Originally posted by: PUMMY5
I said it yesterday that it looked liked Sahiba will fight for her right to work and she will be blasted for it and hey presto it happened. But many are missing the point and have jumped on the bandwagon again to trash Sahiba and make Angad and Seerat the ideal victims and the ideal couple and Sahiba is the big bad wolf in the love story of the ideal couple.
There is a big difference in the 3 Sisters, 2 of them will fight for there rights and the underdogs as well and will go the extra mile to do so and 1 will be the innocent crying baby with her big eyes full of fake tears etc.
Sahiba has a high pitch vocals in the way that she speaks and this is taken as shouting etc. She has over the years growing up being forced to take the back seat to Seerat and having to work from a young age, has been defending herself and her family and is open about it and does not sugar coat her words etc. She will defend Seerat and at times brushes off her dramas as being too innocent and easily lead but in reality its the opposite to the contrary of the things that Seerat says and does.
Keerat too has the same style of speaking like Sahiba and is fiercely protective of Sahiba who She has seen being abused over the years by Santosh and Seerat and how She knows the true nature of Seerat and her games and has on many occasions warned Sahiba about it. Being the younger of the two sisters has seen them from a different angle.
whereas Seerat is softly spoken and crys at the drop of a penny appears as meek and this it is used to deceive and protray her as a victim which has clearly been practised over time which has been aided and encouraged by Santosh to get her way and is used to it. When she was encouraged by Sahiba to learn to a craft and become independent and earn her own money etc to support herself and there parents, She was horrified by the tought and used this very point to start her dramas infront of Angad with the usual crying and fake tears that She did not know in which direction Sahiba was pushing her to and did not understand why Sahiba was doing it. She threw her own Sister under the bus to make herself the ideal victim in front of Angad.
Angad has been bought up to think that he is the best thing since sliced bread and the sole heir to the Brar Empire etc. The position has been given to him by his birth right by being the son of the eldest Son, the old fashioned way to be the head of the family business and not by his hard work or dedication to earn that position. Hence he cannot understand the passionate views that Sahiba holds for her Art, work and her independence etc to be self sufficient.
He is softly spoken, arrogant and appreciates beauty and things in a perfect way, this is shown with the Car drama and Sahiba bindass attitude to him etc. He cannot handle her with her outspoken views etc, after all everything has been handed to him on a silver plate and spoon, this is seen when he speaks in arrogance to his Business partner's etc. But speaks and listens to Seerat who will not challange him but listen to him as his word is the law.
To read here on this thread that Angad and Seerat are the idesl couple is really comical. Angad fell in love with her beauty, not knowing that the nonsence that She fed him about herself, she stole the good parts of Sahiba, like with the cooking etc. She has never done a day's work in her life either at home or gone out to work. To see people bash Sahiba and say that Angad and Seerat arevthe ideal couple is hilarious.
To try and pair Sahiba with Veer is crazy, he is like her younger brother.
To read that Sahiba had moved into Angad room and sharing his bed, have these people watched it from the beginning or are they watching with there eyes closed. She was forced to move in with Angad and the bed has a partition between them.
To say thaf She has no respect for her elders is stupid, She folded her hands and said with respect I do not agree with you Dharji. She is right we all have the right to be independent and have the right to work and her wish to make her name through her art work and not by her marriage. A very good point made by her but sadly no one backed her at all.
For Dharji to tell Angad to take Sahiba and explain in private, after trashing her along with the rest of his family. Did he imply violence to control her, is a troubling request to Angad or he will do it is a thinly veiled threat from a rich educated family is shocking. Elders too are wrong in some of there thinking and in this clearly so.
For Dharji and the others to surround and insult her with the harassment that Sahiba got because She was working is so stupid, no work is bif or small and her Art shop work comes like this, She got a job request that was fulfilled.
Even Jasleen after all that Garry has done is a thousands times worse but is hell bent on making Sahiba look like the villian but interesting not even Angad corrected his aunty, doubke standards in full view.
This whole mindset of woman being at home like trophy pieces worked in the past but with moving times it is outdated, which Sahiba tried to explain to Angad without any success, when She role played what he wants her to be like but he again in his arrogance he missed the point and wants her to stay at home with all the luxurious things and asked her what else She wants but.missed the point that he has never accepted her as his wife or even listerned to her or took any time to understand her or give her any love at all but She has come to understand him over time.
He is the biggest hypocrite after accusing her throughout there marriage in front of others, by mental abuse and man handling her, in private of being a gold digger and even threats to send her to jail for her fraud and marrying him for his money, he expects her to give up her independence and stay at home is like what planet are you on and his thinly veiled threat is my take that he will throw her out of the house to scare her but again in his arrogance has still failed to understand that Sahiba will not be scared of his threats but will actually go.
Now I think that Shaiba should divorce Angad and pursue her dreams and let him marry the gold digger fake Seerat as his trophy wife, who ran away with Garry and had a physical relationship with him, and will run off with someone else who is more rich than him. Once a cheat always cheat.
