A little sensitivity plz

First Previous

Page

Frequent Posters

griffy.fz

@griffy.fz

Rocker

+ 4

Posted: 9 years ago

#31

Originally posted by: .FlightOfEagle.
I soo agree with you,although I am fine with him.leaving but I know what you guyz must be feeling have faced tge same in oast,The feeling of hope that someone might stay!
I totally Agree with you!

yr siggy made me pause for a second😭.. the twinj feels...

I know yaar .. I had decided nnot to ever get attached again and here I have had nightmares about sid leaving getting confirmed...

this was a muchneeded post as yest there was too much negativity around

Quote

griffy.fz

@griffy.fz

Rocker

+ 4

Posted: 9 years ago

#32

Originally posted by: kusharberry

yaar my mom is so depressed to see me like this she asking what happend to me why iam looking like a lost soul and i my tears r not stopping yaar don't know what to do now i really wish sid doesn't leave i really wish my sid doesn't leave

OMG u still upset sorry i was abt to cry so I slept off thats my healer.. I m glad u have yr mom around.. i mkinda alone here.. so it hurts more as I dnt know how to distract myself...I m Pming u ..hope u better nww

Quote

Looks like you are new here. Register for free, learn and contribute.

griffy.fz

@griffy.fz

Rocker

+ 4

Posted: 9 years ago

#33

Ppl read ths post nd learn something

The environment in the forum is disturbing nd depressing

Quote

asmaanixx

@asmaanixx

Achiever

+ 5

Posted: 9 years ago

#34

It's a trying time for some people and they're reacting in ways that they only know how. Venting out whatever comes to their mind without really thinking about it first.

Yes, words have been exchanged and feelings have been hurt. It shouldn't have happened and I deeply apologize if I may have hurt someone. Believe me, it was not intentional at all.

But frankly speaking, I cannot see hate towards Sidhant. His decision to leave can be scrutinized and criticized by all means. But to have his character be bashed or accused, is something that I can't tolerate.

We all need to stop panicking, and jumping to conclusions. There is simply so much that we do not know and worrying ourselves so much like this isn't going to help the environment on the forum.

Quote

griffy.fz

@griffy.fz

Rocker

+ 4

Posted: 9 years ago

#35

Originally posted by: asmaanixx
It's a trying time for some people and they're reacting in ways that they only know how. Venting out whatever comes to their mind without really thinking about it first.

Yes, words have been exchanged and feelings have been hurt. It shouldn't have happened and I deeply apologize if I may have hurt someone. Believe me, it was not intentional at all.

But frankly speaking, I cannot see hate towards Sidhant. His decision to leave can be scrutinized and criticized by all means. But to have his character be bashed or accused, is something that I can't tolerate.

We all need to stop panicking, and jumping to conclusions. There is simply so much that we do not know and worrying ourselves so much like this isn't going to help the environment on the forum.

we all have personal beliefs and a threshold to handle what come our way..

we all are hurt by comments feels .. ways of expression

but this is a public platform

and everyone has equal rights to vent out their true feelings

but no bashing should be directed at other members.. some of my friends on TEI forum have been bashed including me for expressing our views.. even mocked. and well that is crossing the line

speak your heart out..you are welcome to do so... but no member shud be hurt by me or anyones words

I am myself going thru a very trying time...

and I totally understand what u r going thru..

I am sure you meant whats good for SID but believe me some members here have shown blatant hate to other members and that is unacceptable for me

that is the reason I made this post .. was frustrated to the core..

Quote

asmaanixx

@asmaanixx

Achiever

+ 5

Posted: 9 years ago

#36

Originally posted by: griffy.fz
we all have personal beliefs and a threshold to handle what come our way..
we all are hurt by comments feels .. ways of expression

but this is a public platform
and everyone has equal rights to vent out their true feelings
but no bashing should be directed at other members.. some of my friends on TEI forum have been bashed including me for expressing our views.. even mocked. and well that is crossing the line

speak your heart out..you are welcome to do so... but no member shud be hurt by me or anyones words

I am myself going thru a very trying time...
and I totally understand what u r going thru..
I am sure you meant whats good for SID but believe me some members here have shown blatant hate to other members and that is unacceptable for me

that is the reason I made this post .. was frustrated to the core..

I hold the same sentiment in regards to other members. There is a fine line between criticizing and bashing that should be acknowledged long before it is crossed.

Whereas your friends may have been bashed, I have been subjected to cyber bullying here on this very forum which has prevented me from engaging here as I used to. A hostile environment is something that I will not tolerate at all. I can, and will if the need arises, say something. But I choose not to as it is not in my best interest to do so. The best thing is to report the Mods right away so that they may handle it appropriately.

Rather than making posts where members are dictated on how they should feel or operate, let the Mods give out an ultimatum so that they are forced to abide by certain rules.

As you said, this is a public forum where everyone should be allowed to express their opinions, frustrations etc.

You have made this post asking members to be a little sensitive. Tomorrow, others will make another post as a reply to this. In this manner, this cycle of taunts and counter attacks will never end.

Quote

asmaanixx

@asmaanixx

Achiever

+ 5

Posted: 9 years ago

#37

Another thing, and don't think of this as me dictating on how you should behave. It's merely an advice that you are more than welcome to ignore.

If this environment of the forum is truly disturbing you, then the best thing to do is stay away. There is no need for you to engage in a negative environment that will harm your mental health. Take a break, and come back with a cooled and relaxed mind.

The best option is to hold a detached stance but that will be nearly impossible for most of you here.

But seriously. Don't engage in something that is harming you. The only one to blame for at the end of the day will be you when you had the option of walking out with a whole mind.

Quote

griffy.fz

@griffy.fz

Rocker

+ 4

Posted: 9 years ago

#38

Originally posted by: asmaanixx
Another thing, and don't think of this as me dictating on how you should behave. It's merely an advice that you are more than welcome to ignore.

If this environment of the forum is truly disturbing you, then the best thing to do is stay away. There is no need for you to engage in a negative environment that will harm your mental health. Take a break, and come back with a cooled and relaxed mind.

The best option is to hold a detached stance but that will be nearly impossible for most of you here.

But seriously. Don't engage in something that is harming you. The only one to blame for at the end of the day will be you when you had the option of walking out with a whole mind.

i garee with you thats y I have stayed away from all discussions since last three days..

have always been online caring for the rank of this forum making posts pink ad all

bt those things hold less meaning after being bullied here..

I have hardly commented anywhere ...ffrgt discussing..

I have come to just check on my friends

and believe it or not been personally messaging my friends to walk out as well.. for their own mental health like u said

its useless to engage in discussions with people who do not understand that fine line like u said,

I wanted to report to mods.. but then I thoought I walking out was a more peaceful way of ending all this

Hence I gave up and did that..

cuz this forumm meant a lot to me

but sadly had to gve up for my own good