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Throughout their entire life Bimal, Shekhar, Laboni and Neelu were friends, forget friends, siblings to each other. Their children played with each other and considered their respective kaka-kaki to be like their parents only. Then this Ritesh fellow, whom they don't even know that much walks into their life. Do teen shabd kya bol diye ki sabka laadlaa ban gaya? i don't mind that, after all he is their son-in-law.
But what I couldn't understand is that for around two decades they stayed so close to each other and yet they are at the mercy of a guy they've known for only two months, more or less. how could shekhar demand proof from bimal of ritesh's guiltiness? Many a times I, being a human being, also doubt my friends but in the end I know that there is no question only of doubting whatever they say. So Shekhar instead of supporting his friend, behaved with him the way a lawyer behaves with a witness in court.
I guess Ekta is trying to show the reality of the world rather than her usual sugar sweet families-that in the world if your family members find something fishy about your husband, you will say you trust him and that he could never do such a thing. this is common everywhere. The dillemna is, who to believe? The people who raised you, or the person who had no hand in your upbringing? Family or love? Ananya chose love, and the two families are paying for it.
My mom says nobody's parents are their dushman. If Ananya had listened to Shekhar and not insisted on marrying Ritesh, none of this would have happened. See, Taani and Onu have known each other their whole lives, and their families are also close. No one knows about Ritesh's social background, in fact his mother was mentioned only once, and she never made an appearance, nor did any of his family members. Also, Ritesh had clearly said no to marrying Ananya when Bimal and Neelu asked him. If he chose his boss and salary over Ananya, how could she choose him over her family? How could she actually forgive him so easily just because he was crying at her doorstep? Whenever Taani and Onu have a fight, she herself makes up with him, rather than him having to do emotional blackmail.
My aim is not to compare the couples. My aim is to say that Taani and Anu have the right to trust each other and stand up for themselves, not Ritesh and Ananya. Ananya should have thought twice before letting Ritesh poison her mind. If he was as god-like as she believed, he would have kept his thoughts to himself rather than just 'casually' mentioning them.
But what I couldn't understand is that for around two decades they stayed so close to each other and yet they are at the mercy of a guy they've known for only two months, more or less. how could shekhar demand proof from bimal of ritesh's guiltiness? Many a times I, being a human being, also doubt my friends but in the end I know that there is no question only of doubting whatever they say. So Shekhar instead of supporting his friend, behaved with him the way a lawyer behaves with a witness in court.
I guess Ekta is trying to show the reality of the world rather than her usual sugar sweet families-that in the world if your family members find something fishy about your husband, you will say you trust him and that he could never do such a thing. this is common everywhere. The dillemna is, who to believe? The people who raised you, or the person who had no hand in your upbringing? Family or love? Ananya chose love, and the two families are paying for it.
My mom says nobody's parents are their dushman. If Ananya had listened to Shekhar and not insisted on marrying Ritesh, none of this would have happened. See, Taani and Onu have known each other their whole lives, and their families are also close. No one knows about Ritesh's social background, in fact his mother was mentioned only once, and she never made an appearance, nor did any of his family members. Also, Ritesh had clearly said no to marrying Ananya when Bimal and Neelu asked him. If he chose his boss and salary over Ananya, how could she choose him over her family? How could she actually forgive him so easily just because he was crying at her doorstep? Whenever Taani and Onu have a fight, she herself makes up with him, rather than him having to do emotional blackmail.
My aim is not to compare the couples. My aim is to say that Taani and Anu have the right to trust each other and stand up for themselves, not Ritesh and Ananya. Ananya should have thought twice before letting Ritesh poison her mind. If he was as god-like as she believed, he would have kept his thoughts to himself rather than just 'casually' mentioning them.
Mangal Lakshmi
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