is not sahiba a part of this whole charade to trap the brars

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Posted: 2 years ago
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the Dr who clearly said that you should never lie to God and a Dr was convinced by sahiba santosh and keerat to do so. sahiba and keerat even watched the whole lie drama unfold and how the brars reacted to it. . sahiba who said santosh was playing with her emotions did not realise that they as a family were playing with the emotions of angad and brars. They did a wrong knowing it was wrong. Even assuming that sahiba did not know about the lie santosh had told on their status there were two incidents that gave it away that day seerat said in front of angad that rich people like them give artists like sahiba business and today santosh talked of getting treated from abroad.yet sahiba did not react to this lie. Lying on relationship with seerat knowing how much angad hates her is a wrong risk to take and that too when three times he directly questioned her and seerat about their relationship. and today sahiba was one of the main persons who convinced the dr to lie.


blind love for her sister and mother is perhaps the only justification . some will tell lying and cheating are a choice and not a mistake and i tend to agree in this case. sahiba knew she was doing wrong yet did it , she made the choice to do it and tomorrow if she does say i love you as in the precap then the lie becomes bigger


angad will retaliate and lets see if she does admit her mistake when the time comes

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Exactly, Sahiba can't justify her own actions just because she did it for her mother.

Her mother is WRONG. So siding with her and helping her with her khands is also WRONG.

It does not make her a good daughter. Of course she might think that her mother will be happy but she is becoming a bad person by doing it.

I read a lot of posts saying she is helpless. She is not helpless. She is choosing to lie and cheat just so that her mother is happy. It's selfish.

She herself told Seerat that greed won't get her anywhere then why is she on their side with their lies and plotting?

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Originally posted by: ShivaShumbo

Exactly, Sahiba can't justify her own actions just because she did it for her mother.

Her mother is WRONG. So siding with her and helping her with her khands is also WRONG.

It does not make her a good daughter. Of course she might think that her mother will be happy but she is becoming a bad person by doing it.

I read a lot of posts saying she is helpless. She is not helpless. She is choosing to lie and cheat just so that her mother is happy. It's selfish.

She herself told Seerat that greed won't get her anywhere then why is she on their side with their lies and plotting?


today she even told the Dr said that she does not want her principles to stand in the way of her mothers dream. this is a right stand to take if her mother and sister were doing the right thing but not in this issue. also by taking this stand she made herself a part of this whole deception. sahiba is appreciated for her straightforwardness and boldness to call a spade a spade . and she is not one to be manipulated and she is street smart.she is never helpless but she turns a blind eye to the faults and mistakes of her family

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: Radhika_r

the Dr who clearly said that you should never lie to God and a Dr was convinced by sahiba santosh and keerat to do so. sahiba and keerat even watched the whole lie drama unfold and how the brars reacted to it. . sahiba who said santosh was playing with her emotions did not realise that they as a family were playing with the emotions of angad and brars. They did a wrong knowing it was wrong. Even assuming that sahiba did not know about the lie santosh had told on their status there were two incidents that gave it away that day seerat said in front of angad that rich people like them give artists like sahiba business and today santosh talked of getting treated from abroad.yet sahiba did not react to this lie. Lying on relationship with seerat knowing how much angad hates her is a wrong risk to take and that too when three times he directly questioned her and seerat about their relationship. and today sahiba was one of the main persons who convinced the dr to lie.


blind love for her sister and mother is perhaps the only justification . some will tell lying and cheating are a choice and not a mistake and i tend to agree in this case. sahiba knew she was doing wrong yet did it , she made the choice to do it and tomorrow if she does say i love you as in the precap then the lie becomes bigger


angad will retaliate and lets see if she does admit her mistake when the time comes


Well, i would say she tried her best. But I guess if parents are like this one has to sacrifice. I remember the Lubna interview where she says Sahiba is the bread earner, that's why she has to do sacrifice even though it is against her principles. I m not justifying the deception Monga did, but her character is never made for ideal daughter.


She is doing because she wants her mom to be happy. She knows everything that her parents are doing wrong. She wants the attention from her mom to appreciate her and give her the same love she gives to seerat but her blind family love will let her down after marriage, when not her parents or Seerat but her fault will taken as evidence.


In my opinion more than the daughters, it's Mother who is the worst. Who is partial and mean to her other daughters. Sahiba is doing just to see her mom happy after she did suicide drama. In future episode, her mom will attempt the suicide and in panic situation to save her family reputation she will marry Angad.


She is a bread earner, and she is taken lightly. For her their deception is her order she has to follow. She hesitate to take stand against her parents because they are partial towards her ...

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Originally posted by: ShivaShumbo

Exactly, Sahiba can't justify her own actions just because she did it for her mother.

Her mother is WRONG. So siding with her and helping her with her khands is also WRONG.

It does not make her a good daughter. Of course she might think that her mother will be happy but she is becoming a bad person by doing it.

I read a lot of posts saying she is helpless. She is not helpless. She is choosing to lie and cheat just so that her mother is happy. It's selfish.

She herself told Seerat that greed won't get her anywhere then why is she on their side with their lies and plotting?

She was in their side. It was that her mom disowning her and younger sister made the two daughters to kneel down against their own principles. They never supported their mother neither sister. Even in the actual storyline she prove herself innocent later on when the Bhagodi sister is exposed and Sahiba will disclose the truth in the wedding itself, so chill.


In my opinion they are helpless and they are forced to do. They tried to stop the wedding but Santosh threatening her own daughter and disowning infront of Brar has a great impact.

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Well, i would say she tried her best. But I guess if parents are like this one has to sacrifice. I remember the Lubna interview where she says Sahiba is the bread earner, that's why she has to do sacrifice even though it is against her principles. I m not justifying the deception Monga did, but her character is never made for ideal daughter.


She is doing because she wants her mom to be happy. She knows everything that her parents are doing wrong. She wants the attention from her mom to appreciate her and give her the same love she gives to seerat but her blind family love will let her down after marriage, when not her parents or Seerat but her fault will taken as evidence.


In my opinion more than the daughters, it's Mother who is the worst. Who is partial and mean to her other daughters. Sahiba is doing just to see her mom happy after she did suicide drama. In future episode, her mom will attempt the suicide and in panic situation to save her family reputation she will marry Angad.


She is a bread earner, and she is taken lightly. For her their deception is her order she has to follow. She hesitate to take stand against her parents because they are partial towards her ...


agree with you.sahiba is doing wrong and she knows it. this is exactly what am saying. she is ready to give up on her principles when it comes to her and her family which means it is one rule for herself and her family and one rule for others . she will lie cheat if she thinks that will help achieve the dream of her mother and sister

worse still is what you are telling that deception is an order of her parents and she will follow .if that is the case she is not the girl of principles at all. she chose to follow deception to make her mother happy. going to the extent of asking a Doctor to lie is so wrong .you are playing with others emotions using death as a tool and nothing can be lower than that .

sahiba may not be greedy herself but she did lie and cheat and convinced a doctor to use the ultimate emotional blackmail card death to prepone marriage

her father said sahiba never makes a mistake even by mistake and how false this statement is everyone know now

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I am telling this from day 1..This looks absolutely bad. First time I am witnessing a female lead with so called high morals is taking part in a criminal/ immoral activity.Though i love to see Angad romancing Sahiba,but i can't root for Sahiba.Even i can't root for Angad because he sounds very deep but actions are superficial. How much ever I try to understand them i can't find one solid rationale for Sahibas' kaamoshiyan.Just to live a luxurious life one need not backstab others.its not about survival.its the luxury that maa / beti rooting for and that to by cheating a family in no way responsible for mongas middle class life . If one don't have money to bring food on table and does stealing it's understandable and can be acceptable to an extent but here everything is happening to just fulfill santhoshi and her greediness.How will that be justified!

It's going to be a difficult journey for the viewer like me.

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Originally posted by: Bharathi_gurti

I am telling this from day 1..This looks absolutely bad. First time I am witnessing a female lead with so called high morals is taking part in a criminal/ immoral activity.Though i love to see Angad romancing Sahiba,but i can't root for Sahiba.Even i can't root for Angad because he sounds very deep but actions are superficial. How much ever I try to understand them i can't find one solid rationale for Sahibas' kaamoshiyan.Just to live a luxurious life one need not backstab others.its not about survival.its the luxury that maa / beti rooting for and that to by cheating a family in no way responsible for mongas middle class life . If one don't have money to bring food on table and does stealing it's understandable and can be acceptable to an extent but here everything is happening to just fulfill santhoshi and her greediness.How will that be justified!

It's going to be a difficult journey for the viewer like me.


Exactly there is nothing to root for sahiba, angad is anyways superficial so it's difficult to relate to the leads and i refuse to believe sahiba is helpless. There are n number of ways to get the truth out without getting involved. If she so want to become mahaan in her mother's eye by getting involved in the scam then she is bigger culprit than seerat and Santosh. Atleast they are unapologetic and don't pretend to do the right thing. She keeps blaming angad ki he doesn't value others emotions then yaha to u are playing with his emotions and his family's emotions and honor. It cannot be justified by any excuse

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Posted: 2 years ago
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I complete agree in this case! Sahiba is also coming across as a hypocrite! A girl who is shown to have such high morals, and she is willingly taking part in this charade, she no longer has a moral compass. Her only redeeming moment would be her apologizing to Angad and telling him the truth before the wedding, not after all the rituals are complete.

And I wouldn't really blame Angad if he actually wants to take revenge on her, because Sahiba too had a hand in whatever Santu-Sindy were plotting. So far, I was Team Sahiba over Team Angad, but after yesterday's episode, I don't I would root for Sahiba anymore.

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Originally posted by: LadyWhistledown

I complete agree in this case! Sahiba is also coming across as a hypocrite! A girl who is shown to have such high morals, and she is willingly taking part in this charade, she no longer has a moral compass. Her only redeeming moment would be her apologizing to Angad and telling him the truth before the wedding, not after all the rituals are complete.

And I wouldn't really blame Angad if he actually wants to take revenge on her, because Sahiba too had a hand in whatever Santu-Sindy were plotting. So far, I was Team Sahiba over Team Angad, but after yesterday's episode, I don't I would root for Sahiba anymore.

Revenge must be "behind the bars" for Mongas.. definitely Shaadi is a big NO for me..but since it's fictional, we have no say

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