Originally posted by: Tranquility123
Sanju that's literally not possible, when you live with someone in the same household, you will end up arguing, over the most petty things sometimes. It's not a matter of what you should do to avoid arguing, it's a matter of how you act WHEN you are arguing. There's a saying that goes, when one is raging as fire, the other should be as calm as water, so that you can extinguish the fire and not extend it.
If your friend is a male, I'd say he should just let her talk and argue and bicker because as women, naturally we get irritated about things when they don't go our way. He needs to learn to let it go into one ear and out the ear. At the same time, when she says that she's got something serious to talk about, he should give her his complete attention. It's a matter of how well he knows her. If there's something she doesn't like that he's doing, he should tell her he's working on it, and vice versa.It's a compromise at the end of the day. Theyll argue, they'll fight, they'll stop speaking to each other. But you have to put your pride and ego aside and make the first move towards reconciling if you value your relationship.This turned into an essay lol, hope it made sense? It's a two way thing btw, he can't make all the effort and she make none. You have to accept the flaws and work on them together. But fighting is inevitable.