empathise? What is not there to? She is a victim even if dark skinned brat.

Even if she was an adult. Just watch yrkkh. The male lead threw out dad and loved step brother. Step brother was shown as a brat. Audience watched and gave ratings.

But Sahiba trying to make her a Brar instead of fighting for her property rights is annoying. Like Daarji has not raised a single morally right guy other than Veer in his house.

Why Sahiba wants Simran to grow up around people like Jassi, Manveer Seerat and a spineless dad like Inder instead of a boarding school with all money makes 0 sense. Like ok Daarji wants no relationship with the kid. The kid benefits from it , any viewer can see that. Why would anyone want a girl child to grow up in a family where women are not allowed to work?

Why Manveer wants Inder to cut off every relation with kid instead of cutting off Inder. Again makes 0 sense. Aisi kya zabardasti hai.

That's what i hate about ITV—zero practicality.

I'd take the money, get the kid into a good boarding school and hire her a therapist. Plus, i'd stay in touch with her. It's enough to have just one sensible adult who cares. Being loved by one from far away is better than being stuck in a house full of toxic adults any day.

I personally wanted to go to boarding school my whole childhood. It was better than changing 13 schools while living with my dad. In retrospect, even though i love him to death and vice versa, I would have taken boarding school and a therapist with his love from a distance most days.

Dekho bachey ko uske baap se dur rakhne ka haq kisi ko nahi h manbir ko bhi nahi ..

Dekho kitney saarey real life examples h film stars k jinhone dusri teesri shadiyaan ki h divorce bhi diya h or kitno ne to divorce bhi nahi diya

Lekin bachey unko sabse h

Aaj Tak dekha h kisi film star k kid ko uske baap se dur rehte huey nahi na

Bhaley hi vo dusri aurat ya uski family se rishta nahi rakhey but vo baap ko uske bacho se dur nahi karti koi wife nahi karti real life mein bhi jinke divorce ya dusri shadiya ho jaati h vo bhi nahi

Sab apne baap se miltey bhi h happy bhi rehte h or baap un bacho ki responsibility bhi puri karta h wife unko nahi rokti

Bhaley hi vo khud us bachey ko accept na karey but vo apne husband ko bacho se alag nahi karti na hi kar sakti h

Manbir simran ko accept nahi karna to na karye it's her choice but vo simran ko uske baap se dur nahi kar sakti ye haq usko nahi h kisi ko bhi nahi h

Manbir simran se duri bana sakti h or sahiba ko bhi haq nahi vo manbir ko force karye

Sabse pehla haq simran par inder ka h or inder ko simran k liye faisla lene ka haq h inder ko decide karne Dena chahiye ki vo bachey k liye kya chahata h

Sahiba sabke maamle mein na gussey to behtar hoga usme simran ko rok liya wahi bohot h lekin simran aise abuse desrve nahi karti koi bhi nahi karta

God forbid ITV shows a family breaking apart because they are better off away from each other. They want to keep toxic families together, have the daughter-in-law come in and redeem them, basically sab ko insaan ke bacha banana, like she's some sort of psychologist with a magic wand.

Originally posted by: Irshita

Holding on to so much resentment will make me sick. My marriage is not going to survive the child - he can leave and take the child with him to live happily together.

The child is not at fault but is a symbol of everything that went wrong

Yeah, but why should the child suffer? I would probably leave the jerk of a man too, but I'm not sure what I would do with the child, it depends on the situation and if he has no one else to take care of them, then I would do so without letting my own grudges get in the way. At least seeing him every time would remind me of my husband's cheat and never to forgive him.😆