Sahiba needs a proper guidance ! 22 march

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Posted: 2 years ago
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I have one question throughout this episode- you console your Angad but have you ever guide this girl regarding marriage ??


They have no idea that why she is not ready to accept them because she has been treated as ignorant by her mother. This whole deception has made an impression that parents can be partial and could be selfish to make their wish true. Sahiba, was given no advice no conversation etc about how marriage works, what she has to be careful etc.


When everyone are misjudging her this girl actually disown these people , because she could see how they are turning into santosh and she doesn't want her to be used as a showpiece. She is craving love because she never got. She is craving respect which no one ever gave her despite her anything. She won't understand this marriage concept because she doesn't even have any knowledge neither she wanted to do

I remember she asked Angad to atleast respect her if not love, because she has done a big sacrifice for both of families. She is too young for this marriage where she is not mentally prepared for the relationship. The reason she can't this family because they are giving her the same treatment she received from her mom.


Why manbeer can't guide her ? Lecture toh bahot dena aata hai !! She is just 22 or 23 , she is not that mature enough to understand her relationship with her husband. She sees angad as enemy and someone who had done a crime by marrying her.


Today everyone was giving lectures on daughter in law, did these people ever realised that she is being treated badly ? She is not even being accepted and that's why she can't accept them too ... Today I see a young girl getting trapped in this marriage concept where she actually doesn't understand her husband role. She will never be that wife to Angad because until n unless Angad won't change the behaviour and relationship status with her, she won't understand his importance too.

Grandparents , you never accept her talk to her how will she gonna tell you about police complaints?? I guess you need to tell her what happens in your family rules regulations etc, yeh sab toh batana chahiye usse she is a new bride...

The precap where garry instigating about sahiba, he is totally correct because she got married in an uncertain way and she will never accept this brainless family until they don't get better with her. Sahiba is reminding me of balika vadhu little bride who has no idea reg marriage etc, yet she is asked to play the role of wife .

Note : Angad you better come out clean about your thoughts about your marriage. Because she is definitely not going to talk to you ever ... She is too tough and introvert to have you as a husband , untill she finds you entertaining.



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Posted: 2 years ago
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Res..I will come back on this

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Posted: 2 years ago
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I have already given a detailed reply in episode discussion thread regarding this matter. Please go through it. However I wanted to add one more point here. I personally don’t think santhu even prepared Seerat well how to be a bahu. All she did was dolled up her beauty queen and trap rich guys so that she can marry them and enjoy life with there wealth. Seerat don’t even know basic stuffs like cooking (not saying that women are meant to cook in there sasural I personally feel cooking and driving are basic stuffs everyone should know & it’s not gender based). Santhu taught her beauty queen to do makeup and be cunning. So I really don’t see santhu helping Sahiba in this matter. However as you said anyone from Brar family should do that. Either Bebe or Manbir or Gurleen. Gurleen seems to be the best option as Bebe and manvir doesn’t like her much. Or else Sukhi tai or Sudha masi should guide her.

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Originally posted by: Az07

I have already given a detailed reply in episode discussion thread regarding this matter. Please go through it. However I wanted to add one more point here. I personally don’t think santhu even prepared Seerat well how to be a bahu. All she did was dolled up her beauty queen and trap rich guys so that she can marry them and enjoy life with there wealth. Seerat don’t even know basic stuffs like cooking (not saying that women are meant to cook in there sasural I personally feel cooking and driving are basic stuffs everyone should know & it’s not gender based). Santhu taught her beauty queen to do makeup and be cunning. So I really don’t see santhu helping Sahiba in this matter. However as you said anyone from Brar family should do that. Either Bebe or Manbir or Gurleen. Gurleen seems to be the best option as Bebe and manvir doesn’t like her much. Or else Sukhi tai or Sudha masi should guide her.

Exactly, someone has to prepare her. Because in og she was never able to accept the ml because she doesn't know that what exactly marriage means! She was never romantic or show love to him ... So when he show to her she didn't liked it. So I will say Angad too has to play a major role in her life.

Seerat is useless, she can't take responsibility of her. Doesn't know the basic thing how to clean her room forget cooking.

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Originally posted by: Ayu_12

Exactly, someone has to prepare her. Because in og she was never able to accept the ml because she doesn't know that what exactly marriage means! She was never romantic or show love to him ... So when he show to her she didn't liked it. So I will say Angad too has to play a major role in her life.

Seerat is useless, she can't take responsibility of her. Doesn't know the basic thing how to clean her room forget cooking.

I personally feel it’s either Sukhi tai or Ajeet who taught the girls to cook. Because Sahiba cooks well & Keerat can manage. I don’t see santhu teaching neither Sahiba nor keerat. I am pretty sure she was pretty busy with her beauty queen & these girls studied all these from someone else.

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Thanks this was much needed post, what these brars are doing in true sense is called as mental abuse and humiliation, they don't leave even one chance to humiliate sahiba, how can she even ask any of the family members for help who have not yet accepted her as their bahu, seriously it's just 3 days!!! Daarji and Gurleen have you lost your brain cell she has no support system here all what you guys are doing is forcing her to become a ideal bahu, she is undergoing a serious trauma right now same as angad, sahiba has not even accepted angad and his family members brars do not have any common sense if they had they would have at least did a background check on santhu and beauty queen!! 🤡

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Originally posted by: Joshrocks28

Thanks this was much needed post, what these brars are doing in true sense is called as mental abuse and humiliation, they don't leave even one chance to humiliate sahiba, how can she even ask any of the family members for help who have not yet accepted her as their bahu, seriously it's just 3 days!!! Daarji and Gurleen have you lost your brain cell she has no support system here all what you guys are doing is forcing her to become a ideal bahu, she is undergoing a serious trauma right now same as angad, sahiba has not even accepted angad and his family members brars do not have any common sense if they had they would have at least did a background check on santhu and beauty queen!! 🤡

So true she is pretty young going through severe trauma & on top of that this big torture and mental abuse. She is thrown in to an unexpected hostage situation. And now bombard her with huge responsibilities great

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Originally posted by: Joshrocks28

Thanks this was much needed post, what these brars are doing in true sense is called as mental abuse and humiliation, they don't leave even one chance to humiliate sahiba, how can she even ask any of the family members for help who have not yet accepted her as their bahu, seriously it's just 3 days!!! Daarji and Gurleen have you lost your brain cell she has no support system here all what you guys are doing is forcing her to become a ideal bahu, she is undergoing a serious trauma right now same as angad, sahiba has not even accepted angad and his family members brars do not have any common sense if they had they would have at least did a background check on santhu and beauty queen!! 🤡

More than anything she faces the much humiliation and santosh suicide stuff has made her lost in everything. The reasons she doesn't shed any tears in front of these because there is no one to console her. She has no idea where she end up when she doesn't want to get married.

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Posted: 2 years ago
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It’s amazing how you put it like this. It is the stark reality. There is no fault of hers. Saahiba is expected to play the role of a DIL to the hilt but the family and her husband is not ready to accept her in the first place. It is ridiculous to see the mindset of these hypocrites.🥶

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Posted: 2 years ago
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very very detailed explanation. completely agree.


So true. poor girl she is standing up for family, so much explanations result nothing on the top of that taunting.


Not sure. How they take it farward. its not a misunderstanding, after the truth come out. its the barars ( daughter and grandson ) who betrayed them what will be their reaction.


every one in barar family talk so high of themselves. keeping their flaws inside.


how will they face Sahiba. especially Indra. he talks so high. does he not know Jasline is hte one who suggested it. i agree moonga's cornerd them. but what is Sahiba fault.??


Mr. ATM ko Jaan jayegi bewi ko patane me😊😊😊😊😊.Can not wait for that track.

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